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Joe Bananaz
why does my wife hide her cell phone at night?

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2010-08-24 18:41:45 +0000
well I dont know...are you a snoop? I think you are or else you wouldnt be wondering were her phone is or suspicious.

I wouldnt jump to any conclusions about her cheating...even though its possible. I'd say she knows you will snoop and she doesnt like that.

even though you are married there are still privacy issues that should be upheld.

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2010-08-24 18:23:28 +0000
she doesn't want you snooping through it while she sleeps because she's obviously got something on there she doesn't want you to see.

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2010-08-24 18:14:05 +0000
She is trying to keep something from you. In any open and honest relationship, there is no hiding of cell phones. She may be having an affair or planning a surprise birthday party for you.

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2010-08-24 18:13:11 +0000
Because she's hiding something..

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2010-08-24 18:15:08 +0000
She's banging the milk man.

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2010-08-24 18:13:24 +0000
There are a couple different places.
- Under her pillow
- In her purse
- In a container near the front door maybe like some where you put your keys.

It could be any where really.

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2010-08-24 18:15:15 +0000
She must be afraid of something which will hurt u...perhaps u r going to spy on her SMSs and battery explodes, thatswhy she is worried about u....

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2010-08-24 18:13:09 +0000
Maybe she got something to hide.

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2010-08-24 18:15:55 +0000
Ask her. Call her on it. Why hide it unless she has something to hide. My ex did that a lot and it was so annoying. But ask her why she does it. Or maybe you can look on the phone bill to see if she is getting calls or texts during the time she is hiding it. But ask her first.

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2010-08-24 18:13:26 +0000
Be careful I wouldnt ask her what she is trying to hide.

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2010-08-24 18:13:27 +0000
ha.. i have no idea. maybe shes texting other guys, or girls, idk, but maybe she is not just hiding the phone... she may also have secrets....talk to her and ask her?

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2010-08-24 18:18:39 +0000
She's part of a sleeper cell of terrorists.

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2010-08-24 18:13:13 +0000
seriously???? Why do you think.? You probably already know though....dont you?

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2010-08-24 18:19:16 +0000

It sounds as though she does not want you to know about something, either another person in her life or indeed debt companies texting etc.

Lots of Love
Misscpb xxx

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2010-08-24 18:16:33 +0000
She hides it from you, obviously. Probably gets / sends texts that she doesn't want you to know about. That's typically the case.

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2010-08-24 18:48:53 +0000
Hey Joe,
from your other post the other day about a wife's behavior with two men, this behavior (hiding her cell phone) makes sense too -- a wife WOULD hide her cell phone at night to prevent you from getting your hands on it and looking through it.

She may have anything stored on it that would give her secret away -- from sexts on it, to a lover's phone number, the call log with her phone calls to him, and even photographs in her saved photos -- sexy pics.
The last thing she wants is for you to be looking through it. If you DO want to get your hands on it, be very, very patient and one day she will momentarily slip up (like be in the bathroom, or in the kitchen) and you can look through her phone to find out what she is hiding... be aware that cheating spouses do whatever they can to hide their tracks, and their number one rule is to delete all texts and phone call records to their lover's number... also, if you are scrolling through her 'contacts' list, be aware that one trick a cheater does is to list their lover's name as the opposite sex name... for e.g. a cheating wife would list her male lover's name as a female name on her cell phone... it's a trick to throw you off should you ever look through her phone.
But, people are human and it is inevitable that they will slip up, so if you really want to get hold of her phone, be patient, watch, wait, and you will get that opportunity.

If you are very curious right now about what she is hiding, log onto your cell phone provider online, make up an account and a password, and take a look at the detailed phone records -- the number that comes up every day, several times, is her lover's number.
You may even be able to find out the name from the number alone, by looking it up online under 'reverse phone number look-up', or... check it against YOUR numbers in YOUR phone, just in case it is someone you both know...

I am telling you -- the way to figure out who this lover is, is not that difficult... usually it is a man from work. Another method is to try figure out who it is by thinking back about 5 to 6 months ago, WHO was she talking about? Whose name was she admiring or simply mentioning time and time again, even though you would never suspect her cheating on you? Cheaters cannot help but think of their lover all the time, and so would mention the person if it appeared innocent enough. Don't forget, that a cheater needs to be communicating with their lover... so keep a look out for the clues and signs.

She may be using his name very often in her conversations today, even if the affair began some time ago, especially if it's difficult to conceive of that person cheating with her (like a friend of yours, or someone of a very different age group, or another married person) -- she just cannot help bringing his name up.
If you think very hard, you may be able to figure out who he is.

Steel yourself; there are rough times ahead -- cheating spouses get nasty, callous, vindictive, cruel, and are constantly LYING to you... this is known as Gaslighting (look it up online) and can almost drive you crazy to the point where you are second-guessing your interpretation of reality... it's in your best interests to find out what is going on, you need to start watching her very very closely, but do not tell her you believe she has a lover, because that will give her warning to be even more careful.

If you have a GPS you can put it in her car with the tracking history set 'On' (the more expensive models have this feature for sure, I don't know if all of them have this capability).
You can hire a PI if you can afford one
You can download a keylogger onto your shared computer (if it's yours as well, I don't think it's illegal to do that, but you can check with your state's laws).

There are devices where you can tap the house phone from any jack... it's a plug in device.
However, more than likely she only uses her cell phone for contacting him.

Once you have enough evidence, confront her, get her to tell you the Truth (it's going to take a long time to convince her to do this), and if you want your marriage, hang in there, it can be done, but it's a very, very painful and long procedure.

My understanding, however, is that once a wife actually goes so far as to sleep with someone else, and falls in love with them, it's usually way too far gone in the marriage to salvage it. But only the two of you can decide that, once the cards are on the table.

The bottom line is; if you think/feel/ your spouse is cheating, they most likely are... trust your intuition, not her words.

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2010-08-24 18:13:34 +0000
shes cheating on you
sorry to let you in on the bad news

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2010-08-24 18:25:56 +0000
It's not good that you're having to ask this. Sneaky behaviour can only look fishy so i would ask her why she does it, otherwise it will eat away at you . Good luck

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2010-08-24 18:13:39 +0000
She's got something to hide that she doesn't want you to know about.

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2010-08-24 18:16:03 +0000
i don't know but you gotta find out!

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2010-08-24 18:42:06 +0000
maybe she is trying to make you paranoid so that she can start a fight about how you are always spying on her

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2010-08-24 18:12:53 +0000
can't be good no matter what...

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2010-08-24 18:30:19 +0000
Obivously she's trying to hide something.
Don't confront her on it becuase she won't tell you the truth anyway.

If you have a family plan phone service you should be able to see her call log by signing onto the company's website.

Or, at some point she'll slip up and leave the phone around when she goes into the shower.
Then check her call log and text messages.

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2010-08-24 18:20:36 +0000
im assuming you guys are on the same plan, do what i did. print out every text and phone call and have her explain every single number. in my case she wasnt cheating, just talking to people she knows i hate, but i thought she was cheating because she was doing the same behavior

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2010-08-24 18:13:27 +0000
That's a good question.
I would confront her about it.
She wouldn't hide her phone if she didn't have anything to hide, right?

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2010-08-24 18:14:16 +0000

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2010-08-24 18:14:48 +0000
Because you keep changing her background pic, font style, etc. and generally messing with it unnecessarily. Stop doing that.

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2010-08-24 18:13:23 +0000
because she doesn't want you to see it

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