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 When is the last time you said 'i love you' to your hubby or honey?
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 how can i get my husband to spend more time making love,than on his computer,he smokes a lot and is a web-desi
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 My wife is turning in to a FAT COW!?
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 Can this marriage work ?
We have been together three years . I have three children from a previous marriage. We have a new baby also. We fight alot. He makes the same mistakes over and over. He is verbally abusive and ...



bree
why does my husband treat me like dirt?
when anyone would tell you I do everything I can for him and our children.And would also say I'm the best thing for him?



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Pivoine
He needs help... and you letting him get away with it, doesn't help at all... Give him an ultimatum, and make him listen... men hate ultimatums, he'll listen if the ultimatum is strong enough...
Tell him that waht he does speaks soo loud you can't hear what he says. He needs to get help, and you need to get some boost on your self esteem...
Get him in therapy, or counselling, or even on Dr. Phil's show.
Don't take crap from nobody!
Expose him for who he is, and he'll have to learn how to treat you right! And doing everything for him does not help either... If he acts like a jerk, tell him you won't wash his underwear any longer.
A jerk doesn't like to be exposed cuz they feel like they're gods... and nobody but them is perfect.

He needs a reality check and fast!
A cousin of mine used to say this to me and I am thankful until today for it, everyone is equal because everyone in this world poops... to say the nice word...( that's not the one he used, though.) If nothing else, this alone makes us all equal.. so nobody can treat you like you're second class...

Woman, respect yourself, and he'll respect you !

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mznatural30
Because you allow him to. Step up and let him know that you have 0 tolerance for miss treating you.

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qwose
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because he doesn't think you're going anywhere. it's kinda like children and their mothers. at different times, kids will disobey their mother..and even show a lack of respect. why? because mom will always be there, regardless. to take care of the home, family and everyone's needs. --i would suggest individual counseling. you shouldn't wait around for him to make things better. make yourself better.

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tinytim10193
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he treats u like dirt because he feels like he not much of a man.just reasure him that he is a real man and see if he changes. if he dosn't then find a cowboy to beat his head in.wemon or men dont need to be abused for any reason.best of luck to u.

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Roxy
Because you let him...

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Colleen O
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Only he can answer that question...the bigger question is WHY do you stick around to let him do it?

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brwneyedgrl
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U just answered your own question basically.. "i do everything for him" your a "doormat" and as much as men love having a woman wait on him hand and foot, your to nice, and well he treats u like crap cause he can and u let him.. you want him to stop treating u like crap... then stop always being so nice and stand your ground, he's gotten spoiled.. and what do spoiled "children" do ??? They throw tantrums and think they can get away with anything and thats what your man's being a spoiled little child..

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itsjabo01
BECAUSE YOU ALLOW IT TO HAPPEN

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I am I, You are you
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Because you let him. Stop the abuse, and leave him. He is teaching your children to become abusive in this ver same nature, and it is only going to get worse. Leave him before he starts hitting you. You try to treat him good and he doesn't appreciate it. One day he will hit you, and you will try to make up for it by saying that it was only this once, and the next time you will try to find another excuse, and really the whole problem is with him. Please leave him don't become the victim, and don't subject your children to this abusive behavior.

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bigrob
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Either he is a fool and does not appreciate a good woman, OR he wants you to be especially bitter in the divorce and go after everything including the family jewels.

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sleeplessdreamer
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Because you let him. Stop being such a push over. People only treat you the way you let them treat you. I had to learn the hard way. It is not until you leave and show them that you are not kidding that they will take you seriously. Let him find out the hard way how just how much you do for him.

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guyfromcroswell
Maybe he secretly resents you for something you did. I'd need more details like how long have you been married and what does he do to treat you like dirt.

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mizzzzthang
Sweetie, some people are just never meant to be married.....Chalk it up as a learning experience for you, and get on with life....Use your self confidence and you will go far, without an abuser.....People do it every day, honey.....Take care of you, you're the only you you've got......

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river_runs
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because you let him duh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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older woman
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Could be that is the way he watched is dad treat his mom. Suggest you seek marriage counselling.

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iyamacog
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I guess someone needs to tell him the prize he has in you.
Apparantly he doesnt realize that.

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fasn8n_67
You sound exactly like me. My kids adore me, I have a good job, pay all the bills, schedule repairs for the house, make doctor appointments, etc, etc.

My husband has a job and he pays for the groceries and gas. He drinks every weekend night until he passes out. Before he passes out he picks fights with the kids and me. He screams and yells about the house being messy.

He is self centered and absolutely no company for me.

I think the real question here is why do we stay and put up with it?

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Los Mojados
Becasue you let him. Don't be a doormat. There are two things you need to do to get respect.

1. Give Respect.
2. Command Respect.

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evian
because you accepted the first time, he didn't date you like that or did he? tell him what it took to get you will be want it wil take to keep you. you deserve someone who will love and respect you. life is too short to be un happy let him know how you feel god bless

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Angie P.
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He's insecure about himself and your relationship. Go to counseling before you need to see an attorney.

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sweetthang
it sounds like he is selfish and does not appreciate you. focus on you and your children. i know its hard when you love someone and they treat you that way. sit down and try to talk to him about how you feel. if it does not get better tell him you dont deserve it and somethings got to change. maybe counsiling? it helped my marriage, however me and my husband was willing to do whatever it took to get it right. best wishes!

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LarryTx
From a point of view , somewhere along the lines you and let him get away with it and so therefore you set it up like that . No amount of love is worth being degraded and made to feel like you're not important . I would first try to talk to him about it , but if that doesn't resolve the issue you need to think of yourself and have respect for yourself and do what it is that makes you feel proud of what you choose . Good luck !

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MARIA M
Don't feel bad for him, he doesn't feel bad for you when he's treating you like dirt. Stand up to him, when he ask for something to eat point him to the kitchen, slowly turn the table. Ask him to get you something, when he wants ***(you knw) tell him you have a headache, or your cicle, deny deny deny, that won't change him but itll give you a back bone to stand up for yourself Good Luck

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msthinkpositive
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Mainly, because you let him. If he felt the way you're saying truly, then he'd treat you with respect, right?

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MICHELLE R
because he has a self esteem problem....is he short...that's probably the problem

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meme1972
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He is very insecure with HIMSELF. Maybe he thinks that he doesn't satisfy you in the bed. Maybe he doesn't have that much money. Who knows exactly but the problem is WITH HIM! You do not have to put up with it. You only live once! Do you want to be 80 years old still complaining about him? Do you want to think back to all the good times that you would've had? Do you think that you would wish that you could get those years back? Well, it's not too late. Give him an ultimatum, EITHER TREAT YOU WITH SOME RESPECT OR FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO BE HIS DOORMAT!

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heytwice
Because he doesn't know how to be a husband. You need to talk to him and tell him how you expect to be treated. As long as you say nothing, he'll continue to treat you like this. If he won't change, you'll have to decide whether or not you're willing to put up with it and for how long. I put up with it for too long, and then I left him.

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doryanne949
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first of all you deserve much better! Secondly he may be having an affair or thinking about one. If he feels guilty he may get angry and irritable with you. Or he is having some problems of his own and taking them out on you. You do not deserve this treatment. Go to counseling and try to work this out. If you cannot work this out then maybe divorce is something to consider.

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asoldierswife
XXXXXXXXXX because you let him. It's time to stand up for yourself. STOP LETTING HIM LOWER YOUR SELF IMAGE. You deserve more. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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