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 My husband found a woman on adultfriendfinder.com and has since been seeing this woman. He got her pregnant.?
I have since found out that this woman was previously married and had a child with another man so they divorced and she remarried. I dont know where her current husband is. She by the way is half of ...


 Do you believe divorced single parents...?
shouldn't date?
I just asked a question about showing PICTURES of my child to the parents of the man I'm dating (they asked if they could see some, since they are aware they won't ...


 I have been married 2 1/2 years. It has become unbearable to live with him, due to his moodiness and ?
insensitivity. He says he has already spoke with a lawyer and that I will have to pay over $500 alimony per month. I can't afford that. What should I do?...


 I have been cheating on my wife, should I tell her?
Since december I have been cheating on my wife with a woman ten years younger, the big problem is we have a 10 year old son, an 8 year old daughter and a 18 week year old baby. Our kids lives rest on ...


 my husband took my car keys. what to do ?
my husband took my car keys on purpose. this is my first week as unemployed and as to my surprise my husband took my keys. he knows that i need my car to go the the unemployment office and to do my ...


 my partner and i have been together for over a year and a half, and living together for the past 7 months.?
i have a young child from a past relationship to which i have sole custody as the mother didnt give a toss about the child as long as she still had her social life.
my new partner and i were ...


 Cheating Question "When it's ok"?
When it's ok to cheat?, if you're a man or a woman tell me why you would say "Ok, so that's why you did it"
IE: No sex, no comunication, problems in general.

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 if u were being cheated on (and did not know it), would u want someone to tell u?
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 Is it okay to beat your wife if her cooking isn't good?
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 I hurt the love of my life, now she dosn't love me anymore?
I was confused with my the love of my life and we were having problems and I hurt her so many times and now she suddenly doesn't love me anymore, and it's all my fault, I made her that way, ...


 he keeps Lying....?
My husband lies to me, it's never anything really huge, but it is affecting my trust. He says that his ex calls him to go out for a beer, but he called her...little things like this, he started ...


 World i need advise?? my marriage is coming to an END!!!?
Me and my ex-hubby have broken up after 9yr together. We had our up n down but still work through them. We move to Texas to buy a home. Ok we got the home, he was so happy when we move in. but then ...


 My husband won't help me clean the house.?
why is it that he thinks that his job is the outside and the inside is mine. the inside is where we live not the outside. we fight so much because i ask to help me inside, then i can help him ...


 if you're happily married is there ever an excuse for falling in love with another man...like head over heels
married for twelve years, and never felt like this since I married my husband. Oh, and I am still faithfull....


 Why do I have the most beautiful kids?
but they treat my like s hit?
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son-22 son-18 and my daughter is 7, she doesn't disrespect me....


 Why do men like virgins? Fellas please explain!?
Do it feel better, or is it ego? I'm curious to know!...


 Does he still love his wife?
My fiance talks a lot about his wife and the things they used to do together.
he tells me he loves me more than he ever loved her(but i think his only trying to convince himself).
They are ...


 wut does a promise ring mean?
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 should i divorce him?
I have been having problems with my husband for ages.. i dont know why i married him - i think it was just cuz i didnt think i would get anybody better, i have low self esteem as i have put on a bit ...


 How do I tell this woman that I'm taking her husband?
I work with a married man who is very handsome.. he has a wife and two kids and a third on the way, but me and him have been getting it on for the past 2 months and now we've started dating .. ...



CharmeD
what would you do if you find out who and where the other woman of your husband lives?
I would like to ask this question to wives.



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Holly
Let go.....heal, and move on. You deserve more than he can give you and if she thinks he'll be faithful to her, she'll get hers someday.

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howie r
dump him, don't waste your time with the other women its him thats the problem not her.

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Lost
I know already and it does not hurt me at all becuase they are al in Mexico.

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letterstoheather
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I wouldn't waste my time trying to find out where "the other woman" lived.

If there was another woman, i would not stay with the husband. It's not the other woman's fault my marriage is a wreck, and husband is cheating.

It takes TWO to make or break a marriage. People outside of the marriage (such as the other woman) have nothing to do with the stability my marriage.

If a man has another woman, apparently he wanted one?

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wondermom
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I've been down this road and it is a slippery slope. I personally held my husband accountable. He is the one in the relationship with me; he is the father of my children; he is the one that knows his responsibilities and the promises he made and the vows he took.
I did eventually talk with the woman because he was telling her lies and saying I was crazy and had said and done all kinds of things. Then he would turn around and tell me she wouldn't leave him alone etc..,
So I called her because I wanted her to know that I wasn't crazy and I didn't think she was and that he was the one lying and manipulating. Ii told her that we had 3 very young children together and that we were trying to work things out as far as I knew and if she could give us some time and space to do that for the kids if no other reason, it would be great.
She handled it very immaturely and was very rude to me.
Needless to say my husband and I divorced. He married this woman, treats her very badly and continues to have affairs on her. Most notable, trying several times to get me to engage in a relationship with him.
So if you are thinking about talking to this woman or confronting this woman, ask yourself what you want from her. If you expect anything in return, other than getting it off your chest, you will probably just be more frustrated.

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ortiz_chasez
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Find out if the woman knew that he was married... and if she did I would beat the **** out of both him and her... but at a later date... you dont wanna get caught..LOL

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Suthern Yankee
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I've confronted my share of other women, at first, they're always scared and embarrassed to face me. Eventually, they give more detailed information about what is going on. Many times, the object of the husband's affection is not a goddess, just willing.

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switchmistress
i would have to make a visit to her house, and it wouldnt be a pretty site when i was done, but then i would take all of his stuff and well hed be living with her when i was done

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gypsy g
Nothing.

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flaka
im no wife but i would pack all his stuff n leave it on her door!!!

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kim
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First I would talk to a private investigator and a lawyer about pictures (pictures that you take or your friends take do not count in most states - they have to be taken by a PI)

Then (while he was at work) I would clean out the bank acct and pack his things and place them by the side of the road and call him at work and tell him that he better get to YOUR house soon because the neighbors are picking through his belongings that you put beside the road.......when he comes to get them...make sure you have a copy of those pictures sitting on top! (make sure that you have changed the locks before he gets home)

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jmmy_crackscorn
Tell him you are driving him to the country and then dump him on her corner. Toss him the divorce papers out the window as you drive away. Change the locks and sell his car before he walks home.

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T
Why do you want to aggrevate yourself more? Leave it alone. Get rid of him and move on with your life.

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*ifthatswhatyoureinto*
Send her his favorite chair and tell her to keep his a** parked there as he is no longer welcome at your house.

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happypants
i wouldnt BE with someone that had an "other woman". i wouldnt give either of them the sastification of seeing my anger, my tears; instead, i would talk to attorneys and start the process of divorce. i would not waste another f-ing day on a scum bag cheating piece of crap

ps. talk to a laywer before doing anything. tape record him confessing to adulter, which can be used a proof in court. get 'em where it hurt, in his wallet. good luck

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ABBY
nothing
and if that is the case and you know that your husband is cheating what are you doing there leave his *** what the **** send his things packing to her address

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Kawaii
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sign her up for junk mail... request more info from jehovahs witnesses... have pizzas delivered... oh yeah and kick him to the curb!!!

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jens4real
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I confronted them and made myself look totally stupid. The best thing to do would be to calmly kick him out and act like it doesn't matter to you. The worst thing would be to act like it matters.

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juleyana
Ditto to wizjp.

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leeD w
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To be honest with you..I would want to go around a beat the crap out of her. But. the only thing that would stop me would be kids, if there are kids in the marriage Then i was be nice about it. and just pack his stuff.

I Hope that this helps.
no one should have to go thru this.

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Madison
It depends. It's not the woman's fault if she isn't aware that the man is actually married, but if she knew he was married then I'd confront her and just let her know that what she has been doing is horrible and how would she feel if she was the one married and her husband was cheating on her.

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Kaboom
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I know a woman who rented a dump truck and hired a few laborers to help her load the back of it with his stuff....all of it. She drove the dump truck over to his mistresses place with a friend and dumped it all in her front yard. This is probably what I would do.

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cooter726
I'd fill a laundry basket full of his dirty underwear and set it on her doorstep.

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Everlasting Life
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I went rounde there and confronted her husband and told him what they were up to.

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Holly S
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I agree with the first answer, I wouldn't even tell him I was dumping him. I would just mail or have all his crap delivered and them change the locks.
What a jerk.

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Rein
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I would mail one of each of his shoes and one of each of his socks to her house. Since he obviously wants one foot in each door......I would just help him out a little. When he had a fit and went to get them...I would pack his bags, after having the locks changes of course...and have them waiting for him outside when he came back.

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I Refuse! is a naughty BAMF!
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ill drive him over there and say we were headed to the park

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oh_jo123
when I found out that informnation I wouldn't reallhy need it anyway b/c he would be LONG GONE from my home in the first place

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Bella aka VindictiveAngel
Pack ALL of his **** and drop it off with her at her house and then drag him with a rope tied to his private area ALL the way to her house and leave him there and get a divorce.

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wizjp
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wrap his stuff and mail it there.

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stephanie
get prepered to leave him, transfer all funds into your account one day, get a moving van, and move everything you can while he is gone one day, friends and family help make this process go quickly.

scrub the toilet with his toothbrush (this doesn't serve a point really, but his mouth is dirty anyway for kissing another woman, and it will make you feel better), and don't leave him any toilet paper.

don't mention that you know, because then he would be transferring money into his own account.

if he calls you, just say one word...the woman's name, and hang up and don't return any of his phone calls. don't let him know he hurt you. don't confront them, dont do anything else, it would give him the right to call you a psycho. he's in the wrong not you.

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