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 Is this considered cheating?
I am married, but ever since before i was ever married, I have this thing where if i get drunk and go to a club, I dirty dance and kiss my girlfriends. My husband has seen it happen. I know he doesn&#...


 How to convince her to stop seeing a married man?
A single friend has been seeing a married man for a couple of years now. She is successful professionally, very attractive, fun, dynamic and with a strong personality. She says that she will stop ...


 So what do you think?
Ok we been living together for 5years. We have a son together. Lately I've been getting fed up, we've been constantly arguing.I finally see llittle changes but a 1st love came back into my ...


 how can i have good sex and passion with my husband?
I got married 2 years ago and and we don't have good sex , we have sex just like once per month, I always want to have it but he doesn't and is very hard to seduce him, he told me that he ...


 I love my wife, and she's lovely, but at the mall, why do my eyes wander?
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 when should a man remove his wedding band after his wife dies?
she died 13 1/2 yrs ago and I never removed it yet , am i wrong for keeping it on?...


 Do wife's think it ok for their husband to please himself if she does not want to make love?
Ladies is it ok for a husband to masturbate? My wife have a great relationship over the past 11 years. There is only one area that we differ lately, she now only desires sex roughly once a month. I ...


 time to leave?? help :( i am crying so much?
my husband told me today after i called him the second time that he thinks its easier to just avoid my phone calls. he also told me he cares more about his parents than me, and the fact that i don...


 My husband had an emotional affair?
He said this other woman was his "Ideal" woman, so what does that make me?
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wow..It did hurt when he said it, I didn't realize how bad it really is....


 can you help me?i'm going to get my ex back but i need your suggestions on how to do it successfully?
i know you might think it is wrong. but this is what i've made my mind to do. i want to conduct an experiment and see if bad break ups can be fixed. can you give me strategies on getting my ex ...


 Why did my husband stop talking to me?
For Christmas I got him a very big good shovel to clear our front yard 'cause we got very snowed in. For New Year I got him a smaller shovel. (Snowstorms are awful here). And my husband stopped ...


 Question about saving yourself for marriage?
Being a man of high moral standards and religious convictions, I saved myself for marriage. When I met my wife she said that she was doing the same. On our wedding night I realized that she was not ...


 Harmless fun or cheating?
I have been friends for 6 or 7 months to a woman that moved into our neighborhood recently. Both of us work from home, so we tend to visit throughout the day. A few days ago, we were sitting at my ...


 How can I convince my divorced neighbor not to sleep in same bed with her 3 young sons?
She's 31, divorced, and in my opinion afraid to be alone, so she keeps finding all sorts of excuses to sleep in the same beds with her 11, 10 and 4 year old sons. There is nothing sexual about ...


 Should I let the fact that I strongly dislike his family affect my choice to marry my boyfriend?
I feel like I have very little respect for my boyfriend's father, seeing as he: is a chronic marijuana user, used to make/deal crack when my boyfriend was a little boy, has made little effort to ...


 My wife left me while i am deployed and is living with the other guy. What should i do.?
She says that she still loves me and wants me to be in her life. I just dont know what to do.
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She also gave my daughter up to my parents until i get back. How could a ...


 Falling in Love with someones Avatar?
Ok, does your avatar look similar to what you actually look like? Or not?...


 My husband hasn't had sex with me in over 3 months?
He says he is too tired and stressed. He has not initiated anything at all in 3 months. We never even make out. Just quick little peck kisses. I know he is NOT cheating. I see his paycheck hours and ...


 Is it true that if you see a man open a car door for his wife you can be sure ....??
that either the car or the wife is brand new??
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umm....serious answers only please....


 My husband left me, wont talk to me. I'm crushed, miss him. He is emotionally abusive but I want him back. Why
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rosie g
what should i do if my husband does not want to work?



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Chucklehead
get a second job?

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john
you know what you have to do /tell him to get out

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最下の貢献者
Have sex with him.

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midget/pita
do you work?? if he doesnt want to help out give him the ultimative help or get out!!!!! a man should at least try to help out you,.. or if you have a family. even if he has to walk and do papers you know what i mean???/ well if you want to talk e mail me ..................mark41644@yahoo.com good luck to you merry christmas to you and yours

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freakinjokers_serious
WOW are you serious??? thats crazy, well not really I don't WANT to work, but have been doing since i was a child. if he WON'T work ,that's another story.. have him killed and start over

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Colleen O
Either get a job yourself or leave him.

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Latina Momma
O girl i am in the sort of same situation as you are. Why exactly are his reasons for him not working? Does he even try to go look around or not really. MY best suggestions is either kick him to the curb or if you are going to stick around with him. Help him by looking up jobs for him to go. Tell him he needs to help you out specially if you are the only one working and if he is living there we you he has to contribute with something. You didn't get married to struggle in that case you could of stayed by yourself and struggle on your own. Some men now days are too much at times. Best of Luck to you and me lol.

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ndnqt1966
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If you married him knowing that he didn't want to work...you are a fool...If he just recently decided that he didn't want to work...tell him to get up off his azz and go find a job or you will show him the door....

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April
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Oh, and you are willing to pull all the weight? Just how stupid are you? And where is your self esteem.... and better yet, where is his?????? And what WERE you thinking when you married him? Unless the guy is incapacitated, injured or whatever, why isn't he working?

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Monsieur Rick
Get a divorce and win the lottery, not necessarily in that order..

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heartsarebad
If he doesnt work then how can he eat? Where does he live? How does he survive? If you are struggling to make ends meet without his help then you can struggle by yourself.

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lily451177
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DIVORCE HIM... LIFE IS NOT A FREE RIDE

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gloria b
Tell him you don't want to either and you don't want to have sex.....or cook...or clean...

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William M
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tell him he is not a man. a man or husband takes care of his family and his wife. tell him if he doesnt get off his lazy azz you are leaving him.

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Dina K
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You can't do anything - you can't force him to work. Divorce him and find a husband who will work and contribute!

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Poppy
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You should dump his lazy @ss. That's pretty much it in a nut shell.

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Lv Dr. 4U
Find out why, is it a ability or desire issue? Dose he desire to work, but having a hard time finding work? If so, you can help him with his resume, practice his interviewing skills, and clean up his appearance. If he don't want to work then thats a different story! If his abilities are limited maybe training or vocational education may be in order.

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ladylady4470
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Tell him there is the door...Either get a job or get out!!

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teeman824
KICK HIM OUT.

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timandrea27103
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Tell him to get off his butt and help contribute to your family!

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GI Jane
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Are you supporting him? If he does not work, tell him no more sex until he does. He'll find work real fast. Also, freeze his accounts so he doesn't spend your hard working money on some loose hoochie mama who is also not working!

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MamaDiva
Girl, I once heard from my pastor, "A man that does not work, does not eat". I think it's in the Bible but I can't tell you where.

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sandra b
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Divorce! And find a real man of honor!

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starr
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I did that for too long and I am so much happier all by my self My only thing that bothers me is I waited so long

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~NIKKI~
Tell him you won't give up the poon tang until he gets a job! LOL

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lisalisa
many factors do you make more money and does he help with the house and kids?
If not then get rid of him!
You deserve better
A good husband is a good provider in all ways and so is a good wife.

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freakboynv2000
kick him out.

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Yvette D
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Then he better be a millionarie.....

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Flagger
The measure of us old guys used to be that they PROVIDE for their families.

Why did you go for one who does not?

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Valerie X- ooops!
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WHY THE *** did you marry a man that wont work????


Some of you women KILL ME! You get yourselves into these situations!!!!

I am not picking on you.....I just cant believe that

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Aster
HELLO PEOPLE!!! So quick to judge!!! We don't have enough information here. If he isn't working, what will he be doing? Raising kids, cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, laundry, shopping, etc.???? If your income is enough and you wish for him to stay home with the kids, there is no problem with that. If roles were reversed, it would be perfectly normal.

BUT...If he just wants to be lazy, and absorb your hard earned cash and assuming you don't make hundreds of thousands each year, then this is unacceptable. Tell him to find work, that you and he need money, and that's that.

If he refuses, you need to decide if you want to support him forever. Do you really love him that much? Are you willing to do this forever, because he won't change if he has no reason to? If not, time to consult an attorney and make sure he is off the cards, accounts, etc. and has no access to your money. Be prepared to possibly pay spousal support if this has been going on for awhile.

Best of luck to you.

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