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 Is refusal to perform oral on your partner, legitimate grounds for the termination of a relationship?
I partially saw something similar on one of those TV court shows, I think divorce court. I didnt keep it there long enough to hear if it was considered an irreconcilible difference.
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 What would you do if you found this on your hubby's PC?
He was emailing other woman,asking for photo's and talking dirty...you get the idea....
Telling one girl he loved her still and wants to meet her in Europe! He is in Iraq,and we were just ...


 How many of you will take your partner back after you have learned that he/she has cheated?
My girl cousin cheated on her husband, and now she wants him back. Just want to know the chances of him taking her back. She already told him about it now he is pissed. Don't know what gonna ...


 Why do married men watch porn?
Why do married men watch porn?

My husband and I have a healthy exciting sexual relationship. I am very fit and very attracitve and theres not much am not willing to do with him, to him, ...


 how do u deal with a spouse hitting you and then telling he never meant to?
probably its his first ...


 Need advice on my husband all replys will be read..........?
My husband lost his job and has done everything he can to get another one but it seems that no one is hiring , he has also applyed for un-employment and that is pending, so my question is he is ...


 would u divorce you spouse because they started to neglect their appearance or gained allot of weight?
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 Should I tell my sister that her loving husband is actually her long lost father??
My sister and her husband have been married for 8 years. They are very happy and very much in love. They have 3 beautiful healthy children and a very good relationship. Last night when I went over ...


 Adult Q: My husband says I don't give him enough you know?
Sex!! but we do it like 3 times a week, I think that's enough don't you?
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I don't just lay there, I go crazy on his ***! lol-and I'm 28 he 33...


 how do i solve the problem of my husband cheating on me?
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 i hate my husband what should i do?
my husband does not respect me and does not show me any affection and does not tell me a compliment or anything to make me feel good. I feel bad about myself when i'm around him or with him. ...


 Do you think all women perform Oral Sex for hubby?
Old women like my grandma and neighbor (70-80 + year olds) say they would NEVER put that in their mouth, but I don't think I believe them. Would their husband really stay with them if they didn&#...


 Do you think that I am wrong for expecting my husband to attend our daughter's cheerleading competition?
My husband and I have a daughter. She is a cheerleader. He has not attended a single game this year. He does share the transportation as far as drop off at practice with me and another cheer mom. She ...


 Is this cheating?
I found out that my partner slept wth someone while we were on a break.
I feel betrayed, and very upset, however I want to try and make it work, because I love him...........Do I keep trying?...


 My husband threatens me with divorce..?
My husband and I don't fight a lot but when we do, he really likes to make it big. It can be the smallest thing but he gets so mad, he goes on and on about stuff and says a lot of things he ...


 I'm dating a guy who's 4 years younger?
The thing is, I haven't got the nerve to tell him the truth. I'm afraid he might get mad at me and leave me. But its really bothering me, I know I should have been honest with him in the ...


 I cheated on my husband?
I've been married to my husband for 3 years. He's been a great step dad to my two kids and a good husband. Few days ago, i met with my ex (kids' father) at his apartment to discuss ...


 How long does it take normally for a man to have an orgasm during sex.?
How long does it take for you to spill your load. 5 - 10 minutes, hours?

Without masturabting frequently, or without having multiple partners. Like when you are with your wife or ...


 If my husband cheated on me once, asked for forgiveness, and then did it again..what does that say about me?
Well, we have had a long and happy marriage so far, but now he's been caught cheating for the 2nd time in 5 months.

First time: He literally begged and begged me not to leave. He ...


 is my boyfriend trying to hint that he wants to get marry?
he told me that one day i will have his kids.. and the other day he said he wants kid soon when he gets marry.. and than he casually ask for my ring size.. i just been kinda change the subject when ...



VanillaRoses7
i dont like kissing my husband i think its gross...?
it turns me off. his drool is nasty and thick. it makes me gag. just thinking about it does. he gets upset that i think this way. i was ok kissing my ex but him i cant stand it. i have a hard time even being attracted to him. any suggestions?
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i got pregnant after 6 months of being with him then married. he fell apart and i found out a lot of his stories and past were lies. i lost respect for him. he doesnt brush good, his teeth are nasty he had 22 cavities because he never went to a dentist, hes phlegmy, hes gross. i dont want to kiss that.



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Cinnamon
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Wow! Was this a arranged marriage? You married sight unseen, and no pre marriage kissing? I would tell him to kick your a** out the door...Your somewht full of yourself...

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fas u
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wow, gross

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yG. LoVe
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just dont use the tonuge. just use soft, subtle kisses. thats what i do

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amy j
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.Kiss with your mouth close

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malakit
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Hey, I would feel nasty also the way you describe him. Leave the pig and find a new place of your own. I don'e see a good future for you if you stay with Mr. Pig. If you are one of those who relies from a man to survive, then you are loser.

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jojo27315
It sounds like the saliva is the least of your problems. Get out now and do it tactfully. Don't deal any low blows like telling him your exes are better. If there's children involved, it's better that they see their parents that are happily separated as opposed to miserably married. Maintain your tact and composure at all times, even if he loses his temper. Both the kids and the courts will appreciate that.

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goldberg_evan
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sounds like your *** is screwed! (literally)

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Robinindahood
Reading your question it grossed me out the way you described it.If i was a woman i wouldn't kiss him either.Kissing for me is mutual.I like to kiss,but some peoples hygiene ,may not be up to par.Learn to kiss your husband with a closed mouth, are have him gargle with listerine,right before kissing.Me....i am a hopeless romantic.I'm a old fool,from the old skool. It would be an insult not to kiss a woman when i am making love to her.

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duanehofner
leave this one.

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Jon
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scope? i dont know how to fix that, i can understand the spit thing, a "wet" kisser is only fun if your in the mood, the rest of the time you avoid it and it makes them mad and frustrates you...

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ME
Ummm. Leave him and move on. If it's that attraction is gone.


IF NOT.

Ask him to stop drooling on you and brush his teeeth. Most importantly teach him how to kiss you the way you like it.

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hiba
you're in a pickle.. why did you marry him if there is no attraction ?

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Stand Up
Why did you marry this man? Surly you knew these things before you said I do. Then you mentioned your ex, of course he would seem gross if your ex is still on your mind. You did say for better or for worse. Voice your concerns to your husband and leave your ex where he belongs out of your marriage and in the past.

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daljack -a girl
Tell him that you want to try some different ways of kissing.

Tell him you want to lead and for him to follow.

Then give him some instructions on what you like and don't like.

Maybe he'll tell you he's not crazy about how you kiss.....and you can both learn some things.

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Just a guy
hahahahahahaha..........this is toooooooo funny !!!

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mr danger
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Before you marry your next husband , spend a lot of time kissing him so this kind of thing never happens again

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rmdybles30
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Well, teach him how to kiss.

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itspink22@sbcglobal.net
Ur husband should take better care of his mouth if he wants you to be attracted to kissing him. He has a lot of nerve to get mad, it's gross just reading about how he drools.

Tell him that if he really cared and he wants you to kiss him then he needs to take care of this matter with his drooling and stop getting mad because it is gross

If that don't work then either do something that gross him out so let him see what it's like or refuse to kiss him all together.

Good Luck

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snorfgoogle
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o wow .. that's kinda weird .. i love kissing my bf .. but i mean everyones different .. watever floats ur boat i suppose just explain it to him

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Drea Z
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ok, well then what about this guy attracted you to him? if you aren't attacted to him then why are you married? i love to kiss my husband, even though his breath is rank cause he smokes and i don't. i just have him brush his teeth and use mouth wash. i can't imagine not wanting to kiss my husband. good luck.

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gloria b
Lotsa weird ones today! Love peoples imaginations!

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Jack P
Thanks for the laugh.

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AskMe
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What a sad situation. Maybe you can work with him on how to improve these, not so good, qualities. Maybe you just need to help him because he has no clue.

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Debie H
I am having a hard time believing this is a real question, because only a fool would marry a man that she has "a hard time even being attracted to".

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curiouscanadian
Get yourself out of there girl! Run!

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sumfin
How do you end up marrying someone that you hate kissing? you had to notice he was a lousy kisser when you were dating?...or was he a good kisser and went bad?.... maybe he doesn't like the way you kiss?.. what the the priest say?.. "you may now shake hands with the bride?"... lady I think you need to sit down with your hubby and discuss the relationship.. I think there is some other reason that you don't want to kiss him. maybe you want someone else... seek professional help lady

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Jen0408
My thought is that if you're that unattracted to him, you shouldn't even consider being with him. Who wants to be with someone who grosses them out? I think you should take some time to yourself and find someone who you ARE attracted to.

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♥♥♥♥
Tell him to get his shi* together or your out of there.
send him to the dentist, for that saliva problem, let him know that bad Hygiene's is not acceptable with you .
and if that don't work leave him.
And Nexis time take your time picking your man.

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just me.
If you feel that way (and I would) get it over with, its not going to get any better honey.
A man that's gross will always be gross.
Don't wast your time trying to fix someone that is old enough to know better.
Maybe your not the kissing type and that's okay you can show love in other ways beside kissing.

I feel so sorry for you having a gross man, no need for that.

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