Women, would you lose your patience and interest?

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2008-08-22 01:32:21 +0000	I am probably different than most women, but I would make the move and see what he does. All of the responsibility for this should never be put on the man. Whichever party takes the initiative first is fine as long as both parties are okay with what happens. Why should the guy always have to make the first move? I jumped a guy I liked nearly 4 years ago and I have been in the most happy marriage with him since. BTW: the "physical" part of our relationship is more outstanding now than it was when we began. If somebody doesn't try, you'll never know. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:00:46 +0000	Yes I would lose patience and eventually interest Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:07:28 +0000	i would think maybe i was making a gay best friend, make a move, try to hold her hand, if she is still spending time with you she likes you too. answer mine plz: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqJ8SpmsUvQNsPa5dBxs3mzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080820145823AAZi56z Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:12:19 +0000	you are one of those rare gentlemen. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:03:43 +0000	maybe you should try to be the "aggressor" percy and hold his hand first, then you'll know how comfortable he is. I bet he's thinking the same about you. JUST DO IT FIRST..... :) GOOD LUCK Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:54:35 +0000	Yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:06:11 +0000	absolutely. 100%. :( Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:02:53 +0000	yes i would, the gay thing crosses my mind....or are you a virgin? or are you really not into her? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:42:24 +0000	Yes. It can be annoying when someone comes on too strong, but on the other hand, it is also annoying when a person you are attracted to doesn't touch you. Touching is a sign of romantic interest and affection. If someone is nice to me but doesn't touch me, they only seem like a friend since that's what my platonic friends do. I wouldn't want sex for a long time, but he should at least give me a hug by the end of the date or hold my hand or give me a peck on the cheek. Not doing any of those things hardly seems like he's interested. I want someone who is emotionally demonstrative. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:56:07 +0000	I would start to wonder if he was a closet gay or something. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:45:26 +0000	No!! DEFINITELY NOT!! I think you're a complete gentleman, and I would not lose patience or interest. I'd think that you respect me a lot, so much in fact that you don't want to offend me by treating me like a cheap slut. I think the physical side of it should come later when both of you agree to be mutually attracted. But I would suggest, just so she doesn't get the wrong picture, to verbalize your feeling for her. Tell her how you feel and tell her why you're not kissing or holding hands... Good luck! and i hope your girl knows what a gentleman she has!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:15:28 +0000	It wouldn't turn me off at all, though if he wasn't making any of the moves, I would have to see if it's because he doesn't like me in that way or he's shy. I'd make a move first before making my decision though and wouldn't judge completely on that especially if we were going on dates and the attraction is obvious and not just old friends hanging out. If I went to hold the guy's hand and he moved away, I would completely take that as rejection. I'm not one to always make a move either and I know guys aren't always the type to make the first move and it doesn't always have to be expected like most women assume. You have to take the initiative sometimes though, the rush of doing something you don't normally do is nice and will make the other person feel wanted and appreciated. Good luck. ;] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:55:30 +0000	If he likes 'you', he'll eventually want to become physical. After just 'multiple' dates? No, I wouldn't lose my patience. After multiple months? I'd probably lose interest. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:57:11 +0000	I would lose patience. Not because I need to have sex or anything but I want to know if I'm a friend or something more. Why be in limbo? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:07:46 +0000	Do you like her romantically? My husband was this way with me and now, well we are very happily married obviously. I think it is a very good way to start a fantastic relationship. One that is strong, deep, and truly meaningful. Don't rush the physical side. And if she starts to act as if she is confused about how you really feel (and better yet before it gets to that point) talk to her and let her know just how much she means to you. A woman loves a man who can verbalize his feelings for her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:55:14 +0000	i would think that he likes me but not in a romantic kind of way, that although he enjoys my company he is not attracted to me Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:05:45 +0000	no and I would say when the time comes for the new change ...{cause eventually it would change if hes interested }... it would blow your mind!!! Ever heard of the best! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:57:42 +0000	yes. cause touching is a sign of physical attraction Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:22:47 +0000	Perhaps you're just not that interested in the girl you are seeing. You didn't say how old you were so I can't really give you a solid answer to your question. I wouldn't say that you were gay just that maybe this person doesn't do it for you. Before we married my husband was very shy and reserved and would never make the first move because he was afraid of being shot down, so to speak. Once I let him know a little about how I felt things were better but it was still almost a month before we first kissed. If you really care about this girl share your feelings with her and maybe she'll take the situation into her own hands if she feels the same way. I know it's not that great of an answer but I'm being honest with you. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:55:16 +0000	That is a gentle man and they are rare these days Linda Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 01:23:58 +0000	get over the shyness , and make a move Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-08-22 00:56:04 +0000	probably, you are normal to get impatient with him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No