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Poetic D
Why throw it all away for one ACCIDENT ?
You spend thousands, endure the stress, send out invitations etc.for the marriage

After all that you slip once, and *ACCIDENTALLY* cheat. Then she actually has the audacity to talk about divorce ?????
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She didn't know I was married while we were secretly dating. I went to her apartment, one thing led to another, and it wasn't my intention to cheat, so it was an accident. I have a good excuse, so don't jump down my throat.



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pussycat
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You have the audacity to call cheating an accident. No way; I don't buy it! You had every chance to get out of the situation and stop. Don't you get it? You cared more about your own thrills of the moment and satisfaction than your marriage. How about first taking responsibility for your actions and try to understand how she is feeling; not how if affects you. How did you expect her to react? She doesn't trust you - got it? She doesn't know if she can live with someone, even though she loves them, if she can't trust them. How would you feel?

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Divie
There is no such thing is accidental cheating, where did you get that idea? Cheating is cheating. You went to the woman's apartment with one purpose only, to cheat, and to see if you could get away with it. Unluckily for you, your wife found out. Now if you still want to get back to your wife's graces, you can start by not being so cocky, change your attitude. You sounded arrogant in your question with the word audacity. Be humble and admit your mistakes to your wife. Maybe she will believe you that you will not do it again (rolling my eyes!)

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Sarah
she probably thinks that you don't love her anymore, if you don't love her, then what's the point of the marriage? if you TRULY do love her, talk it out with her, there is no other way basically. cheating is a very serious matter. and you're saying you would stay in a marriage because you worked hard on wedding invitations...?

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OOO K 611
You are right all men cheat "accidentally" or on purpose LOL If you are a good man and she loves you tell her to grow up and deal with it. Tell her the next man will cheat on her and who knows he might beat her too!!!

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Colleen O
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DUH, did you know you were married? You CHOSE to go to her apartment. So tell me where the accident happened? You Chose to unzip your pants and drop your drawers...STILL knowing you were married...no accident there. When you get into your car and CHOOSE to drive the wrong way down a one way street a head on collision isn't an accident...CHOOSING to be a moron isn't an accident either.

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poodle mom
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you dont ACCIDENTALLY cheat. thats not an accident, thats just plain wrong.

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xoxo gossip girl oxox
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no there is no ACIDENTALLY cheating. how did you wind up kissing her? how did you wind up naked and with your d**k in her p****!!! are you insane. you dont just hang out naked then OOPS I FELL ON HER. it doesnt work like that. there were plenty of opportunities to stop what happened. you shouldnt have even been over there. you wanted to cheat. you are a dog and an a$$hole and if she doesnt divorce you shes stupid. you deserve to be left you pig

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crystal17343
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I hope that she takes you for everything! Ha! Accidentally cheat. You can't even man up and admit that you made a BAD CHOICE.

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deerlady2000
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You have some nerve, asking why throw it away. You threw it away. You are so selfish and self centered that you cant even admit what you done was with intentions. NO ONE accidentally goes to someone else's apt. and accidentally has sex with them... Who do you think we are morons that going to believe that. She didn't end it because of an accident SHE ENDED IT BECAUSE SHE WAS CHEATED ON. I hope the ole saying is true, what goes around comes around and someday you feel the hurt of being CHEATED ON!!

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Kathy R
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That's a crock. CHEATING IS CHEATING. I don't care how much you say to justify yourself. I think your wife is right to talk about divorce. Especially since you deceived the woman you "accidentally" dated and slept with. You made your bed, buddy.

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jacquie
And that's what you get for cheating. It's a learning thing. You learned that you didn't respect your wife that's why you cheated so move on.

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adelaideadam1981
oh man... i hate it when i accidentally fall underneath a woman and we start to grunt away our desires... please, you don't accidentally cheat... screw up maybe, but not accidentally cheat. So start with calling it what it is.... that would be a start... secondly don't refer to it as audacity when she talks about divorce after your screw up... try an apology... then some counselling...

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lisalisa
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It is not the cheating I am worried about by reading your post you sound almost selfish?
Sorry not trying to be mean but that is how your post sounded as if you had the right to cheat.
If you really love your wife you need to change your attitude
GOOD LUCK

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believe in miracles
You don't "accidentally" cheat, that is the stupidest thing I have heard in a while! If you cheated then she is better off without you! You know damn well what your doing when you go behind her back and spend time with another female intimately or not! You knew exactly what you were doing when you crossed that line. I hope she leaves you high and dry and finds someone who will cherish her and treat her with the upmost respect!

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Skywalker
Are you crazy ? Cheating is cheating. Being with a woman other than her is no ACCIDENT ! She should dump you like NOW ! Like you are accidentally an #%^##%^%^ !!!

What did you tell her ? "Sorry honey I was just walking along when this naked woman came out of nowhere right in front of me. I tried to stop but my pants were down and my penis was already out there. I thought I had the right of way so I kept on going. There was a crash. There was a collision. The damage was minimal. All I lost were a few sperms. I think it can be fixed." An accident is what happens between two cars, not two people !

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fire_inur_eyes
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Accidentally cheat?? Cheating is cheating--lying is lying--there is no accident--there is no excuse---you would not accept that-- so she won't either. Diviorce??? You are lucky your d--k wasn't cut off. Women hate to be betrayed and disrespected. get ready for big time money and a lifetime of aggravation for you accidental cheating game !! Sorry--no sympathy from me. Good luck.

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Allan C
She's probably afraid it will happen again. The total disrespect on his part is a slap in the face. Finally, a relationship is built on trust, and at this point she should reconsider her options. Do you blame her? I don't. Matter of fact I applaud her. There is no "ACCIDENTAL" cheating! I don't care what the circumstances were.

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Eli M
And Tyler really did just fall on that watermelon...and get it stuck...

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Amanda R
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Yes, she has.

Why spend thousands of dollars planning a wedding just to marry someone you don't respect enough to keep your dick in your pants?
Answer that one buddy.
It would also be amusing to hear how your cheating was an accident. Did you slip and fall?

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skippa
go crawl back under your rock...i hope she takes you for every cent you have...how do you acidently cheat?
EDIT... you were secretly dating but it was an accident? kep telling your lies..the only person you are fooling is you

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De Deuce
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Cheating on your SOON to be bride is NO accident.

Better she find out now then AFTER the marriage.

Your are an idiot, plain and simple. That is demonstrated by two things, your idiotic act of cheating on your fiance and your idiotic charecterization of it as an accident. You think the whole world is a dumb as you are but you will soon find out that of all the dummies in this world, you lead the class.

You got what you richly deserve.

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mudgirl
Audacity? Accidently my azz. Deny that during ur mishap you never once thought of your wife? It was no accident you threw your vows out the window...why shouldnt she throw you out also?

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Fred W
"Audacity"? That's her right. You gave up any claim to her, when you broke your solemn oath to love, honour and cherish her.
"ACCIDENTALLY"? What happened, you slip on an icy sidewalk and skewer some young tramp with your rigid digit?

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Deejay
How do you accidentally cheat?

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CountTheDays
Cheating is not accidental. If you expect to get away with infidelity you are not a worthwhile mate - you cannot be trusted. get over it. You'll be divorced in no time and then you can go sowing your oats where ever you are allowed.

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K
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Accidentally Cheat. Oh, How do you do that?
If you had the audacity to do it then she has the right to divorce. Your lucky she is only talking about it.

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jossieray
There is no F****ing thing as accidentally cheating.... So what if it accidentally happens again.... You can't even take resposability for cheating the first time, she is right to dump your sorry excuse for a husband.....

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Diamond in the Ruff
. Accidentally cheating isn't possible. The biggest problem with this scenario is that you aren't talking to her at this very moment about how it will change and all the things that you have with her and why you adore her.

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Helen Scott
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Well....maybe you shouldn't have cheated. We're suppose to...what? Feel sorry for you?

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OzDonna
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accidently? What happened did you trip and fall into a vagina?

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Rayven Viktoria
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how the f**k was it accidentally cheating? did u fall on a girl and it just went in? lol
anyway, im not the jelous type so i dont understand a divorce over a guy cheating on u.... id just say sorry to the guy 4 not bein enough 4 him and try 2 be a better girlfriend/fiance/wife.

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