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 Could he be bi?
Went down on him a while back and when he finished his words were"Dude ! " I Freaked out! I didn't say anything I just got quiet and was making sure I didn't hear anything wrong ...

 Is it normal.....?
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 Ok me and my wife are beyond Problums?
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Why do i get pissed off when my wife does not want to have sex with me?
I have been with my wife for almost 5 years and married 1 1/2 years and when she turns me down foe sex, I GET REALLY MAD, and I don't know why? I think that it is because she will tease and talk about it during the day and then when it is time, she says that she is just ready for bed. This pisses me off insanely because she does it over and over and does not stick to her word, WHAT IS HER PROBLEM. Oh, I am not bragging or just saying it, but I am well developed in that area and that is not a problem AT ALL! Ladies and fells can you help, please. I love my wife and I want a good healthy relationship. I just want to know why you think she does this and why do I get so mad over something like this?

Your thoughts please....

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2010-11-12 16:38:34 +0000
ahh women....... they do everything they can to GET you to marry them, and then they neglect you after wards. Then they wonder why men go elsewhere for their physical NEEDS. You are perfectly justified in becoming angry. She and er friends are probably laughing about this, and there`s a good chance that if you aren't getting it, someone else is. Withholding sex, or prudishness is a perfectly justifiable legal reason for divorce... maybe mention that to her. Be sure to change jobs a year in advance though, you`ll want to make sure that she makes more money than you, otherwise you`ll continue to pay for the sex that you still aren't getting, after the divorce. Here is an interesting book that might help you. www.protectionformen.com/

edit- my wife tried that crap one time. She refused sex, so i refused to go to work. I won. Once a week went by and she realized i was serious when she didnt get a check the next week, she became very friendly, Lmao. They can pretend to stand on ethics all they want, but they`ll still do anything for money. There`s a word for women like that. They may not like it, but the truth often hurts

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2010-11-16 13:47:06 +0000
It sounds like for your wife, it's more of a control issue than a sexual one!

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2010-11-12 16:06:50 +0000
You can't have a healthy fulfilling marriage without having sex on a regular basis w/ your spouse.

So unless she wants to start having it w/ you, you should be planning a divorce, otherwise you'll just have to stay w/ her and suffer.

Good Luck.

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2010-11-12 16:23:52 +0000
You getting really mad is what is turning her off.

I dated a man like that, he would get furious if I turned him down.
That just made me slam my legs closed all the harder.
Seriously it is a real turn off.

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2010-11-12 16:05:36 +0000
She's what we all call a c*ck tease. She doesn't need sex...she gets off on frustrating you.

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2010-11-12 16:02:29 +0000
Because you're an immature jerk. Being an *** is not the way to enhance your sex life.

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2010-11-12 16:09:10 +0000
Think about what she does during the day... if she spent her whole day cleaning and working by the end of the day Sex is the last thing on her mind. Maybe you should try catching her in the morning when it's fresh on her mind. When she gets in bed you need to initiate it do what used to make her giggle.

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2010-11-12 16:02:01 +0000
She's using sex as a way to exert control over you. Tell her to get over herself, and if you'd wanted to go without sex, you would've remained single.

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2010-11-12 16:29:00 +0000
I masturbate and sometimes my wife will "lend a hand" too!

Why get mad when you can masturbate?

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2010-11-12 16:07:25 +0000
Well, if I were you, I'd be more upset by the fact that when you DO come to bed she's in there riding your best friend like a bronco buster on a championship stud. Might explain, too, why she doesn't want to have sex with you. The girl is worn out!!

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2010-11-12 16:10:14 +0000
Could be a number of things. One she might be cheating. Two shes probably sustaining control. Three, just up your "mojo" work the magic, have some candlelight dinners, take her dancing....On a side note, dont try to wait her out, she will always win!

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2010-11-12 16:10:17 +0000
Well, for men, foreplay is 5 minutes before the deed. For women, it is the full 24 hours before the deed. So if something happens to upset her, she may not want it anymore. Also, she may like that she knows it upsets you. So ignore her for a while, in that area I mean. Just spend time like normal, but don't mention it. If she brings it up, act like you don't care. Shrug your shoulder and say when it happens it happens. She will wonder what is up with that. Sorry you got such a nut case. I see my b/f everyday and jump him every chance I get.

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2010-11-12 16:04:33 +0000
She always says yes to me....

I got no help for you, dude.

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2010-11-12 16:03:50 +0000
Maybe by the end of the day she is too tired. try some afternoon delight?

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2010-11-12 16:07:58 +0000
Because no one like rejection. On your part there maybe something in your past that sets you in a frame of mind to be irate when you are rejected in that capacity. Your not unusual, neither is your wife. women like to tease...I'm not saying its right, but it certainly is fun. It also could be a factor that she says "no" so you do get angry and therefore has a legitimate reason to stay away.

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2010-11-12 16:04:48 +0000
If you stop thinking about it or stop asking You will be rewarded because ive learned things always come faster when not asked for just let it go for a few weeks. see what happens.

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2010-11-16 06:05:27 +0000
Wow hunny. Sorry your going through this. That really sucks. It's wives like that that give the rest of us a bad name and make men afraid to get married. Thats what makes me mad. I love sex, and if I could be married to my BF or live together, we'd be doing the nansty every single night and most days, damn. Whats wrong with her?
I also hate teases, dont you? Tell her not to be a tease, in fact tell her if she doesnt put out you'll have to go find it elsewhere. If she lets you go elsewhere than she doesnt give a crap about you or your marriage because that is a man's nessesity and if she wasnt gonna put out, she should have left you for someone else to ravage!
Good luck hunny, and you deserve better than that!

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2010-11-12 16:03:03 +0000
I agree with Ms. GTO

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