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 Would you give him another chances? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
He once hurted you deeply. He asked you to leave him alone--no any types of contacts. He even said, if I contact him again he will get law enforcement involved.

He is now regretting and ...


 how old do you have to be to get married?

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 Why would my ex keep calling me while he's with another girl? GUY inputs PLEASE????? and women too...?
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 how would you feel about adoption?
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I have 4 kids, 3 seniors and a sophomore.
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 if your wife cheated on u and got pregnant?
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 Sex Question!?!?!?
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 how long would you wait before getting married?
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 did i screw that up?
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 Ladies do you like to be taken?
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 boyfriend or husband?
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 Are extramarital affairs necessarily bad when both people are involved in bad marriages?
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 Do you pretend or ....?
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 At 47 Is it to late to find true love?
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 Should I leave my Husbend.?
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 Ladies do you agree with this?
I got into a discussion today at my doctor's appt. He told me that women were the emotional ones and men were the sexual. He went on to say that rarely, a woman is very sexual and that she is ...


 What do I do, when my husband verbally abuses me and I don't know how to coupe with it?
I've been only married with my husband for 6 months and already he's been verbally abusing me and sometimes being physical already. I am 5 months pregnant with his first child, but he ...


 How Old Were You On November 4, 1986?
This question doesn't apply to those people who are currently under 20 years of age.
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 i have been marriage for over a year and my hushand is a pastor and he want tuch me are let me sleep with him?
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Jess
Why do husbands think it is ok to cheat and lie about it?
I found out a couple of months ago that my husband cheated on me with and ex-girlfriend, but he is still doing it! He told me then that they didn't do anything, they just talked, but I beg to differ, from what I know, found out, and have seen, I know different, he says he is a man and has no reason to lie about anything, but obviously he does, cause he is!! How do I handle a situation like this, I have debated leaving, but I love him so much, I cannot imagine my life without him.



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Carm Soprano
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If he can't be honest with you he does not respect you. Leave. He has no remorse.

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Smooth
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Call Jerry Springer. He always has a way to help people like you work this stuff out.

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Ross
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The same reason that wifes this its ok to cheat and lie about it.

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ndnqt1966
If he is cheating and you know for a fact that he is....why would you want to be with him? You should leave him...he is a cheater and a liar. Why do SOME husbands think it is ok to cheat and lie about it? Well in my opinion they don't really think it is right...therefore they lie to try and cover up their cheating ways. Hoping they can still have their cake and eat it too.

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applesauce
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You are enabling him to do this. He knows that he can walk on you and do whatever he pleases and you will go nowhere. YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM! If he loved you he wouldnt be doing this to you, so think about that. The fact that you know and your allowing this to go on, why would he stop? Hes not going to!! LEAVE HIM! You will find someone better! You deserve better!

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chaoss13
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First, please refrain from generalizations...makes good guys like myself look bad.
As for your hubby. You obviously did not disapprove enough or react in a way that would straighten him out. Honestly, the fact that you are still married tells me you are a complete doormat.
You need to get out of there before you are dependant on him in every way, shape and form. Hopefully it's not too late.

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Belinda B
dump him!!! what are u waiting for??? or cheat on him with his best friend..

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♪♬
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He's lying because he's selfish, he's to concerned with what he wants and satisfying himself to be a good husband for you. If you don't have children with him I would seriously leave, its really unforgivable what he's done. You could also hire a private investigator and use his findings in divorce court, it could help you get more $$. If you have children with him then try marriage counseling. But honestly he sounds like a cheater and he'd do it again

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Disco Stu
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Not all husbands do it.

YOUR husband does it because you put up with it and he is a jerk.

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Valerie X
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Cheating would be the dealbreaker for me.

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Goddess Amore
Because they are pigs.

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trysh_mc
Please seek counseling for yourself. No one here can tell you how to live your life. You need to speak with a professional as does your husband. You may want to try and convince him to go with you. And let him know how you feel, what's causing you to be suspicious or if you have proof - present it. Maybe he doesn't know how much you've un-covered and will confess when presented with the evidence.

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Bull in a china shop
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Men are pigs and we're biologically wired to want multiple partners. The idea of monagomy is a self imposed prison to men because of this biological fact.

He probably loves you but just needs to express this biological urge.

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free_angel
Can you imagine him giving you some filthy STD? You contract that and you'll wish you had of kicked him out.

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redpeach_mi
the only person that can stop him from cheating on you is you. apparently he is not going to stop, so you need to make him. tell him that he is to never have any type of contact with her again and if he does, you're gone.

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ZarahzMA
If he's lying to you, then he knows what he's doing is wrong. If he continues to do it, then he doesn't care about your feelings and he most definitely does not respect you. I understand that you love him but a relationship is nothing without trust, honesty, and respect...Once a cheater, Always a cheater! Don't let him make a fool out of you!

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mac
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Can you imagine the REST OF YOUR LIFE like this??
Wondering if he's cheating again and knowing he is, coming on here and asking for advice about it???
Come on.
It will be hard, but LEAVE HIM!!
He has obviously made it perfectly clear that he has no intentions of stopping and that those wedding vows you two took together, really didn't mean a whole lot to him.
Leave him.
Good luck!

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Adam R
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Not ok. Shoot him.

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Mindy S
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why is it that when someone (other than our husband/wife) does something just as dumb...we dont let that bother us..as a matter of fact we tell them that it is dumb and that we dont agree with it and that we want no part of it..but when it is our spouse, we think that the whole world is coming to an end!...be strong and let him know that this is not ok..and as far as him lying to you about...he feels ashamed because he knows what he is doing is wrong..dont let him walk on you like that..get up and leave...you can do better than that..he will only continue to do it if you let him

good luck

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rosei16
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It really sucks to be in love all by yourself.

Honey, yes you love him, yes you cannot imagine your life without him, but can you REALLY continue life with him, knowing he is cheating?

It would be one thing i he had asked your forgiveness and is turning away from the cheating... but he wants his cake and to eat it too, and is LYING to u about it.

Of course he will lie, he doesnt want to hurt you, but is too dumb to realize that his lies are what is hurting worse, adding salt to the injury if you will.

I hope this all works out for you. I know if my husband cheated, lied, and continued to cheat it would be so hard for me to leave, as i love him completely, but I would have to. Someone has to love and respect me back, and if its not gonna be him IT IS gonna be me.

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Kathleen B
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Why do they lie about it?
I think it is because if they tell you the truth they are admitting they actually did it and if you get upset they are actually taking ownership for their actions. And they know it is wrong, and don't want to have to actually admit they are a$$holes and wol rather just lie. Not to mention I think they have the fear of actually loosing you that he would rather not take the chance. It is really sad!
Why do they cheat because they are jerks and don't have a bit of emotion in them and they think with their pee-pee's.

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Kitty
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He's a liar. He has no problem lying to you about having sex with another woman. He made a promise to you and he's broken it and really seem to show no remorse for it, which means he will do it again. I suggest you start a new life without him, because I can promise you, he will do this again and again till you do leave him. They do not change. They DO NOT change.

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Sweet Suzy 777!
He lies about his adultery because he knows it is wrong. If you stay with him he is having his cake and eating it too. He is totally disrespecting you. Walking all over you and his x gf. His head must be so big he can't get through the door anymore. Why do you still love someone who treats you like trash. The man you thought he was, is not who he is, he is a low down lying, cheating adulterer. I would boot him to the curb so fast, divorce him and get every thing I could from him.
He wouldn't be wiping his feet on me!!! No way.

There is life after divorce. No need to stay where someone is just using you and that may come home with some fatal disease and give it too you. Yeck! You really want his girlfriends seconds and by the way she is not his x any longer, now is she?

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Mer
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OUCH!! What a horrible situation! First of all, when a man says that he has nothing to hide, that usually means that he knows you know something, but doesn't know to what extent, so rather than be upfront and honest and risk losing you completely, they lie to cover thier asses... Men are stubborn and most of them do what they want whenever they want.

The fact that he cheated doesn't neccessarily mean that he doesn't love you, otherwise, he would just tell you and let the relationship end. Most men are just sexual creatures.. This doen't make it right by any means...

My husband cheated on me early in our relationship. I flipped out and it almost ended right there, but like you, I was so in love with him, I REFUSED to let some floozy come between us. We talked until we were blue in the face and went round and round in circles until finally, I came to a conclusion that, to my knowledge, ended his little cheating habit. I turned it all around by simply telling him "fine. New rules. You want to cheat? Then cheat. But I get to cheat too." After rendering him speechless, he finally replied "I can't stand the thought of you with someone else" and I said "exactly." He's never cheated again, well, that I know of anyway. It may not be the healthiest way to handle it, but it works.. And if I ever suspect anything, all I have to do is say the 4 magic words... You cheat, I cheat. (I have never cheated on my husband, just thought I'd throw that out there)...

The biggest thing you need to make sure of is that you get HARD evidence.. Never go by hear say or intuition.. My mom always told me to listent to my gut, but in a situation like this, even an accuastion can end your relationship.. Plus, a lot of women are guilty of getting something in their head and then thinking themselves into a fury. Don't say anything unless you have personally seen it or you have actual physical evidence you can show him..

I hope this helps you, it's what saved my marriage..

Good luck...

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the_orc_1
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not everyone cheats and do you ohave proof or is some of your friends speading stuff

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My two cents
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Well telling the truth will not do him any good. Just start finding other things to do to occupy your time and hang out yourself sometimes. If he loves you, he'll start staying home more often to keep an eye on you. If he uses it as an excuse to hang out more then hire a detective give him a copy of the pictures and tell him you want a divorce. If he does not straighten up then leave him. A woman should always have enough money put to the side to leave when she feels uncomfortable in any situtation.

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Idealguy?
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Are you really looking for the answer. I don't think so. Why would he lie? what do you want him to do. come home from work and say, "hey babe, you 'll never guess what happened. I ran into my Ex today and got my balls licked." You don't want to know why he's lying, you want to know why he did what he did.

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say_tay
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If you can't trust him. leave him. Not all husbands cheat.

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I got answers!
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Can you imagine your life with herpes???? Leave his sorry a**!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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vtjames7433
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I do not support cheaters but I have to inform you that numerous studies show that women now cheat as much or more than men so the question should be why do people cheat and lie about it...

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867-5309 &quot;Jenny&quot;
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He's just trying to protect your feelings, he knows you would bug him for details about their sexcapades so either move out and on or get over it.. If you want the details ask the woman tell her he said bad things about her and he only messed with her out of pitty, you know play both sides to get her on your side.

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