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nofukenwurys
What should a guy do if his wife wont clean the house and refuses to do any thing to help around the house?
oh and wont get a job to help with the bills what should that man do?????


hey let me know what ya think lol

i have to pass on this one i need ya help!!!

cheers dan



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Askme
It's hard to answer this without knowing WHY she won't. Do you treat her well? Is she happy? Is she physically able to do it?

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Wajid Khattak
dont **** her in night. If she again refuse then i will sincely tell u that u should find any other girl

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surerightanythingyousay
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get rid of her

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mary_not_cathy
The same thing a WOMAN would do if her MAN was refusing to do any thing to help around the house?
Especially if he didn't have a job to help with the bills.

That's what YOU should do!

...Or you could go on Jerry Springer!

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MICHIGAN PI
Well, if she has been like this since day one, then its your bad. But if she morphed into this after the "I Do's" then I would kick her to the curb. Sounds like a leach to me.

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Plum
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leave her mess, dont clean her mess up or anyfin, dont pay HER bills, its time the lazy sod stood on her own two feet. Dont give her no money or nuttin be a selfish git lol she'll soon learn that everyfin should be equal, housework an all... if this dont work then tell her to go fire her **** with some anti-lazying pills!!!! If you give into her she will obviously take advantage..

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anastasiabeaverhousen
Pack all her stuff up & set it on her parents lawn. They are the ones that raised a spoiled brat....let them deal w/her.

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bubbas4x4gasm
If it is clear that she is in the wrong and she won't listen to you. Then take her butt to marriage counseling. Sometime hearing it from an outside source is better than hearing it from you.

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DAZED & CONFUSED
Well at 1st I was going to get all rude w/you and tell you to help also but then read the part about her not working, you need to just tell her it's a 50/50 thing, either you provide financially and she does the cooking and cleaning or you both work and both do the cooking and cleaning... pick one!! that's just called lazy dear!!

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bluez
Get a new wife......the lazy ***

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fabrat1
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Bummer Dan, seems like your wife found a free ride. I have seen this so many times that I can tell you if history serves me, you are a very nice guy. Nice guys tend to end up with women that take advantage of them. Women are like children, then need discipline, control and structure. Chances are, you won't be able to change her, and you will probably stick with her for way too long, but at some point, after you wise up and have had enough and finally leave, you can learn from this. With your next serious relationship, you need to be a bit of a d_ick. Not really bad but bad enough that your new lady will feel the need to change you. This will keep her busy. Make sure she understands your expectation of a wife before you ever commit. In the meantime, avoid having kids if it's not too late and try to set her up with an affair that you can bust her in. Mean, I know, but you don't want her taking all your crap with her in a divorce so you'll need the upper hand.

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Hillaryforpresident
I guess I'd ask her what the problem is. Is she just lazy? Did you do something to make her mad? Do you work or do anything around the house?

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dkzabtch
D-I-V-O-R-C-E

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cmann19078
Give her some tough love cut off her allowance. Tell her your problems let her know its getting you upset and its coming between you and her let her know your not happy and your contemplating leaving her. If she loves you she will get off her *** and try to fix the problem if not you need to decide if you can put up with this or not form there the decision is up to you.

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Katie
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Dan, could she be doing this to teach you something? This sounds like my marriage, and it's not because I'm lazy, but because I'm the boss. In order for my husband to learn he must do. I did it for years with no help, well turn about is fair play. Just do it yourself and keep your opinion to yourself, and maybe one day she will have decided you have leaned your lesson and pitch in and help. If not, be grateful she is teaching you to be a better person.

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dynabody
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Hire a real pretty maid and tell your wife until she cleans the house, this maid is your new wife. Good Luck

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boooobi
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invite friends over everyday and ask her why she didn't clean the house in front of them a week of this and she start cleaning tell her you will invite someone everyday untill it's clean then when it's cleans stop a week of this and she'll stop for good but everyday for a week.

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not_your_Gran
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She apparently doesn't do housework, and doesn't work outside the house, so what *does* she do that resulted in her ending up married, and to you? Whatever that was, is it not happening any more? Did she used to keep up the house and/or work outside the home before? If so, what changed?

Since it sounds like there are things you need to sort out, but you didn't give any information about any of them, I'd suggest the pair of you go into counselling. In that situation, the counsellor can find out the basis of your (and her) problem(s), and then can help the two of you decide what to do next, whether that is her getting an outside job to pay for a maid service, you leaving her, or whatever.

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mazza
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Have you asked her for her help???? I maybe as simple as "Honey you know i love you, and i really need your help around the house. I would be such a great feeling to come home, to a nice clean tidy house. I'll help you when ever i can, but you know how busy i get with work and everything. Wouldnt it be wonderful if we could, enjoy spending time together at night." I'd start there, see how that goes then maybe ask her if she would like to have a part time job.

Hope this helps Dan

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canadianlover57
get yourself a pretty maid, and dont have sex with the wife, matter of fact kick the wife out !!!!!! you deserve better !!!!!!!!!!!

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jnaked101
depends on how good she is in bed

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Constance Olivia
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If she doesn't work or clean the house what is she doing all day? Are there small children in the house? I would say talk to her to find out what is going on. Is she involved in drugs, or drinking? Depressed? There has to be something going on if she is basically doing nothing.

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priyanka
wel i believe, n i m sure 2 that it can't be a permanent problem. in that case the guy should and must clean and do the house work himself. because at the time of marriage they didn't any how had a contract that the girl will clean the house. wel when the girl can so can the guy 2.
i believe this much understanding even the boy must have, and if its due to some fight among hem then solve it and take the way of compromise. rather than a win - lose condition by giving her divorce or abusing her.

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AQHA34
That is a tough one.....hmm...ever ask her what her thoughts about not doing anything are? What does she do all day??

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changeling
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Have you ever asked her why?some people were brought up that way(not me ,thank God)Take everything in the house and throw it away or burn it .Then give her a choice-clean up your act or go back to mommy

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browneyes
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If she was that wat before you got married don't complain.

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Guerrilla Soldier
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I'd say upgrade to a newer, younger, better version and show the current wife how worthless she is. Relationships are two way streets and she apparantly thinks it's all take and no give.

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donutmiddel
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The husband should take a dog obedience course and take what he learned with the dog in obedience school home and use it on the wife.
Please don't give her dog biscuits for a reward. Give her "her" favorite treats instead.

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seawavblue
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she need a lesson, or two on the subject of :are you really a lady and a wife ?.maybe, you , need to sit down with her and give her ,a chance to explain whats going on. i, bet that ,if you love her ,she should do something to keep this marriage alive ,remmember it takes two to tango.

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K~ (AKA Korndog/Girlnut)
Get a divorce? Get her counseling? it could be the way she was bought up. Perhaps cleaning and helping out is something she was never taught. Could be laziness (hence the divorce) yes I would divorce someone because of that personally. If it is something she was never taught perhaps a few courses in home ec. is in order to teach cleanliness is not just to have something look good but it also keeps people healthier, happier, kills germs etc. Either all of that or she is the queen bee and has her husband whooped! woo woo. :O)

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sixspdsxdrv
Talk to her, and if that doesn't work kick her out. My brother had that problem. He had to serve her divorce papers to get her to do anything. Now he is divorced and has a girlfriend who treats him like he's gold.

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