Should I tell my husband about my affair?

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2009-02-15 08:33:33 +0000	he'll think you're a whore without you having to confirm it. if you feel like reinforcing his feelings of resentment towards you go ahead Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 20:20:38 +0000	no. unless your out to hurt him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 10:02:42 +0000	He will find out sooner or later best thing to do is hope it is later and then talk to him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-16 00:14:12 +0000	I wish I could tell my ex husband about all the times I cheated. But I can't. Because I'm not a whore like you. You should tell him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:35:32 +0000	I would just not disclose that information at this time and not unless it was necessary. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-16 00:07:49 +0000	"Telling" him about it wouldn't get the message across strong enough... What you should do is, set it up so he walks in on you and that guy in the middle of "Filegra Dilecto," because... Actions speak louder than words... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:32:00 +0000	It would make both of you feel even more bitter. Unles, you want to score some brownie points just leave it. Separations are difficult for all. you dont need to make it more acrimonious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 09:51:18 +0000	Why didn't you tell him ten years ago when it happened? Don't tell him now. The divorce is going to be hard enough on him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:34:01 +0000	the affair was caused because u were lonley and u needed comfort and your neighbor gave u that, it has been 10 years correct well would it make a difference if you told this to your future ex-husband now?, if ur conscience is bugging you well come clean Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-16 00:19:13 +0000	You should only tell him if you are bitter about divorcing and you want to "stick it" to him. Otherwise, unless there is a chance of reconciliation...now is the time to keep that dark secret a secret. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-18 23:14:35 +0000	I wouldn't recommend it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:45:31 +0000	its a little late now, why didn't you tell him before? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:36:28 +0000	If you're considering a divorce, there is no reason to tell him. Unless you want to hurt him more and add salt to the wounds. If you're evil and want to torture him, yes, tell him. If you love him, but can no longer be with him, then don't tell him; some things are better left unsaid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:31:10 +0000	OMG NO!! i mean if you werent getting a divorce sure, but if you are going to get a divorce donnt tell him of course, he will use that against you in court! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:32:55 +0000	If you're already planning on divorcing the guy...then please let him keep his dignity.....why kick him more when he is already down? Have a heart and go easy on him...let him keep his self respect and not be burdened with the pain of knowing that you stabbed him in the back....while he was away working hard.... Just file for your divorce and let it be.....don't bring up things like that.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:39:49 +0000	No, ten years ago that is to long to go back. Have you been unfaithful since the that ten year period? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:46:32 +0000	The only reason you would need to tell him is to do one thing: hurt him. Isn't life hard enough? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:30:51 +0000	No. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:29:41 +0000	What's the point? I would say, no. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:30:34 +0000	Why would you tell him after all this time? What purpose does that serve? If you want a divorce then get one, but since this has nothing to do with your reasons for a divorce, don't tell him. It will only hurt him--that's all it can do. And if you're planning on leaving him, isn't that hurt enough? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-17 02:42:43 +0000	I don't think it matters anyway, since you want a divorce- could make things difficult for you, however, especially if your hubby doesn't feel the same way that you do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2009-02-15 08:56:01 +0000	LOL so you want to divorce him and mentally kick him in the balls too? I am wondering why HE is not the one filing for divorce Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No