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Should I remind him of our anniversary?
My anniversary is in 2 days and I know my husband has forgotten. Should I remind him so that we can plan something together, or should I just wait and see if he remembers?



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2009-03-16 18:21:59 +0000
Don't just come out and say it. He may get offended. Casually mention by saying something to the effect of what you would like to do for your anniversary.
example: "Baby, I was thinking for our anniversary Wednesday, we might have dinner at that new restaurant over on Airport Dr. Or do you have something else planned?"

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2009-03-16 18:10:25 +0000
absolutely! make plans, tell him of your plans, be happy about it and talk about it for the next 48 hours. tell him how youre going to rock his world. have fun and happy anniversary

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2009-03-16 18:02:10 +0000
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If you want him to do something or give you something then you should definitely remind him. If not then don't.

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2009-03-16 18:02:46 +0000
Id remind him. Everything will be better if you just remind him now, instead of risking him not remembering and ruining the whole night.

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2009-03-16 18:08:36 +0000
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I don't really understand this game women play. It's almost like they WANT their husbands to forget, so they can complain to their peers. I'm not saying this is what you're doing, it's just a general observation.

You both share equal parts of the anniversary. If you think he's forgotten, suggest planning something special together. Then he'll be off the hook, and you'll both have a nice time. Who knows, maybe it'll even touch him that you're not vindictive about it and maybe he'll remember next year.

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2009-03-16 18:03:50 +0000
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Why don't you try to think through both scenarios...

- If you don't tell him and he forgets then how are you going to feel and react to that?

- If you tell him then what is going to happen?

Which option is going to work out best for you? Do you know yourself and him well enough to know?

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2009-03-16 18:01:35 +0000
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If the day hasn't yet come, there's no way to know if he's forgotten it or not. Why would you assume he doesn't remember?

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2009-03-16 18:03:22 +0000
Remind him, indirectly. Mark the calendar. "Anniversary" in red. That'll give him a heads up and let him think he can play it off like he's remembered the whole time.

It'll be amusing for you...esp if he doesn't notice it there until only a day or two before hand.

Husbands are funny.

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2009-03-16 18:01:59 +0000
if you are VERY SURE he has forgotten it, place a post it note where you think her will see it easily

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2009-03-16 18:02:40 +0000
Nope - you need to let him remember or forget all by himself - he's a big boy.

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2009-03-16 18:02:10 +0000
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If your going to be pissed off when he doesn't remember, then you should probably tell him so there isn't a big huge fight on the day that you two should be celebrating a marriage.

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2009-03-16 18:11:30 +0000
Yeah remind him . most guys are terrible at dates and times but that doesn't mean they do love you

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2009-03-16 18:06:18 +0000
If you'll be mad if he forgets then remind him. You could casually say, "Hey what do you want to do for our anniversary?".

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2009-03-16 18:02:12 +0000
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Ask him to plan together! it's both your anniversary's not just his to do stuff for you.

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2009-03-16 18:18:46 +0000
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Wow! Memories... First even if he forgets it doesn't mean he doesn't love you! If you truly believe that then you'll be okay with no present. If you are totally in need of a present to have some tangible evidence that he loves you... then you have another thing to work out. Either he comes up with the present or you learn to live without.

My husband is not the gift giving type.... well..... he used to try but his presents were so dumb.... I couldn't believe he put any thought into them!
Turns out he put a LOT of thought into them but just ended up wasting all day shopping which he hates and that in itself was a huge act of love but I never KNEW it!

We got some marriage help over other issues and that was one of the things that came out. I now realize that gift giving is just not his skill, but he has other ways of showing me he loves me.

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2009-03-16 18:02:40 +0000
Why is it always the man's responsibility to plan things for days like this? Why don't you plan something to show your love for him and your relationship?

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2009-03-16 18:09:26 +0000
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If "waiting and seeing" means that you will throw a fit if he forgets, then remind him. Don't play mind games.

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2009-03-16 18:03:30 +0000
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i would say yes remind him but try not to make him fell bad about it

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2009-03-16 18:13:45 +0000
Yes. Just ask him what he wants to do on the anniversary. I don't really think he would consider that a reminder and that will make him think of it if he hasn't yet.

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2009-03-16 18:02:39 +0000
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How about you accidently leave a piece of paper or your calendar out with the day about the anniversary out. Make sure its somewhere he looks but don't place it somewhere where it seems like you want him to figure out.

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2009-03-16 18:02:49 +0000
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maybe he is wondering if you even mind?
let him know you know.. without specifically telling him.

you will be super upset if he forgets, so make sure.. you can try and remind him.
guys can be forgetfull, it doesnt mean they dont care though.

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2009-03-16 18:01:41 +0000
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yea you should ask him, be like "what do you want to do for our anniversary" or something.. or leave a note on the fridge w/ the date in a heart... that would stir his memory!!

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2009-03-16 18:02:03 +0000
Remind him. Its normal to forget stuff when you have so many other things to juggle.

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2009-03-16 18:03:01 +0000
in my opinion i would tell him. its good to remind him just in case he has forgotten or if he might not be sure which day it is. hey it happens. men might either forget their anniversary or they might know its coming on a certain week but not be sure of the day. hope this helped.

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2009-03-16 18:01:57 +0000
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It depends on if you want to fight or not. People get busy and forget things. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. If you wait until the day of to remind him, it will be too late.

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2009-03-16 18:03:22 +0000
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YES! just be like, "its our anniversary in 2 days, any plans for what we should do?", see what he says and his reaction, he may have forgotten, or he may have planned sumin. You could plan something together. Whats the point in waiting to see if he remembers, if he doesn't youll have a suckish day, that could lead to an argument, when you could be out doing something.

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2009-03-16 18:06:52 +0000
You should remind him, Ferosia. From your few words, you really seem like the reminding type. So, if he doesn't want hell to pay, you should toss him a bone and remind him.

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2009-03-16 18:06:38 +0000
You should mention it to him. If he's like my husband he is busting is butt everyday to provide for our family and if our anniversary happened to slip his mind, he would be so upset, embarrassed, and truly sorry. I would never let him feel that way. He takes good care of me and our son and I would spare him that drama and just mention it ever so slightly to make sure he remembered.

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2009-03-16 18:02:32 +0000
I would see if he remembers first... then I would remind him... Im horrible at remembering things like this... and so is my boyfriend... so I wouldnt get too mad about it

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2009-03-16 18:03:15 +0000
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