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Kiss at the end of text messages?
Strange question I know but my husband puts a kiss at the end of messages to our babysitter - is this normal / acceptable? I dont really like it but don't want to overreact so some other opinions would be good!
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Thanks everyone, just checking I wasnt being overly paranoid.. and no... he doesnt put kisses when its his friends.



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2009-12-03 17:59:45 +0000
all i can tell u is that i put a x at the end of lots things, including answers on YA. i wouldnt worry about it, though i would keep an eye on the sitter, just to be sure x

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2009-12-03 15:14:19 +0000
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Ummm, I really am hoping this is a joke question......


No, that is not at all acceptable. Seriously, something is up.....

Ouch!!

Sorry Momma!

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2009-12-03 15:14:19 +0000
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It is not acceptable. I'd be very nosy from now on and see whats going on that you don't know about. Its just not normal.

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2009-12-03 15:14:55 +0000
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sounds like future porn video! WIFE CATCHES HUSBAND DOIN THE BABYSITTER oh forgot it's already been done!

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2009-12-03 15:25:24 +0000
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is this a normal thing for your husband to do
well if he does this on all his messages then i wouldn't worry
if its just hers then yes
is it just the x or is there other stuff ?

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2009-12-03 15:13:56 +0000
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not appropriate....I hope he puts one on your messages if he send any to you.....

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2009-12-03 16:21:56 +0000
If it's annoying you tell him. I put a kiss at the end of every text I send, even to my boss !! It's just me, I have a friend who does the same. It doesn't mean anything.

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2009-12-03 21:50:23 +0000
Nope, thats a little strange...........& my husband agrees with me.

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2009-12-03 16:24:59 +0000
To be honest, I wouldn't have even given him the babysitters telephone number! Why do you need a babysitter unless you are both going out together or you are both out at the same time separately , either way the contact should be between you and her, not him. And for what reasons is he contacting her by text? YOU should be the one arranging the babysitter if one is needed....anyway, thats not much help since he already has her number.....

For now I would not say anything cos once you do, he knows you are onto him. Keep quiet and keep and eye on the situation and then if you feel there is something to worry about, like the texts are getting over friendly etc then you can approach him. The reality is he should not be texting her even if he has her number. He should only be in touch with her - BY PHONE CALL - to arrange a babysitting schedule or if there is any problem regarding the children, or an emergency, texting isnt really appropriate.

Hope this helps x

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2009-12-03 16:33:35 +0000
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Inappropriate. Why is he texting her anyway.....why do you not deal with the arrangements and thank you and payment etc.?

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2009-12-03 15:13:57 +0000
If he doesn't do this to you or anyone else when he texts then YES there is a problem.

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2009-12-03 15:14:29 +0000
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youre an idiot! of course its something to be worried about! hes sending freaking kisses to the babysitter! dah!

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2009-12-03 15:18:59 +0000
thats not appropriate at all! she is an employee! a friend i can understand but not someone who looks after your children!

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2009-12-03 15:15:00 +0000
Probably innocent but...if you don't like it that is reason enough to stop.
Or should be!!

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2009-12-03 15:15:58 +0000
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This is not normal and if he was my husband it would not be acceptable.

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2009-12-03 15:13:43 +0000
Wierd.
Ask him about it.

It would be eating me too

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2009-12-03 16:04:44 +0000
First of all you know him better than anyone else answering your question, so don't just consider word by word what you read here or you might end up making a mistake..

I personally think it's normal because she's like a "family friend" just by babysitting your most precious being.

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2009-12-03 15:24:35 +0000
It's just as normal and acceptable as you snooping through his text messages.

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2009-12-03 15:19:46 +0000
It depends - does he put a kiss at the end of texts to other people, like his male friends etc? If he doesn't then I would ask him about it. But be aware that some people just put kisses at the end of texts to everyone, like my mate puts x's on the end of like every sentence on msn and it doesn't mean anything at all. I would ask him about it if I were you, but just ask casually and not in an accusing or angry way. Don't let it get to you though if he convinces you that there's nothing going on between the 2 of them, cos like I said, some people just give x's to everyone.

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2009-12-03 15:14:16 +0000
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i put kisses at the end of every text i send regardless of who it is

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2009-12-03 15:14:00 +0000
Totally inappropriate! I would string my husband up by his toes if he pulled that crap on me.

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2009-12-03 15:17:25 +0000
Not normal or acceptable.

It could be a little inside joke if the babysitter is an adult, but still not a nice joke for you.

He should cut it out.

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