Is it ok to continue to be friends with your ex even though your spouse objects?

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2010-10-22 06:31:53 +0000	No. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:46:39 +0000	Only if you want to sabotage your own marriage!! No. Stop that. He's an ex for a reason. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 12:09:20 +0000	This is a touchy subject for many, I am friends with whom I want and no man will tell me what to do ! There should be trust in a relationship and it should not be # dictatorship # If the husband does not trust you enough ? Then it is worthless ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:43:29 +0000	The details matter. If you flip gender-roles and he was trying to tell her what friends she can have, he would be called 'controlling'. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-25 21:34:17 +0000	Not ok. Just like I don't want my husband to be friends with his ex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:32:26 +0000	Only if you and your ex have children together. Otherwise, not really appropriate if you're married. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:31:48 +0000	no definitely not, i don't allow my husband to be friends with his ex's just like i wouldn't expect him to let me be friends with mine, it's just looking for trouble and if your spouse doesn't want you to do something like that you should talk about it but respect there wishes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:40:09 +0000	Yes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:34:04 +0000	Who do you love? Your ex is your ex for a reason. Make up your mind. If your spouse says"please do not be friends with your ex" than you should respect that. Think about how you would feel if it was you and the shoe was on the other foot. Is your ex worth you losing your new love? Ask yourself that and than you will have your true answer Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 07:46:06 +0000	Only if you want dumped.Its disrespectful.There is no reason to have any more contact then hello and goodbye or talk about custody or school issues with kids.Being friends with the ex is a deal breaker with most men and alot of women. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:36:21 +0000	Not if it makes your spouse uncomfortable. In the end, you have to weigh out what you value more: The good nature of the relationship with your ex, versus the good nature of the relationship with your spouse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 18:54:49 +0000	lets see - new life - new gf - ex must go - keep in contact w/ ex = nothing but problems - if no kids are involved - ex must go - IMMEDIATELY - or they are not over that person yet and not ready for another relationship - HELLO Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:35:12 +0000	You will never win that war... and most of the time your spouse is correct anyway. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:39:06 +0000	There's no way in hell that is ok. I would consider that in someway cheating. It doesn't matter if you're having sex or not. It's still wrong. You are lying to your wife and going behind her back to see other women in secret. Please don't tell me you seriously think that is ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:33:59 +0000	No. That is insensitive to your spouse and will only lead to problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2010-10-22 06:43:22 +0000	Depends on how strong the friendship is...........♥♥ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No