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osborn_tr
I found a condom wrapper in the washing machine????
My husband is military and recently he had to be gone for 2 months. I was washing his clothes and I found a condom wrapper. He at first said it was one of ours. However my tubes are tied so we havent used them in forever. Then he claimed it belonged to the guy he was with while on his TDY. He had previously told me this guy was Catholic and didnt use any form of birth control. This guy is married and has 5 kids, he is only 22. I dont think he uses condoms. I think my husband bought them and possibly cheated on me. What do you think?



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outtahere2day
Funny that he said that it belonged to another guy.
Maybe it was a guy that he was with.

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islandgirl06
First of all I do am sorry, now finding the condom wrapper can tell you lots of things, but do believe to what your instinct is telling you. If your husband is innocent,then he can't really tell you 2 diff. stories,don't you think? It's good that you came here to Yahoo Answer, but if you let us tell you what we think, it will not help you a bit.Some of us will say all the bad answer that we don't even have the rights to say, and some of us might tell you what you want to hear.But reality on this one is, talk to him, ask him and tell him to be honest with you before things get out of hand.
Can I say that your husband is probably cheating on you or had a one night stand with a girl?, I can't because I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your husband, but I will tell you that I'm also a military wife that found a condom in my husbands car. When I approach him with what I found, he told me that it wasn't his, he even suggest that it maybe our daughter's or her friend. What I didn't know was he was already having an emotional affair with the married woman which his been seeing part time,(2 times a week). So don't let this go until you find out what's going on or else it will become a heavy drama. Just do it and I wish you luck..

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Laughing all the way
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All signs point to yes.

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Kelly773
I think you're right. Who the hell carries the empty wrapper around??! Eweeeeee. I'd be all over him for the truth on this one. He already admitted lying with the first answer he gave you.

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tenderoni513
I'm sorry, he cheated on you - for sure. That stinks!

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Perkymo
Of course he cheated on you. He lied to you twice, first he said it was yours, but you don't use condoms and second the friend thing. I don't know how you can find out for sure, but I would sit him down and tell him that your not stupid, you already found evidence and he should just do you both a favour come clean, cause you'll stop at nothing to find out if he had cheated on you. Good luck!

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A friend of Bill W
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It sounds like your husband is lying to you. Now, it leaves you to connect the dots. Ask him if he wants a trim like John Wayne Bobbitt? The ball is in your court. You need to decide what you are going to do about his lying and possible infidelity. Just remember, getting even isn't a good option. You need to directly deal with this problem. Professional help is suggested. If you hide your head in the sand, it will happen again. Don't become Hillary, a door mat. (if you were my daughter, I would tell you to throw him out). Good luck and God bless.

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I think it is pretty unlikely that he is being honest with you, but you will never know unless he tells you.

Sorry you are going through this, I hope you work things out so you are happy.

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Erin
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I'm so sorry to hear this. There is no way your hubby would put someone else's condom wrapper in his pocket! How gross is that! It was his. I have turned a blind eye to things like this in the past with my own life, I can only encourage you to open your eyes and if it is true, get OUT before you waste any more of your breath on him! Be strong.

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Ok frist off do your really think that your hubbys friend is going to pick up a just used condom wrapper save it and then take it to your hubby to hold on to him. Really girl who would do that. I mean I would understand maybe if your hubby was in the same room while his friend was getting busey and was picking up trash and stuffed it in his pocket. I mean come on girl, guys do not give their buddies empty condom wrappers to hold on for them.

Sounds like a big, big, big lie!!!

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simm101
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I liked his first excuse but it started to go down hill after that. The thing is not many if any guys keep the wrapper so I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. If he has been up to something,wich I doubt you've marked his card for the future.

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must<3dogs
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wow Im so sorry! But yes, I think something definitely happened. I wouldnt believe for a second any of those lame excuses.

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Scarlet
follow your instincts

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Kristen
I think our gut tells us what the physical evidence usually doesn't. I can't answer this, because I don't know your husband. I think trust issues are just as bad as the actually cheating. They stop us from being completely close with our partner. Either way, it's time to have a long uninteruppted chat.

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Mean Carleen
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I think your right! What are you prepared to do.

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alroka
i think its odd that he would have a condom wrapper belonging to another man, u need to look into that, in any case hes cheated on u and deep down u know it the question is what are u going to do about it? if u do nothing he will cheat again, if u refuse to accept his stupid excuses, chopping and changing his story, threaten to leave, go off for a few days maybe he ll come clean and u can work through it but dont live a lie.

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Mr Confused
wow...let me ask you this...... have you been withholding the "twizzle"??? maybe not satisfying him in bed......but nevertheless he got caught red-handed.......and he was getting some kitty-kat from someone thats for sure!!!! hope you follow your gut instinct

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Kathy R
Ask him straight up if he cheated. If he did, get marriage counseling and warn him if he does it again, you'll go to his commanding officer. The military frowns on adultery of any kind.

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Life....it blows!
i think your on the right track! it is a shame but that is what it appears to be to me! Why was it at first your condoms with him and then all of a sudden belonged to a friend..and if it was his friends condom than why was it in his pocket, what did hhis friend say "hold on to this for a while, i have to run a do something???" NOO he didnt, i wwouldnt jump to serious conclusions, but keep your eyes and ears wide open! investigate and get serious with it. follow him or show up and check to see if he is really where he says he is...it is the only way you will know the truth!!! I hope this isnt true for your sake! GOOD LUCK!!

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RD
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When he changed his story it is obviously a lie. What other possible reason could he have an empty condom wrapper in his pants. Wise up.

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Saphira
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So you found a condom wrapper in the wash and your husband has now blatantly lied about it's origin twice. So he either thinks you're really stupid or he hopes that you'll let this obvious evidence slide. Go with your instincts.

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★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥
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In this situation you have to use common sense.. step back.. pretend it is somebody else looking in... pretend it is your friend that this is happening too... what would you think then??
You would know he's cheating. His friend would not put a condom wrapper in HIS pocket. I understand you are trying to believe him- you want to believe he is telling the truth- but, I think you need to face the truth. He is cheating on you. you need to sit down and ask him again--and again... eventually he'll maybe admit it to you. If he's a good liar.. he won't...
like I said..
try be be the person looking in on this situation.
you would definately know he is cheating.
hopefully it is just a one time thing--something you might never know.... If he admits it--explains himsdelf..i'd try to work it out ..otherwise..
see ya'

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lady31
since you caught him in a lie, you know the answer

if he had nothing to hide, then he would have told you the truth.

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Sinister-6000
I think you are right. He was caught red handed. YOu guys probably should sit down and have a talk. Decide what you are going to do, why he did it or how to stop it in the future.

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♥ஐDanielleஐ♥
does that friend not have pockets of his own ?? why in the hell would your hubby hold it for him ?? just the wrapper ? was the condom in it ? all signs point to yes your husband cheated on you , kick him to the curb so sorry hes putting you through this.

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ndnqt1966
Even IF he didn't cheat on you he is a liar......had two different "excuses" for having a condom wrapper in his clothes...that in my opinion makes him look highly suspicious. I am sorry....but he looks very guilty

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G.V.
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I think you should pressure him more forcefully to get the truth out of him. His story changed so he is hiding something. I think your suspicions are well founded.

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Spring
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1. He tried to lie and say it was yours.
2. Then he says it was a friend's....
3. If it was the friend's why didn't he say that in the first place?
4. And you know that it isn't true.
5. Why would he beholding a condom wrapper for a friend? (that just sounds weird)
6. Yup he sounds like he cheated on you; sorry.

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the answer is YES.

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mizzhollywood26
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He sounds like a lying cheater to me.

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Ms.Beauty
You had ur answer when he kelp making up lies!! I found a pack in my bf car we dont use them so why do you have them and you know he came up with the most ridicules BS dont stand for it get rid of him the saying is true and you dont know which sex he is cheating with, they say they are sorry and they will never do it again but its bull they do and you will be going through this for a life time, trust they only sorry for getting caught but we all learn from our mistakes! GOOD LUCK and put your trust in god I know the emotions and I dont wish them on my worst enemies not including the little h#%#% he cheated with, trust your feelings THEY ARE REAL mine never fail I even had dreams and he later confess he was shocked after I told him about the dreams and it seems that he thinks less of you to come up with those bogus lies you should have reminded him of ur birth date and NEVER go into denial or play weak minded he would really have fun with that! STAY STRONG

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