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martha
I caught my 8 year old son licking the crotch of my panties. He does not know. How should I confront him.?



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TryingToLearn
First pray about this situation. Then probably do nothing for now and watch him in general. I'm not sure if you should confront him or not.

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dmonique86
First you need to let your son know that he mad a bad mistake and not to do it again

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jennymustafa
Kids do not just do things like that unless they have seen something similar. First, before confronting him, think hard about this. Has he caught you in the act before? Or do you know if it is possible that he's been around someone who may have done something he saw? Maybe that's how you could talk to him. Don't tell him what you saw, just talk to him about sex. I know it sounds crazy at his age, but I had to talk to my children about it at that age, because the babysitters' son was telling them things. I actually think I did the right thing. I felt like it was better for them to hear the truth about sex from me, then to hear crazy things from someone else.

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cail_baby
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yes definatlly tell him that id not ok to do

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harry_2143
sorry i really don't know wat to say

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Cosmo
The most difficult part of parenting is when NOT to say/do anything. Although close, I think this falls in this category. Don't make a big deal out of this and it won't be a big deal.

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valveman
TRY TO FIND OUT WHERE HE GOT THIS IDEA. AND DON'T MAKE A HUGE DEAL OUT OF IT.

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rancher05
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It is a bit different that such a young prepubescent boy would have such a sexual desire. I would do nothing at this time. Watch his behavior over a longer period and verify if the behavior continues. Do not confront the child about the issue. You do not want to shame him or create anxiety about sex. Be wise, be patient, be vigilant and loving...Later on you can consult with a therapist quietly about the matter .....if you see that it continues. Good luck....

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April TX
You need to take him to a child therapist. It sounds like he has been sexually abused. If you do not get him help , he could become a predator himself.

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jamesdraven
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were you wearing them?

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CocoChance_
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Tell him that its not a good thing to do. But don't ask people on here what to do, you won't get good answers except from the people who literally think before they answer the questions .

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odandme
Easier said than done... just sit down with him and have a heart to heart. Ask him why, how does it make you feel when you do it, etc. It's possible he just likes the feel of the material and it's not a sexual thing at all. If you feel he needs professional help please don't hesitate to get him some!

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hayleyt05
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if i was you i would talk to your son about it and ask him why he did he

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TheGr8st
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Please don't underestimate the intellect of your eight year old son. Even though you may not be ready to confront your sons behavior it may be time to address these issues. You don't know what you son is learning from his peers etc. Be very patient and ready to answer any questions your son might have and don't chastise him for his behavior. This way you'll develop an open relationship about sensitive topic that you son won't be to embarrassed to come to you and the future and talk with you about these issues.

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Fallen
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Professional help now!!

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jacquelinebrns
You need to sit him down and gently talk to him. That is not a good behavioral sign. Maybe he needs some attention. Sometimes if a child has been mistreated (molested) he/she will act out in different ways. Good luck and you are in my prayers.

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jrmygray
It is most likely that he got it from somewhere, whether he was watching TV or he happened to catch someone else do it. He could have also have been hyper which I believe is unlikely. And also at that age he doesn't know what that action symbolizes. So don't confront him, merely acknowledge him and tell that what he is doing is very bad and pay more attention to his company and what he watches

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havanadig
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was he wearing them at the time ,seriously it nothing to worry about forget it and put washables out of reach of CURIOUS hands

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Hard Luck
GET HIM TO COUNSELING BEFORE HE BECOMES THE NEXT SERIAL KILLER OR SOMETHING AND HOW DID HE GET YOUR PANTYS ANYWAY YOU NEED A LICENSE TO DRIVE A CAR BUT ANY IDIOT IN THE WORLD CAN HAVE A CHILD

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tata
HAVE HE SEEN ANYONE DOING THAT? SOMETIME YOU HAVE TO WATCH CHILDREN THAT CAN BE VERY SNEAKY AT PEEPING AND WATCHING THINGS ON T.V. GO TALK TO HIM, AND ASK WHY HE DONE THAT. AND IF HE SEEN SOMEONE DOING THAT AND JUST GO FROM THERE. I WOULD SUGGEST ALSO NOT PUTTING YOUR PANTIES WHERE HE CAN GET THEM NEXT TIME.HE COULD GO TO SOMEONE ELSE'S HOME AND IT MAY NOT BE GOOD IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.

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defbizkit99
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Do what they used to do back in the day when you're caught smoking.

Lock him in the out-house with a whole pack of cigaretts and make him smoke the whole pack. He'll get so sick that he'll never smoke again.

Of course you're gonna have to change this to fit your situation. Like, throw him in the hamper.

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vc.
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dont say anything and buy a laundry hamper for your dirty clothes and use it!!

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thylawyer
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You must be a weird cop. I have to assume you were not wearing them at the time, so the only remaining questions are, Were they in the laundry to be washed or in a drawer? And where did he learn this behavior>

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fizban_mccloud
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I would just put them out of reach like others say here, so he can't get to them anymore. But most likely it is something he will do from now on. Don't confront him, it will embarrass him and he will hide any sexually related activity from you from that point on. Nothing worse than being caught by your mom doing something sexual. I bet he just loves smelling your scent and wants to taste you.

Heck, if you are ever feeling lonely and he is around when he gets a little older, maybe he'd like to lick the real thing instead of just your panties. So why burn a bridge when you don't have to right now?

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Neodiogenes
Why not consult a professional child development psychologist instead of the various unschooled morons in this place?

So your kid is developing what seems to be a healthy attraction to the female scent? This is hardly abnormal, and perhaps there's nothing drastic you need to do about it.

Yeah sure -- confront him, embarass him. Heck why not invite all his friends over so they can point fingers at him and laugh. Gee, that'll help him with his healthy sexual development. See what I mean about unschooled morons?

There are millions of people who spend years in school learning how to deal with children's developmental issues. It would be wiser to ask their advice, not mine -- and certainly not anyone else on here, judging from the kind of responses you're getting.

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pooh
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why was your pantys around?you should have confronted him right then, why wait you are his mother

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she7_wolf
Ask him what does he thinks about girls then move on to panties.

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nc97
I would suggest you reserve action. I know it might seem kinda icky, but kids do some pretty bizzare things as they discover thier sexuality.

Just keep an eye on him, nuture and love him (in a healthy way). If you see a lot of behavior that is cause for concern, talk to a professional before acting. More than likely, he will grow into a normal healthy young man with normal healthy desires and tastes (no pun intended).

I remember my 15 y/o daugters best friend trying to climb into the shower with me (and she was a gorgeous young lady). Stark nekked and ready to go. I was carefull and gentle about stopping things from going any further (even though her effect on me was obvious). After that we had a rule in our home, no young ladies unless mom was home. I think about how that experience could have scarred her had I acted differently and what it might have done to her for the rest of her life (and for that matter, mine).

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nikkymos2000
so funny

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blessedonengod
Being a parent, you face alot of weird times with kids. Like this one. In this situation a parent must sit the child down and tell them what you saw and why it's inappropriate. At his age he doesn't know right from wrong yet. He's still learning. So don't get upset. Once you talk
to him in a calm, loving manner then he will understand. I've had to talk to one about something they did weird.

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mad_dog_dave2003
He has seen it on tv... ask him why he did it and how did he feel... hes growing up and learning

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