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Hannah Iced Over
How many chances should you give someone before calling it quits?
Say they have a problem being faithful, or they don't take very good care of you or your kids.
Say that every couple of months they do something stupid enough to make you want to leave, talk you into staying, and then they're really sweet for a couple months....doing everything you want them to do.
But it never lasts. It always goes back to them screwing up or screwing over, and after a few years you find yourself always waiting for them to hurt you, always preparing to leave. You can't relax or get comfortable, even when they're being good.
How long is one supposed to play this game before just giving up?

This isn't to say that he's doing anything wrong at this point in time. This is one of those in-between times...the time when I'm waiting for storm. I'm just not sure if I should wait for it this time, or if I should just assume that it's going to be the same this time as it's always been before.



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Pebbles
i didnt even read your question, just wanted to say i like your picture

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shatz
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as long you can hold on...

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mrs_g
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They get one chance at fidelity, and if the cheat, they're GONE.
Sounds like you should be done with this mess already. End it and move on.

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Big J
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With being faithful, 1 or zero chances.

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itsme560
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just 1. I have 0 tolerance for cheating. Once a cheater...(you know the rest)

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askme
I think all marriages have their good times and bad. I think when you are repeatedly having these bad times, it is b/c both of the spouses are giving an half a@@....attempt. When both partners are over the same repeated argument, it's done with when you both decide to CHANGE. Honestly, I always hear or see one spouse if not both happier, finger pointing at the other, wanting always to blame them. And as long as the finger pointing continues, so will the ups and downs. Marriage requires work, unselfish behavior, trying to see things through your spouses eyes, and owning your own half of the bullsh$#! So you want to end, the fighting, get real, own your half of the problem, don't justify your mistakes, admit you are working on things, love, be patient, and remember you both are in this together.

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cindy
once is enough for me.... if u dont trust the one your with.. then you dont really love them.....it's hard to admit but it's the truth... u cant make people change.. they have to want to ...and actions speak louder then words. I'm gone the moment i find out he cheated on me...its not worth it...if u tolerate it they keep doing it...they think your never gonna leave...its your own fault for thinking it would work.

Leave! dont wast anymore of your life on scum!
I LOVE your Picture by the way! Very nice!

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Sexykid
at least 2 chances. be strong in ur choice.

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PUNPKIN
THESE PEOPLE THAT ANSWER THIS MUST NOT BE MARRIED R IN LOVE WITH THERE HUSBAND IT HAPPEN 2 ME IVE BEEN MARRIED 25 YEARS AND ITS NOT THAT EASY LEAVING A PERSON U LIVED WITH SHARE YOUR LIVE WITH AND JUST SAY 4 GET IT ITS SO HARD SO U SHOULDNT SAY O JUST LEAVE THEM TRY IT ONE TIME IN YOUR LIFE AND U WILL REALIZE WOW I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD STAY WITH A CHEATER BUT U HAVE 2 DO WHAT IS IN YOUR HEART GOOD LUCK

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10S Player
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If this is his pattern, and it hasn't changed in years, get out. This is who he is. It's your choice: do you want to stay and be unhappy, or do you want to be free from the feelings you have been carrying around each day? He is who he is. I say move on.

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Cracker Jack
If they blow it at least 3 times, you should move on.

I've gotten way more then 3 chances, though. Perhaps I was just that lucky.

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Kitteh-n-Da Red Hoodz
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One day you will wake up and just know-it's like a switch flicked on inside of you and there's no going back-when you have no feelings for them whatsoever-Good,Bad,or Indifferent-you will leave.

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Messykatt
Be more proactive. Don't sit around waiting to see what happens next - sit him down and tell him you won't live this way anymore, and he either agrees to attend marriage counseling (and work at it - not just show up) or you're taking the kids and leaving.

You say very little about them, but their best interest should be what guides you. A relationship like the one you have now is a horrible example to set. If it can be fixed, then they'd have an intact healthy family, which is always optimal, but in some cases, like yours, doesn't happen naturally. Good luck!

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fokker - it&#39;s an airplane!
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You are BOTH doing the same thing over and over again. How can you ask if he will change when you won't? We are creatures of habit. You aren't giving him chances...you are giving him permission at this point. One of you needs to break the cycle. Be strong. Don't let him 'talk you into staying.' People can say anything - it is our ACTIONS that define us - not our words. Good luck.

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Val
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I would not be with someone like that in the first place. Choose better. *grins*. This august is our 30th anniversary. :)

However people expect too much from other people sometimes and relationships are a give and take thing. Mostly you have to learn to leave each other alone. Don't pick a fight because you've had a bad day, for example, it's not a competition. :)

Practicing Shaman... quantum physics rocks.

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