Home | Links | Contact Us | Bookmark
Legal Forum Search :
   Homepage      News     Legal Directories      Legal Forum      Dictionary  
Legal Forum    Marriage & Divorce
Legal Discussion Forum

 dont want to have sex with my husband? (adult)?
This is some additional information for my previous question. When I married my husband was a virgin and I wasn't, we never had sex. On the honeymoon I have went out an partied and he didnt as ...

 should I leave my husband?
my husband and I are not happy anymore we fight all the time, hwe drinks alot and when he does we argue, he brings up issues that were from 2008 thought we delt with. he say's things like" ...

 REPOST....would you want your hubby to go to Vegas by himself?
My husbands uncles are going to las vegas in a month or two and are inviting my husband....im not telling him not to go and am leaving it up to him but it also bothers me...its not that i dont trust ...

 I cant stand my husband and he wants us to move across country what do i do?
we got married sept of 09 and after the honeymoon the fight was on! i hate having sex with him and i hate being around him we argue 24/7 i dont know what to do now he wants me to move all the way to ...

 pls help with good advise for my hubby?
My hubby is 43 and is involved with my ex employers wife. we aere family frens and it happend just like that, now its been 2 years, he is still intouch with her and ocntinuing this silly thing, as ...

 Why do some women date a married man?

Additional Details
I don't get it. To me, that seems like the trashiest, sleaziest thing on earth, but so many women do it thinking the man will leave their wives for them (and ...

 women, how do YOU satisfy your spouse when your monthly friend visits you?

 what is something sweet i can do for my girlfiend to show her i love her alot??been together for two years...?

 For the Hot Newly divorced women only?
Gentlemen now that i have your attention my husbands birthday is May 10 should i pay for a little golfing trip for him to go on with his golfing friends or a weekend in Vegas for the two of us.

 What should i do when my brother's wife is cheating on him? tell him or not?

 I am having an affair with a guy, and i met his girlfriend?
Ok, so i have liked this guy for years and he started liking me back. I am 18 and he is 21. He said he was going to break up with his girlfriend of 2 years for me. I would never go out with a guy who ...

 Deceitful partner?
I have had a nappy/diaper fetish for years, and love to go to bed with one on and wet it. Over the years many GF's have had mixed reactions, most finding it discusting. When I met my new partner ...

 Could this be LOVE already?
I known this guy for quite sometime, he is a friend of my friends family. I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 2 months ago and almost immedialy after by chance we hung out. since thennn we spend ...

 how do i get my husband to stop beating me?
we are both very competitive people and we both love ping pong. so a few months ago i purcased a ping pong table and was practicing alot with my husband, but hes better than me and no matter what i ...

 POLL: Are you completely comfortable with sex?
I want to know how many people are completely comfortable with sex and their partners. Thank you for your complete honesty.

Are you completely comfortable with your partner when it comes ...

 how do you know if your husband is really addicted to porni catch him on the sites all the time?
he gets really mad when i ask him about it we don't even sleep together anymore he's on the couch i'm in the bed whats wrong with this ...

 Is this a good idea or cheesey?
Okay my wife is turning 30 and I'm going to throw her a party but for a gift from me I was going to write her a song about us. I have a recording setup so I was going to put it on CD for her. I ...

 I do not have any feeling for my husband?
I got mairred 2005 . But know i do not feel any love for him. I have one kid and she is 3 years. my husband want anther one but I do not want any more kid. even when he do sex ,i just do but no ...

 need advise with a cheating wife?
My wife is tramping around. we have lots of financial commitments like bank accounts in our name and home all paid for. You see the thing is she has been off of work for 6 months and i make all the ...

 Do you get tired of being intimate & kissing the same husband/wife?
I am not married but if i was i think i would get tired of fuxxxing & kissing the same girl, after yrs of being in a relationship dont you wish you were smooching with someone else?...

How do you tell your spouse that they embarrass you?
Example they used to have a great body but gained 150Lbs. How to do it so they can change.
Additional Details
I'm sorry I didn't relise that if you love someone you won't be embarrassed like if they were picking their nose or screaming at a waiter i forgot how perfect people online are

Just a question

Show all answers
Post your answer

2008-10-03 15:58:54 +0000
That is huge!! I'm surprised she's not embarrassed for herself.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:59:03 +0000
is that just an example or the actual situation? oh, you poor bastard...

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:06:53 +0000
Sound's like you don't love your spouse.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:59:03 +0000
Get them to read your post and then they can dump your shallow, pathetic ****!!

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:44:38 +0000
Tell her to go to the gym or say the both of you should go on a diet.....Def. do not say you are embarrassed!! There is absolutely nothing wrong w/telling your spouse to shape up, old age & stress blah blah blah is no excuse....if you are w/someone you do your best to keep yourself attractive to them, people get too comfortable & let themselves go, 150lbs is like gaining a whole other person WTF?

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:30:15 +0000
I can never understand why people get angry at a spouse who is either embarressed or no longer sexually attrracted to their significant other who has neglected their appearance. Gaining an excess amount of weight is a sign of lacking self control along with emotional problems that can lead to dangerous health problems. It also indicates a lack of self respect and esteem. The message it brings can create embarressment. For a person who refuses to get control over their weight and life because they just gave up is a person who obviously needs professional help. Being married to someone in this situation can be difficult because of all it brings into the relationship. For one thing, being intimate becomes difficult as the person gets so large it creates problems in getting close physically. Or worst, for a male to get so large can create him to be not even able to perform sexually. All kinds of problems come from being excessively over weight. You need to come clean with your spouse and simply let him/her know your concerns over the excess weight. Offer your love and support and guide him/her towards getting help with this problem. No need to tell him you are embarressed of him, this will be hurtful. But there is a need for you to talk to him/her and have him/her stop avoiding the issue of his/her excess weight. Good luck to you!

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:24:54 +0000
so sad you re not concerned by their health but their look !

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:02:09 +0000
Unless you're perfect yourself. You shouldn't talk Mr. I also truly believe that if you truly loved her at all you wouldn't let it bother you never mind find it embarrassing.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:59:16 +0000
get u and her a gym membership, tell her u want you and her to become more healthier so u can spend a long time together

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:58:29 +0000
And I bet your still perfect! HELLO we all gain and get old... you dont sound like you love your spouse... and if you do, then something like that would not bother you....

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 17:42:35 +0000
Well... I would wait until the two of you are alone and talk to them about it... But the weight thing is different for me because in my mind you should love your spouse no matter what size they are... You feel in love with their heart not their body.

But no picking the nose in public is a different story... I would so talk to him about that once we were alone. Or screaming at a waiter, unless they really deserved it.

I love my husband to death but he can embarrass me in public. Which I know that I have embarrassed him also so it's not a big deal. We just talk about it later and resolve the issue.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:07:48 +0000
And you ? same size ? No spread , wrinkles ,stretch marks ,sagging skin , crows feet , jowls sagging , Beer gut , thunder thighs ? Think twice , before you open mouth and insert both feet

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:23:19 +0000
I had this discussion with my partner and it did not go over very well. I did not have the discussion because i am embarrassed by him but his mother is pretty heavy and diabetes runs in his family so i told him i would like for him to start taking better care of his self because of the diabetes and because i don't want him to go through the same thing his mother is going through (she is soooo depressed with her weight it isn't even funny and is now getting ready to have both of her knees replaced next week due to her weight)
I started going to the gym and taking better care of my self and am back to my post baby bod because I wanted to do it for my self and when i do workout i get the third degree because i am not spending time with him.
Fact of the matter is that they are not going to do anything unless THEY want to.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:00:29 +0000
Wow! you are embarrass by your spouse weight gain. You must really be some looker.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:27:38 +0000
umm...she gained 150lbs! eww.

talk to her about her health and hope that she loses weight

if that was just an example, and you're asking about what someone should do in any situation, i would say NOTHING. you being embrassed is YOUR issue, not her issue. so why make her as self-conscious as you are.

unless, it's a health issue or safety issue. i wouldnt say anything.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:00:48 +0000
Hey fat @$$. Lay off the pringles and hit the gym.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:59:57 +0000
don't tell them that they embarrass you. ever. never ever. but you can be like, WE should start eating more healthily. Do you want to join a gym memebership together and so we can get back into shape like we used to be... or sit down and talk tot hem like, aren't you unhappy like that? do you want me to help you? it makes me sad that you don't care about your body anymore... that you don't appreciate yourself anymore..

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 15:58:45 +0000
That's mean... How could you even want to tell them that there weight embarrasses you?

Instead you should try working out and dieting together... I'm sure your not perfect

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:07:42 +0000
Come on 150lbs and you're just getting embarrassed now. What were you doing 100lbs ago or 50lbs ago? This is morbidly obese and life threatening, you should be more concerned about this person's life not their appearance. You both need professional help to address the weight, a trip to the gym and eating salads isn't going to fix what the problem is. Good luck.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

2008-10-03 16:03:39 +0000
weight doesn't change how you love someone, and if it does, then you are a monster. Look at it from a health stand, that weight increases the chance for heart attach and other problems. If you want them to lose the weight, talk to them because you are honestly worried about their health.

Was this answer helpful to you?  Yes  /  No

Archive: Forum - Forum - Links - Links1 - Links2 - RSS - All RSS Feeds
Trusted legal information for you. 0.024
Copyright (c) 2007-2010 Find Legal Advice Saturday, August 1, 2015 - All rights reserved - Terms of use - Privacy Policy