Could you forgive your spouse for sleeping with someone to fulfill that person's last wish?

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2008-04-01 17:49:36 +0000	No, things will never quite be the same. He may come to trust you again but never as completely as he did. You should not have done it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:52:21 +0000	I've been given 3 months to live, and my last dying wish is to sleep with you. Since you can't "deny a dying man's wish," just let me know when and where we can meet so you can cheat on your husband again. I mean, what a great excuse! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:54:16 +0000	Things wont ever be the same, but try to save what u do have left. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:55:49 +0000	What made you think that sleeping with another man...dying friend or not....would be ok? Your husband underatandably is hurt...you lied to him and betrayed him...Get counselling NOW Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:52:24 +0000	No I could not forgive him. Your friend should have known that you were married and he should have never asked you to do that, no matter if that was his last wish. In my opinion you weren't thinking of your husband when you did it, what if he now thinks that's an opening for him to turn around and have sex with one of his friends? Are you going to be able to forgive him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 18:16:40 +0000	From a Queen to a WHORE!, you know what you were doing, you probably wanted to be with your friend more than him, might as well look for someone else to sleep with as your last wish before your hubby puts you 10 feet underground Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:55:40 +0000	Bad bad bad mistake of telling Jack. Everything would have been smooth and you could have erased it from your memory. What he doesn't know, is better sometimes. He will always have this loss of trust in you. It will take time to heal but he does sound like an understanding guy, just treat him like a king for a while to mend things up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-02 00:15:43 +0000	Your desire to fulfill the last wish of a dying friend is understandable. Your following through and actually doing it is not. You were in a very emotional situation, faced with the loss of someone you once cared for very much - but at the moment when you fulfilled his wish you broke your vows with your spouse - and broke his heart as well. Unfortunately, you now have to live with the consequences. This will take a lot of time, talking, and maybe even the help of a goood marriage counselor. Consider yourself lucky that your spouse is willing to work this out - many men would not be so willing. I'm afraid you've lost your royal status with him for a while and will have to work your way back up into his good graces. You will have to treat him like the king he is for trying to save your marriage. He sounds like a good man - and you sound like a woman who has a very good heart and who let her heart lead her astray. Jack is probably questioning whether you wished you had married your ex. You've got your work cut out for you. Don't give up - you may eventually patch things up again. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:51:21 +0000	Are you serious? My SO is not a genie, so to answer your question, no. Not only is he not a genie, and it is not his duty to be fulfilling people's wishes, I also wish many things, I wish I could fly, I wish I could live in Paris, I wish I was a mermaid. Some wishes are best kept just as that, wishes. Although your intentions were good, your actions were not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:57:01 +0000	he wasn't that great of friend to direspect the fact that you were married! sounds like he found a loophole and took an opportunity! and if you loved your husband with ALL your heart, it wouldn't matter--you wouldn't cheat on him. if i were cheating on,especially in that circumstance, I could never trust that person again. because if all it took was someones wish to get you, then you'll pretty much fall for anything! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:58:42 +0000	lol...lol...lol.... I have no guilt ...you ppl need help!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 15:00:25 +0000	oh give me a break Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 15:13:52 +0000	If he would have been a true friend, he would never have asked you to sleep with him, now that you are married. Well, he got what he wanted, and probably destryoed your marriage.Sleeping with somebody else, when you are married, is wrong, under any circumstances. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:57:33 +0000	i think your situtation is totally understandable. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:52:28 +0000	I wouldn't sacrifice my loyalty to my husband for NO ONE. EVER! You need to re-think what a marriage is supposed to be lady. You are YOUR HUSBAND'S WIFE! You have NO BUSINESS presenting HIS BODY to another man! EVER! You are Your Husbands! And he is YOURS! I guess you never "got" that part! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:56:51 +0000	I understand your need to be there for your friend, however, your committment to your husband should always come first before any other. The bond between you just took a major hit that may not be repairable. I believe you two should seek counseling to see if you both can work through this. Doubt may always linger now with Jack and you worrying about whether or not he will treat you like a queen should be your last concern. You should be worried about how you treat him. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 15:11:08 +0000	Things will never be the same and it's all your fault. Nothing should ever be worth losing your marriage. I could say mean things to you, I could even call you names, but you know what? You got it bad enough, you're gonna have to live with this guilt for the rest of your life. Maybe in ur next relationship you'll think twice before u do something so wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 15:00:02 +0000	Not likely. You betrayed him in order to put someone else's needs ahead of his. What you have done is unforgiveable. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:55:15 +0000	Here's the thing: You gave Jack a reason to doubt your honesty and commitments. What happens next for Jack is pretty much up to him. The best you can do is reaffirm what you promise to him, and demonstrate that you're living by those promises. It's completely true that the relationship as it was is over. You and Jack are creating a new one. And, trust is purely a choice. If he's willing to choose to believe you, then things will go forward. If not, well... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:56:36 +0000	Sorry about your lost. But what kind of friend is that, in so many words he asked you to betray your husband. Be thankful that Jack is willing to work through this with you! I could think about hiring a GOOD whore!LOL! but never would I betray my husband for my best friends last wish, especially if it was for sex, sorry but your temple is dirty, and all broken down and stuff. so you made Jacks death coem with ease, now your left to reap the pain ans sufferings for a decision that you made to please Jack. He was going to die with or without a piece of booty! or did you not know that ? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:55:09 +0000	The idea that he deserved to know the truth is bogus. You slept with the man and that was your choice, never mind the reasons why. The choices we make in life dictate the life we lead. You didn't need to tell him for his sake; it was to alleviate your own guilty feelings about it, which is selfish on your part. You both will likely need marital counseling so you can fully appreciate the hurt that you have probably caused him. He needs a safe place to explore his hurt feelings and to confront you truly and openly about how he feels. The sad thing is that you could deny your friend's last request because when you got married, that was a sacred covenant between you and your husband "forsaking all others". I may be talking tough to you here, but things can get better if you treat him with love and respect and make him feel like a king for a while, then your royal status may return in time. But please seek professional help, don't try to do this on your own. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:51:09 +0000	You are nothing but a whore. You will live with this forever!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2008-04-01 14:53:28 +0000	Lesson learned. Never tell a secret just to relieve your own guilt. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No