should me and my gf put our bbaby up for adoption?

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zoocafian	yes. i agree, you should, i know it would be hard, but it's really needed. And there are older, more mature (no offense, really) couples out there who can't have kids and want to adopt. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jacque burkhead	i know that you both a very young and dont want to but sice you two had sex i would say keep it deal with the kid but if you feel like you are not going to beable to take care of it like you should then yes ps dont have sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tasha	Wow. Seriously, she is 19. She's an adult, she should be taking responsibility for her own actions, even if you don't want to own up to yours. Giving your baby up for adoption will be one if the biggest mistakes you've ever made without trying it first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iwuvoni187299	Yes put your baby up for adoption, and do the world a favor both of you dont have sex again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shanny	Yes you should. If you guys just don't really want to take care of it, then yes adopt the baby out. It doesn't sound that you would really do a very good job of taking care of your own child with that kind of a sh*tty attitude towards parenthood. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oscar.g	I guess you can put the kid up for adoption if you don't want the responsibility. Though one day your decision might haunt you. You should be aware of the gravity and caliber of you decisions and the consequences that follow. and if I'm not mistaken its against the law for and adult to have sex with a minor. she can be imprisoned or jailed for a long time for having done so. P.S --Don't have unprotected sex. Better Yet stay abstinant. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

What it doodooo bizznatch	well um, yeah. if you care that little about your child that you can even say that, then adoption is the probably the best option for him/her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amarlove	Well this is a tough one, yes...you 2 are very young but this baby is your guy's responsibilty. People at your age do it... then when there older and broken up they start getting this horrible guilty conscious and what if you cant have kids later or even find someone to have kids with later. You guys are young and your "relationship" isnt forever. I know I shouldnt say this BUT people think that they will fail once they have created a baby, but to be honest with you, you will feel better about yourself if you keep that baby. Get a job! buy your girl some birth control after that baby, grow up! and raise what you created. Theres soo much help out there even if your parents arent happy about it. Adopting isnt bad, but dont forget she will carry this baby for 9mons! and will feel it move, kick and all those amazing things! Im not a mother Ive had a miscarriage before so when i hear these young kids getting knocked up then not wanting to own up it breaks my heart. You can do it, it will just take a lot of sacrificing, once that baby that lived inside her for 9mons is out and living with other people you must move on. sad but true. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KC	If you honestly think hard and long about the child and what is in the best interest of the baby, I would say that you should indeed give the baby up for adoption. There are Sooooo many women who cannot have a baby. It is sad. They would welcome your little one. Responsibility if often making tough decisions. At least you decided life over abortion. I would say make sure you use protection in the future and that if this is what she really wants to do and you want no responsibility for the baby then the baby is much better off. Good Luck on your decision and either way you decide make sure that you think about it hard because it is not something that you can take back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nichola H	there is thousands off people who have been trying to have a baby for years like me , your lucky to be having a baby . i was adopted when i was a baby and looking back through my paper work now knows its not an easy thing to do , but if i was you i would ask my self 2 questions 1 can i love and look after my baby 2 can i give the baby every thing it needs as so meany people out there can . but it's not going to be easy take your time and think as it affects every ones life good luck if you wanna chat plz e mail me Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mother of a wonderful baby girl!	We don't want it because we don't want to take care of it? If you feel the child would be better off with another family, then yes. Next time, use a condom or don't have sex at all if you know you're too young or not ready for a child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SouthernGirl	WOW...if SHE was 16 and you were 19, you'd be behind bars! I hate the double standard here... Anyway "i for one am tired of hearing about all these parents killing their kids. so YES, give the baby to someone who wants and will take care of it." Ditto. I don't know how many of you remember Baby briana's murder, but I am sure if Stephanie Lopez would have came to yahoo answers about adoption, she would be told by all birthparents to keep her baby. "Your baby is better off with you" Her baby, along with many others, should have been put up for adoption. So yes, if you seriously "don't want it" then consider placing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gypsyrose	She is an adult, perfectly capapble of taking care of a child. If you make the descion to have sex you make the desicion of possibly having a child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Proud Nuna	Yes you probably should,if neither want of you want to take care of it...your baby would be better off with someone that DOES want to take care of it. You should put the welfare of your child first. And next time,wear a condom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shanna	i for one am tired of hearing about all these parents killing their kids. so YES, give the baby to someone who wants and will take care of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No