Would you have an affair with someone else if you would know that your husband is cheating on you?

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my name is what?	The real question is, why is he cheating on you? The truth is if you do not take care of your man, he will cheat on you. If I did not cook for my husband, pleasure him on regular basis, he would leave me too. Really, think about it. If you keep your husband happy, he will not leave you. Do not point a finger at him, look what coused it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

paka2lolo	No!!! Why bring yourself to a low down A## as your husband... You are better than that.. Sit down with your husband and have a good talk with him and if he don't have a good answer.. You know what to do...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goodsense	You didn't give all the particulars. But, just by the info you gave, I would just leave someone if they were cheating on me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the_silverfoxx	no. please dont do that . you dont have to drop to his level. belive me on this matter i had a wife . now.ex. do this he has to look at his self in a mirror and see his self every day for betraying the trust as well the wedding vow he broke not you in gods eyes you are free to leave and remarry and who every he marries both commit adultry in gods eyes . let god handle him and whoever hedone this with belive me i know the feeling . and in time you have to do one of the.2. things work this out or leave him .he has to gain your trust over this and he hasa long road on what he has done again dont drop to his level . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ntoriano	What? And give the other fodder to throw at me later? No. Don't stoop to that level. Two wrongs don't make a right. Let him make the mistakes. In a divorce, infidelity isn't even a factor in a high majority of states including California. Although, if it shows detriment to children or abandonment of spouse for length periods of time or indications of a mental health issue, then you can take it for a mile. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janet	Hell yeah. You should be out looking to have sex with all his bestfriends if you know that he is cheating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dragonfire	you are obviously too young to get married in the 1st place, divorce now, lick you emotional wounds, cut your losses now and move on, pursue a carrer, get a treu life and then think about marraige again. the revenge sex factor is typical of those who have not fully matured Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

javarick	Two wrongs do not make a right. I morally could not. I do not want to be such a jerk (I would like another word, but Yahoo does not like that). They have to live with it, I do not and have plans of that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Abbi	No. two wrongs don't make a right. My number one priority would be our son, and making sure he is ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Olivia R	Been there and done that...Believe me it's not worth it. Two wrongs don't make a right. Leave him and then move on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rachel	Can you say high school mentality? I'm going to hurt you because you hurt me. HLL no, I'd just kick his sorry ss to the curb..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sokrvolleyhoopsmom	Oh that nagging question. I am sure this is a major debate on here. Well, it is what you think is right for yourself. If you like getting back at people, then you will. BUT, it will not solve a thing, except involve yet one more person, and lower you to his level.....But then again, it could give you the feeling of HAH, got you! so whichever you like, it certainly is not for someone to decide for you. Look inside your true self, you have the answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bluecat	No, you will be taking away your own dignity. Nobody can humiliate you except yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

msthinkpositive	Unfortunately, before the divorce, that happened, and it only made me feel like crap. Two wrongs won't make things right, and you're taking the chance of him turning the negative issues in your relationship on you if you get caught. Guys have a tendency not to get caught until well into cheating, and females would get caught during the 1st or 2nd time. So, just think about what you want for your happiness, and go for it. He's not going to let that occur easily, but you can do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

You call that CHANGE?	ADULTRY IS ADULTRY!! 2 WRONGS DO NOT MAKE A RIGHT...... I THOUGHT EVERYONE KNEW THAT!! WHAT YOU ARE HOPING FOR IS SOMEONE, A PERFECT STRANGER TO GIVE YOU THE GO AHEAD, BUT ITS NOT GONNA COME FROM ME. I THINK YOU BOTH NEED TO DO SOME GROWING UP! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

veto	well i would not because as the old saying goes two wrongs dont make a right. just leave him if you can prove it and find someone that will love you the way you should be loved and respected Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

punkin	Good question. I've been in that situation before and I would have to say no. Every dog has his day. Payback is a !@#$* Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jason V	No. It would make you just like him. If you can't get over it, separate first. Let him suffer the guilt (if he has a concsience) and live on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Serendipity	yes and do it with his best friend Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lufi's mom	My husband cheated on me but i have no desire to do what he did to me...I talked this thru with him, gave him second chance when he asked...I don't believe on an eye for an eye if this is the case...if you really love you husband you need to talk this thru with him, if nothing can fix it then you need to leave him, done with him...good luck ;) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladywhiteheart	cheating just because the other party has cheated never solves the problem but rather creates more problems. And walking out is not always the solution either although I know most would say ditch the dude. If you love the man which I feel you do but are hurting because of inappropriate behavior on behalf of the husband, try to talk through the problems and see if you can get to the root of the problems so you understand why he cheated to begin with. It is possible to forgive and yes, I know they say once a cheater always a cheater but that simply is not the case in all situations.with strong guidance and a good counselor as well as working together to rebuild not only the relationship but the trust in the relationship, it is possible through hard work to get things back on track, but try to remember not to point fingers and browbeat because true honest communication begins with but a single word and the willingness to work together as a joint unit rather than as separate units that are no part of a whole. and forgiveness does not mean forgetting but it does mean not wielding it as a weapon of further pain and torture. Good luck and keep me posted...you can e-mail me at ladywhiteheart@yahoo.com Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DPage	no I feel that is no way to take care of the situation. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just me	Ok! Cooking for him and giving lot's of sex and otherwise waiting hand and foot on him.WILL NOT KEEP HIM FROM CHEATING if it's his nature.Some guy's are just skeezy,childish and never become real men.And you cheating won't even the score.Sorry.You need to be happy,SO time to move on. Good luck... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James	So you want to know if it's OK to cheat on your husband if he's cheating on you. First, ask him if it's OK for you to have an affair. If he says yes then, it's OK... but, if he say no, then ask him if he wants you to be feel sad, if he says yes, then you have an important decision to make, if he says no... perhaps he's willing to talk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweet	yes! because two wrong don't make it right, but lets see how he like it.being cheat on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wendi_timney	Yes i wolud go for it grilfriend. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ontheotherhand	Actually, it depends. IF you are going to end the marriage, then no. If you plan to allow extrra people in your marriage, then sure. I guess it depends on what you want, class, or empty, cheap, sex. I lean toward having class. Kick the bum to the curb, file for divorce, and THEN, and only then, do whatever you want. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JAZY	HELL YEAH!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angelbabyface00	depends on how much he is worth with the divorce...if big bucks then no friggin way. If not, then **** his best friend! 2 wrongs dont make a right, true true. but i like karma...waht goes around comes around!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whatIthink	Two wrongs don't make a right. If he's cheating why stay with him. Call it quits and go on with your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladeeluv76	No, I would just leave him, two wrongs don't make it right. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No