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Why won"t my husband let me get breast implants?
I have always wanted breast implants and my husband keeps telling me no even though we can afford them and he spends tons of money on things he wants. His ex-fiance had them and he has mentioned before that he liked them. It really hurts my feelings. Does he not want me to get them b/c I am his wife and he would get jealous or what's the deal here?



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supababe
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maybe he likes yours exactly how they are men find it hard to tell women what they really think i would take this as a compliment maybe his ex had hers done because they where awful so he supported her decison, sit down and talk to him, another reason may be that he knows the risks and loves you too much too have you fo through risks, just talk to him and explain the procedure and the risks and tell ask him why he does not want you to go ahead with the opperation, also make sure that you are happy with what you are wanting to do and also make sure that you have a highly recomended doctor do the opperation, do NOT rush into anything!!! good luck x

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aish
okay i will try to give ur answer that i know. well u take to ayurvedic tips.breast-oil and with breast tablets.u can do massage 2 times per day by greast oil and take to tablet 3 times with milk.thats all prodect produced by dr nita goswami.okay tc n bye.

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rebecca m
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maybe he think they are perfect, maybe he like the real thing

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Marxx
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Could be dangerous for you .
Hope you are aware of it .
Fake is fake and when you touch it , you' ll know it .
Guess mayb you just feeling insicure .

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ndvsne1
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Because there dangerous! You could poke an eye out or something!

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dukalink6000
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Unless he can come up with a genuine reason not to, and you want them, he should let you

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One Love <3
If his ex. was not faithfull this might be why. or if she was flauting then everyone after she got them. He might just not want you to be too attractive. Just talk too him about all these things and reasure him that you him and only him. Also tell him that you want the implants for YOU not every one else.

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valda54
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can't understand anyone wanting to get big boobs,, guess it might be a bit of jealousy on your husbands part , but if he is happy with them, why waste your money , you got your man, so whats the need to look more attractive to other guys, if your flat as a pancake though, that's an other story, if its vanity, then its misplaced

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I don't know about your hubby, but when I caress my woman's breasts and kiss them, I don't want to be kissing some crappy silicone.

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Happy Camper
Some reasons might be selfish. Some other reasons might be very good reasons. I won't list them here.

The point is: It's a marriage.

If you don't think he will give you an honest answer when you ask him, or if you believe your life demands you to risk your relationship for the sake of appearance, then you might consider a counselor.

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JUSTGIRL
U will regret abt having implantants, if u go to a surgery

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Sarahsmama
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It is YOUR body, and YOU are in control of it!!!

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BigJake418
You don't need breast implants. If your husband is like me, he may prefer the real deal. I know I like the real thing. Plus there are health risks that go with that. Why take a chance?

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restless_nymph
Maybe he knows how fake and tacky they are, and doesn't want you to fall in to that category. Implants aren't all they're cracked up to be, they *look* great with certain clothing, but they certainly don't look natural- not by a long stretch. Is he citing a financial issue, or is he just citing he doesn't want you to get them. What's the real reason you want the implants? Who are you trying to impress? You have to look at it from a male perspective. Wife has nice perky breasts now, men will raise an eyebrow now, because they're so nice and perky, and will hit on his wife.

Having larger breasts isn't about improving your self image, it's about enhancing something that will make you more enticing to the opposite sex. You should be happy with what God gave you. You husband married you just the way you are, why would you want to go and change that ...for the sake of appearances?

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SayWhat?
I would advise you to do whatever YOU want/need to do to feel good about yourself. My first guess is that this is a control issue with your husband, or maybe your husband has some inadequacy issues with himself. But obviously the best any of us on Yahoo is guess because we aren't there in your situation.

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happytone365
Maybe he loves you just the way you are?

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T-baby
I feel he is being unfair if he buys all the things he wants you should be able to get them

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Al s
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I can't tell you why your husband is against your wanting implants, but I can tell you that my ex-wife of 31 yrs wanted them and it was the start of the downfall of our marriage. I was accustomed to and have always been drawn to smaller breasted women, so the size had an adverse effect on me. Also her reasoning for wanting them was that she dealt with the public and wanted to look good. She was the night auditor at a Ramada Inn and never hardly had any customers after 11 pm and wore a jacket that would hide them anyway. Besides, who would want a customer looking at their breasts. I always look at the eyes. Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Good luck in figuring this one out.

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Lab 7
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Your husband sounds very insecure. If getting them makes you happy then, he should support you. Know that insecurities like this are a sign of an unfaithful person. Usually these people try to keep their mate plain so no one else takes interest. This way they feel more secure when they are away enjoying big breasted women or muscular men (whatever applies).

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Indymom
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Maybe he likes the way they are now.. Breast arent everything you know....

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Eastcoast beachgirl
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It is hard for a man to tell his wife that he loves her just as she is. Although he may like the fact of implants, inside he is probably scared that once you have them done...you will not want him anymore. It may sound silly, but that is the way a lot of men feel when their wives have any type of alterations done to their physical look. They feel like they have to compete to stay with you. If it is something that you really want for yourself, I say you go and get it. He will still be there and if you love him and show him how much you do he should feel more comfortable with your decision. Don't back down, if it will bring u up.

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Tim S
Maybe your husband likes you the way you are.

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duster
it's your body. If you feel that you with out a doubt, need those implants, go have it done.
remind hiem expencive items, go both ways

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stanleys_2001
Well I NEVER deny my woman ANYTHING she wants.

However it seems like he's got some experience on this one...

AND certainly HE has something to gain.

I'd ask him WHY. Perhaps what he's saying is: You're perfect just as you are... no modifications necessary.

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tabby90
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Obviously he likes you they way you are and doesn't want you to risk injury from surgery just to change your appearrance.
If he doesn't want them, why do you?

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Lil C2
Not sure how much sense that last statement of yours makes, jealous? Naw, he probably doesn't wanna be touching some big fake boobs everyday. A dude will pick real breasts over fake ones any day. I know I will. I like looking a big fake ones of strippers or in movies, but I don't wanna be close to those things. It might put an eye out.

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Chris
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Ask him. Maybe he associates artifically inflated breasts with a naturally deflated brain. Remember, it is his EX fiance who had them.

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tbear
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He loves you just the way you are! Be Happy for that.

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DJ
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Have you asked him why he doesn't want you to get them? Maybe he's happy with the way you are. Maybe he doesn't want you to hurt your body. Maybe he doesn't want you to do what his ex did, which may be the reason she is now his ex. You're going to have to talk to him to find out his reasoning.

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Mark Paul the 1st
I would suspect that he likes you the way you are

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anney
There are a few thing's it could be, it could be the fact that he is worried that it will create unwanted attraction from the opposite sex which would make him jealous,It also could be that he loves you just the way you are, however on the other hand , if he really loved you he would let you coz whatever makes you happy should make him happy, and after all , married or not surely its your decision because its you that will have to go through the pain ,its your body,,hes married to you, he doesn't own you!!!!!
Go for it girl you only live once!!!

lol offer him a t/w everyday he might agree without ill feeling!!! hahaha

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