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sarah kay
Why is my soul mate married to someone else?
he's my soul mate, mr. Right and 'the one' or 'the right one' all rolled up into one. but the thing is he's married to someone else. why this problem occured with soulmates?
I suppose that MY soul mate is married and I should accept the fact that I found my soul mate at last, and be happy with that! Do soul mates have to be married to one another too? Isn't that a lot to ask?



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WannaHug?
my lady sarah. it's a good thing your soul mate is tied down. that way you receive all the sex benefits & still have free time to roam for more desperate husbands in the neighborhood

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Ember Halo
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perhaps he's not really your soul mate
or perhaps he made a logical decision.
i thought i had found my soul mate, but he got another girl pregnant when we were on a "break" after he moved 200 miles away. he ended up marrying her to be responsible.
it happens.
you have to move on.

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Ginger
Yeah, ok. Accept it and move on, yes.

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nunya
Sounds like you are barking up the wrong tree. Find a tree that does not have all its branches, then maybe you will be the branch to make him bloom. lol

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nikki f
you may feel that he is your soul mate, but your aren't his.. sorry.. don't waste your time on him, go out and find another ...

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hell no
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if he really is your soul mate, and he finds you to be his soul mate (if he doesnt than you guys definately arent sould mates) then things will for sure end up the way they should

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Been There Done That
Because He isn't your soul mate......Trust me....your soul mate is still out there.......wait on him.

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nickson faction
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no such thing as a soul mate

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floridaman39us
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I am sorry that I got married. I know I should have waited on you.

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michael g
I'm not so sure if soul mates have to get married or not but I do understand how you feel I too have gone through that but let me tell you this I believe that there are more than just 1 soul mate for each of us! You will find another. You will not forget the one but you will find another who will help you to remember less! If he is married then leave him that way! I do not think that its too much to ask to marry a soul mate either! You keep looking and when you least expect it he will be there!

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Nonya
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u dont know hes ur soul mate

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Sean H
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so u love the guy? if so im sorry to say that he doesnt love u back and perhaps he isnt mr right. mr right is still waiting for u so move on and keep looking for him. one day u will meet him and u will marry him. gud luck

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Swami Logicanand ji Mahraj
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Hey Sarah
Dont mind but if my My Soulmate gets married to someone else....I wouldnt call her "Soulmate" .....I Would call her "Assoul-mate" ....Thats life honey...you just cant get everything "Right" into your account..... It always happens....

I tell ya how....lets we all have certain standards of "Mr/Ms Right".....which is always higher than what we are......Had he been of upto what you are...He wouldnt have been your Mr Right.
Same is the case with him....He must be having certain standards of his "Ms Right"......which is surely CAN NOT be YOU......because he is looking up...not down....isnt it.....so thats life....cheer up....
Now the Bottom line..."Never marry your Mr Right....Marry someone for whom you are "Ms Right".....

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Mal-mal
because he is a but head for cheating on you.

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I tell it like it is
He is your soul mate? How do you know? Is it the glances you exchange with him that makes you believe this? It sounds like a case of the forbidden fruit to me.
Even if he is your soul mate, are you willing to attempt to steal him away from his wife? A true soul mate would only want what is best for him, and if he is in love with his wife; would grant the space needed to allow them to carry on their life.
If you found him once, you`ll find him again, maybe the next time around.

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Tom S
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no just keep having the affair... it could last for years... but one day you will rellize that you want more from life... not just sneaking around.....

trust me all people have more than just one soul mate out there... you just haven't met the others yet... you will.. hang in there..

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Beatngu
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Hes not your soul mate if he is married... He may seem close enough to what you think is your soul mate, but married shows clearly he isn't.

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pussycat
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Sarah Kay wake up! It is only in your minds eye that he is your soulmate. Don't waste your time on this man or your soul itself with experience much more misery. We reap what we sow in life. You are young, pretty and should be out there having fun and meeting people and doing things, not worrying about some married man. He made his choice way before he met you.

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Monica
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I'm so sorry my broken-hearted friend. How unfortunate that you and your soul mate did not connect in time. That is really sad. Oh well, it is however time for you to move on. Did he know you before he met his wife? Did he feel you were his soul mate. Sometimes we are infatuated with others and they are not that infatuated with us. I hope that you will find someone that will make you just as happy as you try to make others. The main thing is not to give up on love.

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Mindy S
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he's not your soul mate if he is already married

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Ben B
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If he is already married then he is not your soul mate,,,sorry about that but you need to get on with your life and forget him.

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Fenway♥George
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hmmm, if he feels the same way about you, maybe he'll leave his wife and marry you, so that he can cheat on you and find his soul mate.

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ndnqt1966
If he were truly your soul mate...then why is he not with you? You didn't say that he married another....only that he is married....so I am assuming that you are or had an affair with this man.....I don't necessarily believe that soul mates have to be married....but if you consider the "mate" part....I would think that they should at least be with you.

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flagger
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I firmly believe that the concept of a soulmate is flawed.
In fact I think it is fantasy.

In your case this "soulmate " is married and thus unavailable. It seems you only view the unavailable as having any insight into your thoughts.
It is often much easier to be open with a person who there can be no permanent attachment to.

Perhaps you should look a little more for the guys who ARE available and give them a more access to you. Removing some defenses from the path of the available may make them seem more understanding.

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Dan D
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I suggest you stop thinking about a “soul mate” or “Mr. right” or “the one”. You are just kidding to yourself and eventually will lead you to more problems and frustrations.

Nobody is perfect. You are not, I’m not, and your “Mr. Right” is not either. You will always find a problem or a “defect” and then you will be disappointed if you keep thinking like that.

A real relation is not made from a “love at first sight”, but from sharing, understanding and sacrifices. You might like someone, and that someone might like you, but until you both start living together, sharing your lives, having good and bad times together, sharing money, house, cars, everything! And also of course sharing intimacy and making love to each other too (have sex, make love, however you want to call it).

Love will then emerge when you both understand what is to be living in a relation, when you both will sacrifice for each other without asking or even expecting anything in return.

You will then know that it is that person and no one else the “Mr. Right” as you call it. And still, there will be lots of down times, fights and depressions, and getting out of it together is what will unite the two of you even more.

If your “Mr. Right” is a married man, then you haven’t live with him, shared your life with him, or really fall in love with him. Then he is not really any “right” for you and you should forget about this person and look where you really need to look and avoid getting with married or engaged people at all.

Hope this helps.

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nathalie6smile
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I think that your thinking your Mr. Right is this guy but he's really his wifes Mr. Right and she's his Mrs. Right.You have a Mr. Right out there somewhere you just have to find him.You probably think that he's the Mr. Right because it's probably taking A long time to find the right one for you. He already found his rtight one and believe it or not but God definitely has a better SINGLE guy for you just waiting to be discovered.

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B'H'
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There is not such thing as soul mate any more than there is such thing as the perfect marriage. It's all about compatibility and comprimise. You'll find someone, so don't give up.

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VROD
There are "soul mates" out there for all of us.Each one of us,deep inside have what we feel is a yearning or lust if you will of what our soul mate is to be.It can be very complicated.I was married to mine for 10 years,but alas,she thought the grass was greener and split.I have contemplated this very question often and have come the realization that anyone can be a soulmate.It comes down to finding someone thats exactley like you,but only different.there are many qualities rolled up into making a soulmate and those change as we get older.What you may think today,you will find is not what you want tomaro.For me,it enough that I truely found my soul mate and I'm happy I had her for awhile.Now I have found another soul mate and although you can't compare the two,the two are speacial in thier own way,for ME.Open your mind and your heart and you will be surprised at what you will find.

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Roxy James
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I think that OBVIOUSLY if he's already married that he is not your soul mate. I also think that soul mates can be not romantic in nature. But if you're attracted to him then he's OBVIOUSLY not your soul mate....

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penelope
You are not thinking rational at all! Stop with the mumbo-jumbo talk about your soul mate! For gods sake, hes married! You tell me how in the world you think that he is Mr.Right and your soul mate all wrapped in one, when in reality, this man is not yours, he belongs to his wife. So stop this fantasy and get on with what is real, not what your wants and dreams are. Can you even imagine if this guys wife were to find out that theres a chick out there that thinks her husband is her soul mate? She would either laugh, or get disgusted. So stop the imaturity and act like a grown up adult woman!

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BabeHeart
A soulmate is simply someone we have a strong connection to, almost immediately. Sometimes it's as if they know our thoughts and dreams w/o us verbalizing them...as if we knew each other in a previous life.

Soulmates come in all types though. They can be our age, much younger or much older...same sex, or different sex. They are often not romantic partners or lovers for us, but they can sometimes be. Some people meet none in a lifetime, others may meet many.

There is no "the one" (THANKFULLY!!)...there are "the many" when it comes to people who would potentially be wonderful matches or partners for you. How depressing to think there might be only one, on a planet of nearly 7 billion people. Your chances of winning the lottery and getting struck by lightening in the same day would be greater than that of ever meeting that "One".

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