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 My hub cheated 5yrs ago, and now again..should I leave him?
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Why do men cheat???? Please Answer?



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prinsisss
When there;s nothing left in the relationship and they are always fighting. When he feels unloved and neglected in the relationship.

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The One, The Only Krandazzo!
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this question is getting WAY too old!

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Christina
Men cheat because either they aren't getting any, they fight with the other too much. they aren't happy. they can do better, they think the other deserves better, and guys are complicated. There are so many reasons why guys do certain things.

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green31
Some PEOPLE cheat because they grew up seeing that from family members, or because they are afraid of commitment, or because they think they won't get caught, because they had a bad sense of judgement, because they want more attention from a spouse and just like a child they do bad things, there are so many reasons why PEOPLE cheat, some PEOPLE just don't care, some PEOPLE may be going through something in life and feel better (even if for a minute) but their problems are still there afterwards.

Theres no one reason why PEOPLE cheat, the cheater may not even know. But counseling can help, its not always only the cheaters fault, both parties need to have a good relationship with each other and talk about their problems with each other.

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mandy
It isn't only men that cheat.. women cheat probably just as much as men do , and the reason that people cheat is usually that they aren't happy with the relationship they're in or their partner isn't giving them what they want.
But before they go and cheat they could easily just tell the person they're with that they aren't happy.. it might be hard on the person but i'm sure you would rather be told that he wants out of a relationship than have him going around and cheating on u with another woman.

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becka_band-aid
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everybody has a diffrent reason-maybe he was a "wee bit lavender" (gay) or maybe he was kinda like,"i need something new" But guys like that are people that you don't need-move on,move on.

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Destiny
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It goes way before in our primitive instict.
Since men were fighting in war, hunting and get themselves killed easily or die earlier before women, men population was less than the women.
So, in order for women to bear children, they need men and they didn't care if these men already had wives. As long as women get children

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akptll@llday!!
men cheat b/c they dont know what they want. they are scared of commitment & want nothing to do with a serious relationship.

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lochrin_wow
So many great looking women...
So little self control...

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friendlymom
they cheat for a variety of reasons- unhappy with what they have, little self control, adventure-loving,do not have the guts to tell the truth, have been cheated themselves!

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Tzomei
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There's no one reason for it. Some do it because they can. Others do it because something's missing in the relationship. Some do it to flaunt their "superiority" over their spouses. Others do it out of impulse, or because they're abusers. Or because they simply don't respect the bounds of marriage. For some, it was a mistake done in the heat of the moment. Could be a combo of those reasons. Like I said, there's no one reason.

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Versacetica
Dissatisfaction with their lives or relationship but most of all because they have convinced themselves( goes for both men and women) that what they are doing is justifiable.cheers

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BEE
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Hi. I don't mean to simplify , it but it comes down to the wife will not , or can not please there husbands. Same goes for women....if they are unhappy, they will stray. It is much more complicated than that, many factors are involved. You have to be happy with whom ever you are with.......so on and so on. Hope this helped.

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Slowblinker
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They are lacking something. What is it? Could be:
1. Commitment period
2. Sex in their own relationship
3. Intimacy in their own relationship
4. The were not ready to commit to their current relationship
5. Fear of growing up/older
6. Insecurities
7. Because it is just sex
8. Inability to communicate

Funny thing is, those are ALL reasons why women cheat too.

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Cathy J
Because they think they can get away with it.

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wmf936
Dicky Dunkin is a great way to pass time. (;-}

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Floridagirl
I have yet to figure that out. I don't necessarily think it is always because they don't love you, but perhaps it is because they feel unloved by there significant other. maybe there is a lot of arguing and fighting in the relationship and they think cheating may make them happy, or at least for a while it might. They might not be getting what they need with the other woman either, but love her too much to let her go so they resort to cheating.

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Liz
Low self esteem. They feel insecure about their looks and feel the need to prove they are attractive to women.

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Kitsune
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Because their spouse/significant other isn't giving them something they need.

Lack of open communication causes the eye and mind to wander.

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strapping
The same reasons women do.

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gogobearbm
Pretty much the same reason that women do....some combination of insecurity (and thus needing validation) and unhappiness.

Now...a better question to me is why do woman stay with cheaters....this seems to be far more common amongst women than men.

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~♥Truckers Wife♥~
Men cheat because they are not happy with what they have. some will regret it, some will enjoy it.

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Freddy Benson
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Monopoly takes too long to finish if we don't cheat.

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Miranda K
people cheat because they feel all their needs arent being fulfilled at that time

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Master Ingamells.
Temptation...
They aren't getting what they think they should from whom they are with.

Cheating is disgusting!!!!!!

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bambi52
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The same reason women cheat...they lack commitment and respect for their significant others.

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Anne..x
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sometimes because they are not getting what they need and want in the relationship, so they tend to go out and find it from another person

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rockstardom17
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the same reason woman do!

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Wanda
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The same reason women cheat.

Boredom
to feel desired
to feel powerful
lust

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Mike
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for the same reason woman do

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Marc S
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Same reasons women do.

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