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survivor_hope
When a man leaves his wife for another woman?
The reasons - he was not happy and his needs were not being met. But he told the other woman that he still loved his now ex wife and that his ex wife was his best friend. They were married for 10 years. My question - when a man has these types of feelings for his ex wife - how will his new relationship be impacted? When he sees his ex wife (which is not very often - she was very hurt by his actions and limits contact only when it is about the kids) I swear he is still attracted to her. Is that possible?



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poodle mom
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dont mistake his "feelings of guilt" for something else...if he were still attracted, and in love, he would be there...not with the new lady.

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Jason J
I think it is extremely possible. I would say it is a case of the grass is always greener. had to quote a cliche but sometimes you don't know what you got til its gone, and that sounds like the case here.

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okiemuskvet
Very possible. You know the old saying about the grass being greener on the other side, well sometimes it isnt. Sounds like he found that out and wants to keep communication and oppertunities open with the ex. You never know what you loose till its gone.

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muffbro
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Splash cold water in your face......wake up. Emotions are not switchable.....gonna be a funny crooked road you be going down.....good luck.

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♥Lucky Charm♥
Yup, some just start to realize that when they lose what they had.

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tamalia*tink
Lucky girl, sounds like the perfect ending. I wish my husband would find someone to make him happy because I sure can't. And if we could still be friends for the children's sake that would be wonderful.

Sorry, I'm a little weary in well doing right now.

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Rein
That wouldn't fly for me for one minute. I feel I should be my honeys best friend. Not another woman that he loved and was married to for 10 years. He still loves her, you can bet on it.

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BIG BEN
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Yes, it's possible..... my sister is married, but actually luvs another man but in all reality she can't be with the other man because he's involved with another woman. and plus he lives in the midwest., which is far away from her.

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darlingK
Yes, I think so.

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ricepat2000
Look it will not be possible to have a healthy relationship with this person, because he still has feelings for his ex-wife. So until he decides to move on and can focus completely on his new relationship, he is not a good candidate for a serious relationship.

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tballmombabe
She was his wife and is the mother of his children he will always have some type of feelings for her, truth be known

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katydid
He was being very honest when he said he still loved his now ex wife. If I were the other woman, I'd find a man who could love me with 100% of his heart.

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mmurray001
There are times in a relationship when one feels that their need aren't being met it could be sexual or communication problems. But remember this man was married to this woman for ten years and have two children together so there for they still have a bond between them. If he still has feelings for his ex-wife he truly never stop loving her just put his needs before the cart. You have a lot to deal with. Best of luck

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wrdsmth495
Sure, it's possible. In fact, there will always be a connection there... but it's not necessarily an attraction.

Nothing can erase the memories they've shared. It's called baggage for a reason...you carry it with you always!

But, your job as 'new girl' is to be creating new, different memories now. While she was his best friend, you are now. So, step up and be the best friend!

Also, consider that he may be feeling some guilt, too. If she is still bitter with him about all that has happened, he knows he hurt her and probably feels bad about it. You need to leave that alone- in this case, it's a good thing. A little guilt on his part means he'll always try and be civil when dealing with her, and that can only make things better in the long run.

Honestly, this should be a good thing for you to see. He's capable of commiting to a relationship and will ride it out until it just won't work anymore.

If you can keep it working, you should be fine!

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the other women will be going through alot this man is feeling guilty.....its going to haunt him..he really hasnt had time to heal....

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Lupita
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sometimes old habits die hard, and/or he is still attracted to her

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qwerty
it is impossible for a man to love one and live with another woman.
it could be possible only if he's strongly sexually attrated towards the latter.

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cboursiq
If you wish for a "menage-a-trois", go for this type relationship. Staying with this man means that you are on borrowed time. He has mixed feelings and confused for now. Later on, he will act as if you are the problem, because you are not the solution either.
There is a big chance that this guy will cheat and want his wife back or someoneelse.

Best luck!

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apple bottom
Hell Yah and with that said. He still wants her. Don't be surprise if you find out he's been seeing her. Wake up it's not always about the kids.

He was telling her something when he told her that he is still in love with his ex wife. It sounds like she left his ***.

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nita5267
When a man leaves his wife for another woman, he is an idiot. Sure, he can still have feelings for his ex-wife. The reason he left had nothing to do with her, but his need for self-fulfillment. I hear a lot of people talk about what they don't get out of their relationship, but the one you have with yourself makes all the difference in the world, and that reflects on everything else you do.

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back2future
maybe this man will leave another woman for another woman.. watch out.. if he cheated before, he might cheat again... remember, cheater is always a cheater....

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Oracle
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Why oh why do people want love to be entirely exclusive to them and not recognise there are many degrees?

If a man loves his wife surely he can love his mother, father, daughter, son and grandchildren!

Living or being married to someone for a number of years cannot be shrugged off - it matters. But if he chose you over his wife then you have the strongest bond. Displaying a lack of trust in his love for others can only weaken it.

Respect and love his ability to care and love others whilst holding your love as the most important!!

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just_me_1955
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yes it is very possible, when a man and woman have kids there is always a connection,when a man leaves because His needs were not being met then he was not doing his job either!!

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MJ
sure they have a history together + kids.... all men have an affection for the woman who bore their children.....{no matter how bad the marriage and divorce were}

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shayna_rochelle
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This man, is always going to love her because that is his kids mom. Maybe this guy just realized what he had and now he don't have it any more and this is making him miss her. This woman has been in his life for 10 years you can't just expect him to act like she was never there.

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Le BigMac
A man being attracted to more then one woman? Yes, that is possible.

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xyz
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Of course it is possible, he was with her for 10 years, he was just thinking that the other woman was a better catch and then realized what his wife had to offer.

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kymmy_kins
YES....He will always have feelings for her....They were married and had children. The other woman is just a sexual surrogate. When the wife ends the marriage, the man usually did not want it to end. He wanted things to remain the way the were--wife and other woman. But, wife was very hurt and could not live like that and so now husband has regrets. He probably cares for other woman, but not the same.

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gypsy g
Sometimes you get back what you put into it--sometimes you don't. Life is a game of individual players, you can never forsee how things will work out because of free will.

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lanagrl78
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Yes it's possible. If he left only because they weren't getting it on enough, then you're nothing more than a lay whenever he wants.

He's probably still very much in love with her but she wasn't giving it up enough.

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Alex B
people always want what they can't have. before it was this other woman, and now it's your wife. and no, things are not going to work out between you and this other woman. you're gonna need a lot of time alone to get over your ex wife. this new girl went from being your mistress to being your rebound.

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