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Whats the best way to get even with a cheating spouse?



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joyceeleann
divorce....Revenge will only eat your soul and your heart. Be the better person.

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2u
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take her to the cheater home and leave her.there would be some nice fireworks if the man she was f...ing is currently married.

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pepper
Why would you want to get even? If you want to stay with that person then forgive and forget - if you dont then leave - there are no "winners or losers"

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annie
Just leave .Why lower yourself to getting even.Be a mature adult and move on..

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Romans 8:28
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You don't provide enough info, so if it's the first time this has happened, FORGIVE. (Even if it's not, forgiveness is crucial to YOU being able to move on.) If your spouse is truly remorseful, go to marital counseling. If this is a repeated offense and you truly see no remorse / chance of your spouse changing their ways, you have valid grounds for divorce. Revenge belongs to God...

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lilly
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well id say get them drunk take them home ram a big bottle of coke up thier **** and take fotos then kick them out on to the street and put the pics all round thier neighbourhood!!!!!!!!!
i think they will think twice about doing it again unless they found it a turn on.
failing that just get on with your life best revenge can sometimes be letting other person see your better off without them and your not bothered by thier fallanerding ways

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Scorpius59
the best revenge is to live well. (are you willing to live not trusting him?)

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jlonva
No matter what you do, you won't get over it.

In the mean time, might I suggest something that I found hysterically horrible that one of my girlfriends did to her boyfriend?

Ex-lax brownies. Have them ready when he comes home. He'll have a painful night and you'll be giggling on the inside for weeks.

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lielew20
1) Watch "Diary of a mad black woman" for ideas.
2) Divorce the person, get full custody of the children.

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Iqbal
Getting even does not solve any problem. Get some counselling togather with your spouse.

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needingitnow342000
find a nice hot young thing, get her to bed, film it and then give it to your cheating spouse as a present.. then find a real good divorce lawyer...lol

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flieder77
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Make sure your spouse is guilty of cheating, have the proof. Then confront your spouse and let it be known, that you will not tolerate it and unless it stops immediately, he needs to live somewhere else. The most important thing for you to do is to get a medical check up and make sure he has not given you STD.

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sean
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leave it leave it now big trust issue for ever

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ilisalec
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This is the wrong kind of thinking. Just leave move on. You will get no satisfaction from trying to cause harm to someone else or being mean. Let it go. The cheater will feel it when your out of their life and realize what they lost that is the best way. You need to be the better person.

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I wouldn't try to "get even" - why stoop to their level? I would try to talk it all out and see if your marriage can be salvaged, if not, divorce - if so, counseling. Good luck!

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leoslady3900
I would say that for you to cheat as pay back would be best but if you have morals that's going to be hard to do.but at the same time,your spouse would know how you felt when you was cheated on because she or he would feel the same way.but keep in mind they always say once a cheater always a cheater,or you can't turn a ho into a housewife.Good luck in your decision personally I would leave and find some one worthy of your love and your life.

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puggylover
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Be the bigger person. Don't get even just end it.

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Doodie
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Cheat back and then leave

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Filthy Lucre
First of all you can't. No such thing as "even" in that case. So why would you want to?

If you can forgive and forget - just do it. If not, just go. In the end, you have to do what you can live with. So try to decide what your priorities are and take it from there.

But if your priorities are vengeance, you're already a loser.

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Royalhinney
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Why get even? Why not just end the relationship?

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fat momma
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get on with your life and make a roaring success of it

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charlie3127389
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Walk away..if there no kids or legal attachment

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CHARISMA
Hmm, you are obviously in a healthy place right now. Best way is to leave them, forget them, and find soemone who won't cheat!

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jude
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seeking revenge just keeps one feeling bitter, and hurt. living as good life and moving on is the best revenge. the goal here is to leave the marriage if there is no hope, with your dignity. grieving your loss, and moving past it. getting out of it with the least amount of hurt as u can. seeking revenge never works, just makes one more emotionally upset, and rarely hurts the other person. as revenge belongs only to god, not to us. whatever they deserve they will get, but it isn't up to us. seeking revenge will only hurt the chances of moving on and finding a new life.

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tallerfella
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Get a really good attorney..............

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Lisa D
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Divorce

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Niamh
Even is to cheat yourself then you have both commited an equal act but this is not the solution and would not make you feel any better about what she has done as this would not take away your anger and disapointment.You both need to talk and find out why she cheated in the first place and find ways of coming to terms with what as happened perhaps with some professional help.

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island girl
The best way is to be happier, more independant and have more fum without him than you did with him......moving on and enjoying your life is the best way to get even. You can hear all sorts like cutting up his clothes, getting him in trouble etc but thats not getting even thats just being better and letting him see how much he hurt you. Take my advice it works and for the long haul it is much better for your self esteem.

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natasha *
put itching powder in his pants? It all depends, do you want to punish him, get even, and then move on with your relationship? Or do you want to ruin his life? Or do you want to just have an affair and have an excuse to do so?

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Bonzo
Clean the toilet with their toothbrush.

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goodguy_46947
Divorce her and leave her what she deserves..........NOTHING! :-)~

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