What to do about a woman chasing after my husband?

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angels1dj	If he hadn't started playing back with her he could have told her that he was going to file sexual harassment charges and more than likely it would have stopped before he actually did it. Now that he's "leading her on" as you put it I'd be more concerned. I'd tell him he's playing with fire and you don't want to get burned. Give him a little more time to see if he takes care of it. If he continues to play her game, I'd tell her that you just found out about his test results and he has this nasty little STD and since she probably gave it to him, she can have him. That should make make her think twice. If he gets mad I'd say well you didn't put a stop to it so I did. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ankhesan amun	Sounds like she enjoys a challenge, and the thrill of taking someone's husband. She's probably done it before, several times. How about the next time you see her. Stare at her. Coldly. Just long enough to make her uncomfortable. Then smile, as evilly as you can, then turn away and go about your business. It will freak her out...because she will realize that you know all about her...and maybe, the spell will be broken. He won't be a challenge anymore. Good Luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

King H	No reason to worry about her, it's your husband you must be mindful of. Make sure he's coming home (and he has a HOME to come home to). Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Uncle Tim	Here's a novel concept: Tell your hubby to quit leading her on like as if he were still in high school and instead go to HR and have her reprimanded for sexual harassment. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zgamestoo	If you trust your husband, let him handle her. She will bore sooner or later. Otherwise talk to him and tell him you want to confront her, but remember they work together, so either you confront her wild enough so she freaks out (you crazier than her) or she may want him even more. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kendra1017	Stick up for yourself and your husband. if it's obvious she wants him but he doesn't want her, you should make it clear to her that you don't at all appreciate what she's doing. If she tries anything more...just get a restarining order, against her so she can't go anywhere near your family...that may be a little severe, but it gets her away. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Taterbug*	It takes two to tango so to speak... If hes leading her on ,even with no intentions, he is just as guilty as the woman.... I suggest you both start at home and work on his problem first... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kevin R	Lets see , Your husband encouraged her to be playful and come on to him , Right ? So , He's married , he shows disregard about his marriage to another women , which sends her a signal that his vows are a sham , Right ? Sounds to me like your husband threw out some bait and shes interested in what he is offering .Right ? I don't think he told you the whole truth . He may have already done her or gave her the very distinct impression that he wants to do her . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Foff	If you REALLY trust your husband........is there really any issue here??? Stupid people will continue to be stupid long after you have an embarrassing meltdown with this woman. Take the high road and comfort in knowing that he is coming home to you- not her :o) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

juliet-wants-her-romeo	make it very clear to her that he is a married man and she needs to back off and dont say anything about it again after that. if it keeps occuring 1- trust your husband 2- ask him to speak to the boss and 3-only repeat yourself once moreand get in her face but not so much to where she can lawyer up and sue you. keep your dignity Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Paul	No, just be point blank with your husband. Most men are turned off by this sort of sad desparation anyway. If you two could make a running joke out of it (and her) it will help you both to cope. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lucy	Your husband is no saint. If he were a woman, they'd blame him for getting raped because he "led the guy on". Men have to play by the same rules we do. Frankly, if the woman has no shame and is so blatant, she's hardly a threat. Don't men like to do the chasing? Even still, should your husband do something about every man who throws an eye your way? He's a big boy. Let him handle it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whatever!	so his story is 'he has called her names and is rude to her' and 'he has started to lead her on with no intention of following through, just playing with her' and you believe this? and you believe this? the problem is him, not her. he needs to grow up and quit the name-calling! sounds like a bunch of kids in elementary school. it seems to me he is leading you on and seeing how far he can go before you wake up and realize he is up to no good. i suggest you talk to him and tell him to clean up his behavior and if she doesn't stop he needs to file a complaint with the cops. if he refuses then that should tell you who is leading who on here. good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Garnet Glitter	tell your husband that leading her on is NOT acceptable...even as a joke. Quite frankly I don't get his reasoning....and he could get himself in trouble with his job if they frown apon that kind of fraternizing at the workplace......could it be he's considering it? .. tell him to let her know in no uncertain terms that if she doesn't stop this at the workpace he will file sexual harrassment charges with their immediate superior. Incouraging her can turn her into a stalker....and I would ignore her completely if I were you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aphrodite	He's leading her on?? Even if there's no intention to follow through, not cool. Think about what signals she's getting. She doesn't know he's not serious. First HE needs to make it clear to her that he's married and loves his wife. Only then should you step in and make it extra clear to her if she didn't get it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fashionhorse1969	I think it's best if you and your husband work together and just flat out ignore her. Just remember, the opposite of love is not hate... it's ambivalence. If you both act as if you don't know her or understand what she wants... no matter how clear she makes it, she will eventually lose face or get bored or both. Also, if you and your husband are working together it will keep you both as a unit, that very thing she's trying to break up. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Corona	He shouldn't pretend to lead her on...that will only make it worse. If this is happening at work, and your husband seriously wants her to stop, then he needs to tell her, and if she doesn't listen to him, then he needs to tell his boss to tell her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

That's MR. Mayor Pufnstuf 2U	It takes two to tango. Forget about her. You should be confronting your husband and he alone can and should handle it. If the situation doesn't stop after making it clear that he needs to draw the line then rest assured the situation is a two way street and he's the one encouraging it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wullie010669	go up to her, punch her square on the nose and shout " keep away from my man" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jenny J	since your husband is tired of her advances as well as you....approach this person together. United you stand......she will get the message .......lets see if your husband means what he says Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss J Hirst	Get your husband to be firm with her and dotn worry about it too much its obvious he loves you and only wants you so shes not going to get what she wants and when she realises..she will move on Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jamiemaylow	I would tell your husband not to play games. Women scorn can be bad thang. I would tell any woman messing with my man to back off. If it still continues I would take her out to eat and have a long converstion with her and my pistol..lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gravy maker	I agree with Z, you chase her and see what happens. then post it on youtube so I can watch...., uh, that's really a disgusting and obnoxious idea. I'm sorry for being so insensitive to your plight. I'm going to go back to my bedroom and make gravy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thebigB	I would just be like hey I know about you. Just let her know you and your husband keep nothing from each other...and he thinks she looks like dog puke and then the you have to agree with your husband on that one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Windseeker_1	He can report her to the HR of the company he works for and she'll have to stop harassing him or loose her job. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mikey	give me her address and i will take care of her for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nyiesha a	Ever think yor husband is not playing when he "Leads" her on? He might just be telling you this just in case he gets caught in some type of way. Dont go after her. He may be lying to her about what is going on with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stuntman mike	whoop that hoe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Callie	If it were me in the situation I would kick her a. And tell your hubby to stop leading her on. If not kick his a too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lexy	EWWW - your husband should quit the game with her and make it even MORE clear to her that he wants nothing to do with her by IGNORING her! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

through_the_broken_glass	That is really inappropriate of your HUSBAND to be playing along. He should be stating clearly that he is married and is not interested. It's him you should be speaking with, because the women that are interested in him obviously don't care about you, but he should. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No