Using the bathroom in front of my wife?

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Alyssa M	thanks for the info--NOT!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Percy	what is #2 I dont understand i thought that there should be no secrets between you as you are together for so long, do you still loves her or you are confused be honest with your self Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BUBBAOBUBBA	As you age none of this will matter, you will become more comfortable with each other. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mommyof3	Well, I think that is taking it a bit far. If its not all the time, and she was just getting something then whats the big deal? If my husband walked in on me I don't think I would care much. If he walked right back out. If he wanted to stay and chit chat then I may kick him out lol. I dont think I would want to stay in a mall room with that EWW. But its not a huge deal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms. Purpose	OMG. All this time, I thought you were talking about #1 until the end. I despise that smell and do not want to see the process. However, I guess everyone has their thresholds. I would just tell her you need some privacy. My husband doesn't want me to be in there when he's doing #1, and I think it's silly, but I respect it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Douglas B	She's obviously more open than you are and has no hangups about such things. My ex was the same way, my current wife I better not open the door. It's about how I respect them to know what to do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Andrew Clements	Well considering the reek involved, I do try and not do this in front of my gf. But I will pee in front of her and she will in front of me also. U being married I don't really think u should feel at all uncomfortable doing ANYTHING in front of your wife. I mean after all she is your wife and she has seen all parts of u many times I presume. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LIPPIE	If this bothers you this much, then tell her that you would rather not have her come in while you are doing your personal time in the bathroom. She should respect you enough to knock and ask if she can come in. Same way with you, knock and ask if you can come in while she is in there. I think if a door is closed, it is closed for a reason, and a person should knock first before entering. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ellie	I think it's normal really. I mean the uncomfortable situation. I love my boyfriend, we've been together almost a year, we live together...we share one bathroom..but for #2 we both prefer to have our privacy. now, if it's taking you 30-40min..and it's late and she's tired..i can't blame her for speeding things up a bit to get herself to bed...but if it's just normal routine....meh....i'd ask he nicely and explain it makes you feel uncomfortable...surely she will understand. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

barbie	this is totally okay .especially if you guys know each other for a long time and 20 years seems like a long time to get used to the person and comfortable anything even maybe just walking naked around the house! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KingAndrew	I find myself in agreement with Alyssa and KJ is just to damn funny. So all the good answers were already taken, so one of them get my vote for b/a. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rooney	um, yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Supernatural Girl	ugh i hate getting cornered in the bathroom trying to go #2 and my husband comes in the bathroom to chat. but then i am guilty of doing that to him too we just ask each other to let us crap in peace and then the one who is doing the cornering stomps off in a huff...lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gregory	i had to get over that and me and my husband have been together for 2 and a half years. we have fun with it when it happens that way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ablex	You've got the right idea. Too much familiarity can suck the romance right out of a relationship. You want to maintain a certain amount of mystique, on both sides, or you risk becoming more like siblings than lovers. Lock the bathroom door next time. She could go to bed once without brushing her teeth. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

labellemere	IMO #2 is PRIVATE PROPERTY....lol. NO ONE needs to see anyone else do it. She should respect your rigt to privacy in this matter. I feel completely at ease with my DH, but there is an icky quality to poop that dictates it should be done ALONE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ranger_co_1_75	Yep, and I feel the same as you do. #2 is very personal, not something I want to share with anyone. I don't want to "show off" what I did. My wife is like yours, body functions are no big deal to her, in fact she made poop jokes with the children when they were small. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KJ	i don't give a $hit. (no pun intended) i do it. but most of the time, she runs away screaming. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

David	My wife will come in and leave the door open. Next thing I know the dogs follow her in and here I am trying to take care of business with a dog jumping on me. I now have to lock the door in my own home. She'll even call me into the room when she's going to ask about the grocery list or something. I don't get it. That's the one time I want my wife to leave me alone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No