This might be the weirdest question yet! Why won't my husband of 4 years urinate in front of me?

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ilovetosing.	don't worry about the pee thing, there are tons of people who are pee shy, i dont think theres actually anything wrong with him. and the names & stuff, maybe try calling him those and see if he calls them back. just once in awhile a ," hey honey" or "hey baby" and see if he says naything back. if he doesnt, i dont think its a bad thing or that you should read into it. just talk to him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sarah B	Start calling him nicknames. If you already have, just have a talk with him. He is your husband! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr Fegg	Some people prefer to be private about excreting bodily wastes. It does not mean he doesn't care about you. You have to allow him to keep some things private, even when you are married Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yuukikairi	>_> maybe you break his concentration. I cant pee in public restrooms if others are in there even just washing thier hands. Also don't answer to "hey" and if he asks you why you are ignoring him tell him "hey doesn't live here anymore." shake his hand and tell him your name. Hopefully he'll get the message 8D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rkrell	It is all about the way a person was raised. Some people simply find bathroom stuff to be private. Yes, it is weird but true. As for the name thing, again it just isn't who he is. However, I think next time he call you "hey" you should call him on it and explain to him what your name really is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rajko	I will pee in front my gf (or anyone for that matter) as long as everything is looking good. If I'm having a Constanza moment (the water was cold) then no way. Guys (most) don't wanna be seen in any state that does not favor them, in that area. As for not using your name, or anything besides 'HEY', that's a little weird. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angeltiffj	OMG! Tell him that you have a name, and that you want to feel like a wife not an object! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dove	Because that is not in his personality. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

maroh5	Bladder shyness Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fromohiousa	Isn't 'hey' a recognised term of endearment? I don't pee in front of mine and it has been 12 years now. You can always catch vids on the internet if you really want to see it. Or hang out outside of a bar. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

☺ Sheepie	It's the way he is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lana	His mom taught him not too pee in front of girls. They hey part just tell him it bothers you and if he still says hey don't respond, he'll figure it out. Why do you care if he pees in front of you? Just wondering. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SuperVibrationalEscrow	Lots of guys have a real thing called shy bladder syndrome. I have it but not as bad as I used to. If conditions aren't just right (ie, privacy) the urine stream won't start. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

flashheart	you want him to do a number two in front of you next the toilet is the only place that is a mans finale frontier so **** off to the kitchen woman Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Violation Queen Alyssa	eww-why on earth would u want him to pee in front of u--thats just straight out nasty! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Obi-wan Kenobi	I agree with #2. I don't like using the can in front of my wife and I call her by her name. I don't like using those pet names. Its just with some people I guess. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lemon head	its probably just a "thing" with him. ive been with my boyfriend for a few years, he farts in front of me and encourages me to do the same (lol) but i could never bring myself to do it, its just something that embarasses me. if hes not comfortable peeing infront of you, who careS? its not like you need him to pee in front of you to live, right? there are definitely other reasons for you being so impatient with your husband lately. little things like these would never bother a happy woman, what's really going on? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Frank L	If that is how he was when he asked you to marry him and throughout the marriage, why would;t you accept it when you accepted it to marry him - That is him and accept him how he is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ba12348	all i can say is "its a guy thing" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Happy	Dont read in between the lines... It doesn't seem to be a issue, dont look for problems.. be a solution finder..hope this helps! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LΔDΘDGΞΓS-ΘωΝ-ΝL-WΞSΤ	He probably just feels awkward b.c. hes in kind of a vulnerable position haha and its just something people usually do alone...dont take it personaly though :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xXvilleXvaloXisXmyXbitchXx	shoot i dont even pee in front of my own mama! its called privavcy its normal Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

misty	Honey, we all need our privacy, and if he does not do that in front of you, then maby you are giving him "stage fright", or putting too much pressure on him. What is your big fascination with this??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tealamarie24	As for the urinating, he is probably just a private person. Sometimes people don't feel comfy doing that, no matter how long they have known someone. I don't think it's against you in any way. I think after being with someone for many years, a person can become complacent, and not be as endearing as they used to be. You need to talk to him about that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

asdf	Uh, that sounds perfectly normal. Most people just aren't cool with going to the washroom around other people. As long as you love each other, these things really shouldn't matter :) edit: no offense, but if you mean you walk into the bathroom while he's taking a piss... well, I would be a bit pissed off, too. just let him be. and about the names thing; it doesn't come naturally for some guys, and if it makes him uncomfortable it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. why do you have to be called silly names in order to feel loved. ? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Doug J	he doesn't want you to poop in front of him, that's why Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emily	You want him to? Is it a fetish of yours? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

God's Pottery	Give me a call, I'll poop in front of you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dennis G	He probably doesn't want to get your feet wet. Dennis G Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Annabella	The bigger question is why are you so obsessed with watching the dude pee? I'm getting married next week & I don't think I've ever seen him pee or thought about it for that matter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

No More	First thing I don't think his private urination is an issue at all. I know there are some couples that will do #1 and #2 in front of each other. I have been married for 9 years and we still close the door and give each other some privacy... now if he would sooner pee his pants than pee in front of you then maybe he has issues... but he seems normal to me. I don't think the lack of a nick name is big either, my wife and I don't have kids and so it is just us... if I here her talking then it is a safe bet that she is speaking to me... If I start talking she pretty much figures that I am speaking to her. We do not do the nickname game much... I know who she is and she knows who I am... I think your man seems dead center normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No