
hankerchief
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That's awesome.. Let him figure it out. You're his friend so you have to give him the room if he needs it and wants to take it. It's his decision to go to a hotel or your place.
Besides, if you send him to a hotel you miss the whole time you get to Rag his ***.
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justme
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I would stay out of it but let him stay at your house anyway. No since in making him pay money for a hotel if you have the room. More then likely she will think for about 1 night and decide he belongs at home with her where she can keep an eye on him! BTW what time does the party start?!!
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Guitar Guy 109
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what the hell??
do most women kick their husbands out the first time something like this happens??
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PrissyBitchxo
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I feel kind of bad for your friend. If you say he never does this then why is she making a big deal about this?.. I think it's good for people who are married or in a relationship to go out once in awhile, and have a good time. Sounds like his wife needs to just calm down for alil bit. The fact that shes asking him to leave for a few days isnt cool. They should just let things cool down for a day..then talk.
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Cafe Combate
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Your friend needs a place to stay, you should oblige, if he gets in more trouble that's his problem.
For your part you should express clearly and publicly that you hope friend and his wife get back together.
Btw, when's the party?
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Dman
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If you don't know the answer, don't post saying you don't know the answer just to get two points.
You should let your friend stay for a few days. If you are 100% sure you won't party or do anything stupid that will get your friend in even more trouble with his wife, your house would be the ideal place to stay. Be a good friend.
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heartssnarrows
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I think if he goes to the hotel he can bring home anyone he wants. Staying at your place would be perfect. or Why can't he just stay home and sleep in another room in there house?
Sounds like your friend needs more fun in his life. I can understand from all the laughing.
Either way it will work against him. The longer he is away from her,she will come up with another reason for him to stay away
The best to you and your friend.
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Betty M
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When a woman kicks her husband out the door, she can't tell him where he can stay, until she calms down and will let him back in the house. The only thing she can expect from him, would be that he does not stay with a woman or cheat on her during the separation.
If your friend wants to stay with you and you don't mind, then what the heck. It would be nice of you as a good friend not to invite any women over while your friend is there. Why add fuel to the fire.
Maybe the next time his wife throws a fit, she might think twice about throwing him out of the house, knowing he will stay at your house. Lol Maybe she'll let him stay in his own house and work on cooling herself down so she can talk to him like an adult.
I wouldn't get involved in his marital problems, just be a good listener and help out your friend by letting him stay at your house. The only advice I would give your friend is...the next time he has a change of plans, call his wife and let her know. If he's too drunk to call her, then I guess he will just have to pay the price when he gets home.
Chances are the reason why his wife threw such a fit, is because she was up all night worried that it's really late and something terrible must have happened to him. Then when she saw the reason he got home so late is because he was out all night making a fool of himself getting drunk and put her through a lot of stress worrying about him for nothing.
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Christy D
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It is pretty stupid for her to be upset because of the fact that u are single and for ur friend to go with u it's as if he's showing her that he's going to have a blast while she's at home to "think" she just needs to chill and he should just crash at your place I bet u n e thing she's going to probably drive around your house to make sure there's no girls there or she would even probably have her own friends following you guys depending how far she would want to take it. And if she's going to involve u into their own crazy drama you shouldn't say n e thing or do n e thing. He's your friend and he needs a place to crash at and your nice enough to let him stay there end of story. SHE KICK HIM OUT what more does she want? He shouldn't have said n e thing to her he should have just left and went to ur place without adding more wood to the fire. He should say he's going to stay at a family member's place or at a hotel when he would really stay with u so u both wouldn't get in trouble.
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SnowWalker
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Isn't there a saying "bros before hoes" ??
Well, regardless of your sex, friends come first--unless your married. Now your friend has that decision to make, but you're just being a good friend by helping him out, not choosing sides. Although the wife may see it that way.
Remember, she's not mad at you, just him. Even though she may take a little of it out on you, no hard feelings... she's just insecure about the whole situation.
Good luck!
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James G
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man your couch should always be open to your friends no matter what.
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HangingChad
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Nah, let him come over. Just don't have any girls in bikinis there in case she shows up.
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Ariel L
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You let your friend decide what is best for him, this does not involve you! So stay out of it but make sure they both know that they are welcome and in a safe environment.
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Happy- Go
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help your friend....he married a psycho
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Bernedette
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Be a good friend and let him stay. Let her think it over. If it pans out not in his favor you were there when she wasnt. If you are a good influence she'll see that
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beachgirl
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It depends....If you are going to constantly be smirking and chuckling while he is there with you, then yes, tell the poor guy to get a hotel room.
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Amanda G
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if she is going that loco on her husband i would be afraid of what she might do to you. just words for thought.
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/escape; the [FATE] !?
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telling him to get a hotel room would probably be a good idea seeing as how you have a 13 year old who doesn't need to be around this kind of crap. well good luck!
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karizmah
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Tell him to stay at home!!!!! They are married - he shouldn't leave until they have worked it out!
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jessica
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its alright its good to get it out
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blatantly opinionated
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Let the guy stay, but don't try to give any advice...let them work it out on their own. And don't laugh at him. He's got enough to deal with.
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liziemarie19
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let him stay as you are a close friend, but remember that as close as you are you never really know what goes on behind closed doors. groomsman or not.
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bibbit
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keep your friend. he's the only sane one besides you in this situation....
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Lala
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Let him stay. Help him out and who cares what the girl thinks. If she really cared for her man she would let him stay.
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doing my best
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wow! she is freaking out! especially if he never does this. maybe you should call and talk to her about how irrational shes being over this.
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A
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No, let him come over, he is your friend and you and he can fight over the tv remote control.
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woo...tang. lol.
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she's just afraid of what he'd do without her, to get back at her, or to get over her. it's nothing personal against you at all... she would just be in agoany not knowing what he's doing or with whom. she probably doesn't even want him to be away - just wants to punish him to prevent him doing this again... which seems pretty childish to me, and i'm only 18. no matter what my husband does, i would never, ever tell him to leave for a few days.
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Butterfly7070
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You are a responsible father and friend, right? I think you should be there for your friend. Let him stay.
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JM
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no, let him stay. if you don't she'll just go crazy he spent the money on a hotel instead of finding a friend's to stay at. let her chill out a bit, i'm sure he'll be off your couch in a matter of hours.
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Super Mom
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Let him stay, she needs to trust him more.
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AngelBleu
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Give him a place to sleep and give her time to cool off. Obviously she thinks you're OK or she wouldn't bring her girlfriends around trying to set you up with them. She's just ticked off and reacting emotionally.
She'll calm down and she'll appreciate knowing he's safe with you.
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