Shouldn't men take care of all the bills once married?

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[;;thiscould bean opportunity;;]	Isn't marriage a two-way thing? Why should the woman keep savings and the man not? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shenva	I think you're living in a dream world.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweet18	i think the bills should b split. cuz its both of u guys responsibility. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Paul S	only if you got a sugar daddy otherwise no put your hand it your pocket 50/50 all the way Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

az_reb2	i feel that they should both put their money together and pay them self first and then pay all the bills together Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Robert W	I think you should discuss this with your husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James M	Well, Lets see. If your marriage is a true partner ship, then all funds go into ONE account and all the bills are paid from there. Take that Gloria! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kevin	wtf. ok y should it be like that. if u both have jobs and both have 1 house. yeah let the wife spend it all on w.e she wants while the husband pays for what u two both live in.. yeah Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

so alone	this is 2008...with everything being so high u should both pay and put some away Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Qyllix	Sounds nice and sexist to me. How about you put it in one pot and forget who brought what to the pot, will keep problems over where money went from creeping in. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss Delanne	I think that is a nice fantasy.... just like the land of Oz...... not realistic in this economy and not a real team effort for a couple. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SomethingClever	Couple's choice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tired and Cranky	I think it should be 50-50 they should both take part in paying bills and save the whatever is left over.... from both of their checks. When you get married it's supposed to be 50-50 and for me personally I would feel better knowing that I contributed as much as I could so this way no one can say "this is what I did for you" but that's just me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hachi	I think women and men should play equal parts in paying bills and in saving money and furthermore I think that it's narrow-minded to come up with economic gender roles! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Terra V	Personally, I've always paid my way so I dont have things held over my head. I think it's up to the couple. In my case I prefer 50/50 for shared expenses but for my own personal things I pay 100 %. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JM	most couples have joint accounts. the money goes in and bills get paid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Choo Choo	Wouldn't you rather I just gave you my paycheck and you pay the bills. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

paganmom	Why not just put the incomes together and pay the bills and save the rest? It's not one persons money over another persons money, you are married, it's the couples money. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TheBoredAssistant	no marriage is a MUTUAL relationship both parties should contribute Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crush	Oh you're just a typical crazy, shallow bimbo. See ya in divorce court! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Blondie	i think if we both create the bills and decide together on what to get, then we both contribute towards them equally. My husband and I share an account all money goes to one place, and it is our money, not just his or just mine. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mazotti1	Hello Trojan Girl, welcome to the 21st century... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

.	It depends on what the couple decided together. Split things fifty fifty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

d0m1n1c01	no, joint. both save excess earning for emergencies Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nunya B	I think you should have been born in the 1950's. Are you planning to stay barefoot and pregnant as well? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ Embracing Optical Freedom ♥	I think your marriage would last two months, tops. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Matt	WHAT It should be a split responsibility. I hope you aren't married........ If you are, it is going to be a short marriage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zaphodsclone	What, you wanted a sponsor not a spouse? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erik Y	I think your living in the 1800's Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nita R	just put it all in one bank account & MIX IT ALL UP! who cares which money, just put the money where it should go. are his dollars different from yours????? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kaisa	That's kind of an old fashion way of thinking and i agree with you since i'm kinda old fashion too. That way the woman can use those saving in case of emerngery or back up. But it's all depend on the couples, everyone is different. Sometimes they want to splits all the payment and have each individual saving account (in case of divorce in the future) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No