Should you forgive a husband that tells you...?

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aka.rene	No don't forgive... & hang on to it all... if he gets the house because you sign it over you will have no legal rights. Do not give it up. In fact, Use all that he has said, tell a lawyer immediately. HE IS UP TO SOMETHING!!! Mark my words. YOU better get yourself protected. Find out from a lawyer who should file... if he does I think he would have to pay the fees. Check with lawyer. Get out! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

knottyqbn10	N-O....no...leave now... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spooky	Actually you didn't say he asked you to forgive him. I hope you don't sign your house over to him. Because if you do, he is going to divorce you anyway. Think about it. Get a lawyer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kash	isn't it obvious that he love you only for money get rid of him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

basketcase88	Well, I certainly wouldn't sign over anything to him, you need to protect your interests as well here. If he's threatening divorce, it sounds like he's using that as emotional blackmail. You guys need counseling, or if he's not willing, then I'd take a good hard look at the marriage, and why you should stay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ELDER	Because he is acting like a child treat him like one. do not sign over anything..........if he wants a divorce do not stop him but cover yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michelle	Don't forgive him. Get a lawyer and divorce him. Good Luck!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amber	No way don't forgive him he is prolly planing on leaving you anyways after you sign over the house to him.I wouldn't trust him at all.It maybe time for you to hire a lawyer to help you out.Good Luck! You don't deserve to be treated like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Whiskey Tango Foxtrot	You already know the answer, so why are you asking us and wasting time that you could be using to get a lawyer? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Missy B	I would Not believe him! he is telling you to sign over the house so that he can divorce you and get the house and there is nothing u can do because it is in his name. so i would tell him to get lost! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

roknrolr63	Absolutely not. If you sign over your assets, he can still divorce you, and probably will in time. If he isn't planning to divorce you, why would he want you to sign over your marital property? Get a lawyer right away. Do it before he does, or he's likely to take you to the cleaners. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swampfox	Don't sign anything over to him. He's probablly found a lover and is thinking of dumping you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

manandy55	there other men Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cute Stuff	wow thats an awful lot to forgive someone for. Sounds like he is trying to end the relationship, do not sign over the house, I did that without knowing what I was doing and then was cheated on and pushed out of my own house. Men can be evil ( some not all ) and if they are determined and selfish, they will stomp on your heart and take everything from you. If you truly love him you can try counseling but after reading all that it makes my heart sad, put yourself #1 and make some hard decisions, you don't have to be with someone like that, theres a lot of great guys out there, sift through the a$$e$ until you find the one that fits with you, and go for it, sounds like he is done, so should you after all that! Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

V	no i would not forgive him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

notyou311	No and you would be a fool to do it. He needs money badly and will lose the house. File for divorce. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

msacup	beat him to it.... you divorce him! You shouldn't have to put up with S*** like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tones	I'd move on and one thing: do not sign over your share of the house. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

a_lot_smarter_now	Forgive him, yes...because hate in your heart will consume you too. But, bend over and take what he's trying to dish out, HEYULL NO! He wants total control and this is how he gets it, with lie, deceit and controlling everything else. If he divorces you because you don't sign over your share of the house, that's fine....he doesn' t really love you anyways, but make sure you ask for half of your debt to be paid, half of the money in the bank, half of the retirement he's put in during the marriage AND get an order of protection. Do NOT let someone treat you like dirt, or they will. It's that simple. People do what they can get away with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mongo	Time to get out of this marriage. Don't sign away any rights. Get a lawyer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3	That sounds very very wrong. I wouldn't do it if I were you. Get out of that relationship, it sounds like he's just using you for your things and he's trying to take advantage of you. It doesn't sound healthy, sorry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Donovan G	I wouldn't forgive a wife that told me this. I can't believe someone wouldn't know what they wanted. I mean, i don't know what to say. Sorry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MAB	NEVER, he's gonna lie more and more, and is actually humiliating his wife, he's pathetic Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nuttin'fancy	Hell, no! Get a lawyer! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just browsin	mmmm....no Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gabby	don't sign it over -sell the house and rrrrrrrruuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tkron31	I'd divorce the creep and find somebody better. Giving up your personal assets shouldn't be a condition of marraige. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Forlorn Hope	call his bluff... see if he divorces and then take him to the cleaners... keep half the house and see what he does... :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dianesomeone	Nooooooo.....call the lawyer and don't sign anything Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zen522	No Do not sign over anything Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kellbelle21	absoloutley not!! i wouldnt even want to sleep in the same house as him... he sounds dangerous! good luck... get him outta there asap!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No