Should she give him back the ring???

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Grace Q.	hell no! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nuwagaba M	No if he is the one to move away from her there is no need for giving him the ring back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Notorious	It depends on the State you live in. The ring was given as a promise of marriage and usually no matter who breaks off the engagement, the ring is given back. However, she should check with your local Civil Court as he may sue her. In that case, she will be prepared to deal with the situation. She may not think so now but she is lucky that he showed his true colors before the wedding/marriage. The deeper in the relationship, the deeper the pain and yes the draining of the pocketbook. So GOOD RIDDANCE TO THE BUM! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lavenderroseford	No, I don't think she should give him the ring back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dukalink6000	technically she doesn't have to. However, i would just to get this guy out of my life Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

peanutz	No, it is hers to keep. Only way for him to get it back legally is if he can prove she got it through forceful means or similiar. Otherwise, it will be hard for him to get it back. Tell your sis to keep it and change the design for her ownself use. :) He is petty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zether	technically the ring is a token of a promise of marriage, that promise is no longer active so the ring should go back to the giver, but under standard conventions of relationships if the man breaks off the engagement without citing fault in the woman or laying blame on her then he has no right to ask for the ring back Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bumblebeetuna	hell no!!! he gave it to her and its hers to keep! he should have thought about that when he sprung on her he wanted to break up! Forget him! keep the ring or sell it!! hahahaha Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mecurious	Whatever her feelings for the guy, yes, she should give it back. An engagement ring is not like other gifts. An engagement ring is exchanged for a promise to marry. So, if the marriage is off, she should return it to him, even if he's the one who called it off. Now, if he's a true gentleman or a really great guy, he might let her keep it anyway. But he's not required to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xsplodeit	HELL NO!!!! she should go pawn it and have a great shopping spree, its his fault so its his loss!!! PARTY ON GIRL!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iceblue_1972	no. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tpurtygrl	nope it was a gift, he can't have it back Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

realchick	WHY ARE U WASTING UR TIME ASKING US I WOULD HAVE SOLD IT BY NOW U MIGHT ASWELL GET U SOME MONEY TO SPEND IT WILL HELP THE HEARTACHE I GUARANTEE IT Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

karen W	Nope! It's her's, and I believe the law is on her side. He made a promise to marry her, then HE broke it. She gets to keep the ring. How dare he???? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ROBERT E	NO IT WAS GIVEN TO HER AS A GIFT OF LOVE OR WHAT WAS THOUGHT TO BE LOVE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

maesam	Hell no! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hahaha	no way, you cannot take that back..what a loser he is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sherryjsj	Not No, but Hell No!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Olivia B	This is going to sound cold of me, but I say yes. I may even be a minority saying this, but I think that it's his ring to have back should he want it. I'm not trying to suggest that your sister did anything, but just because she's saying he 'all of a sudden changed his mind' doesn't mean that is what happend. There could be more to it. Way more to it. Ontop of that an engagement ring isn't so much a present, but a proposal.. If it's not gonna happen, then it's his to have back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

awesome_eo	NO! are you kidding me.. what is wrong with these guys.. he gave it to her so it is now hers.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

avidfilopino	She should tell him she lost it. . .later she should pawn it for dinero Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

reno_tony_casino	no he broke it off not her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cortney	No!! It's his loss not hers! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pc@27	I feel for your sister, but, what is the purpose of holding onto it? The ring will only bring back memories of the ex and what could have been. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cinnimontwist518	nope. then he'll give it to another gurl and marry her with it. trust me, i learned the hard way! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JenV	Etiquette says that the ring was a gift to her, and therefore is now hers. However, if the ring was a family heirloom, then I do believe that it is only in good taste to return the ring, because to not do so is disrespectful to the whole family, not just to the cad who jilted you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Carolmerel	In ettiquite, if the woman calls off the engagement she should give back the ring. If the man calls of the engagement - she is not required to give back the ring. however, if he is posing a physical threat to her - I would just give up the ring and get him out of my life. But if he's just a jerk . Keep the ring - sell it to a pawn shop and buy yourself something pretty! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Paul M.	If she accepted his proposal, then she should gracefully accept his change of mind. She should return the ring. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cowgirl	No, an engagement ring is considered a contract for marriage. He broke the contract, he lost his deposit. If she broke it off, then I'd say give it back. Oh, and if the ring was given to her on a holiday, it would also be considered a gift, and you do not have to give back a gift. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marcvialli	i think she should give the ring back. regardless of the monetary value, why would she want an engagement ring from someone who called it off? its emotional baggage that she doesnt need. it holds no value considering the state of the relationship. she should keep this in mind. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

berry	NO!!!!! Your sister must be devastated for the loss of his love, why should she have to suffer materially as well? Why does he have to lose nothing? Let the ring be the price he has to pay for causing her the pain. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No