Should i hate my husband or the waitress??

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Moscas	Ugh, I'm sorry to hear that. Is this the first time a flirtation like this has happened? I don't think you should specifically "hate" either of them (although, if I were you, I'd have a serious talk with the husband and let him know how you didn't think that what happened was at all funny). Perhaps you shouldn't go to that restaurant again for a while, just because the situation needs time to cool down. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dali`	Your husband should have told the waitress where he place was and defended you. The waitress was obviously trying to be-little you and steal your husband. I would never go to that restaurant again, because it is making you look stupid to have her totally ignore you and flirt with your husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

msbascha	she probably thought he was paying there for tipping. still shes rude as hell but don't hate him he probably loved the idea of two women getting katty over him i mean how many times has that happened to him in fourteen years? lol but next time you go complain to the manager and get a new waiter:] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erin	deffinitly dont be mad at him, its not his fault she was.. ew. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kat	It's not your husband's fault really. Obviously you have a desirable husband, but hate the waitress - it's out of line for her to be flirting with him like that. Talk to your husband about it, complain about her, and let him know that it annoys you that she's flirting with him. He's probably enjoying it, but he's only human... Next time, make sure he reacts negatively so she'll get the message for sure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Magical Marc	sounds like the girl was flirting with him, not the other way around. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anji	This has happened to me, too, and I think it is really rude - ON THE WAITRESS' part! What your husband should do is say, "I think my WIFE would like some more iced-tea" or whatever....This would let them know that they are treading on thin ice! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kateen119	Hate the waitress. She was insolent and disrespectful. Don't hate your husband, the fact that he didn't respond and even laughed about the situation is a sign of strength of his faith in your marriage. She was just a whore. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sam	You shouldn't hate your husband 'cause from what I read, he never flirted back which is a very good thing. If he did start to flirt back then you should go and have a talk with him about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mean Carleen	Your hubby is flattered...what do you expect him to do. Its up to the customer to make sure a server is doing their job. Obviously you have a cute/interesting hubby ...you too should be flattered because he is after all YOUR hubby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brutally Honest	The waitress should be reported to the manager. Her behavior is COMPLETELY inappropriate. Your husband was doing the correct thing by ignoring her "advances" with the assumption that doing anything would only cause her to further her advances. So hate the sl*t waitress enough to report her. It'll probably get her fired, but who really cares? Oh, and should this sort of thing EVER happen again, SPEAK UP! Don't just sit there like a lump on a log...SAY SOMETHING. If she (or anyone) is going to be THAT rude, you have every right to put their stupid asses in their place! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

americansugar80	like, why are you going to the same restaurant? yeah! that would make me tons of mad! what a stupid waitress, maybe she was in it for a big tip or something...as for your husband, he just likes the attention? idk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

s e	Sounds like the waitress was being a little evil... but at the same time- if you are divorced it shouldn't bother you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Me Vale	Are you sure you weren't on Prime Time, What is that show called, I think it's "What would you do?" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jessica	this is always gonna happen just dont let it to far....but try confornting him about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mallory B	Typical man. They love attention from women no matter who's around. I don't blame you at all. I would be pissed and give her attitude too if she was acting like that to my man, too. That's why I can never get along with women. I have so many guy friends, prefer not to talk to girls. Alot of them seem to throw themselves on guys, and just act so slutty and bitchy. This waitress sounds like a bimbo, and I would say was definitely trying 2 play stupid! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Skeptic	I suspect this waitress is rather inept and flirting for a good tip. No woman in her right mind would try to steal a man with 4 kids. That's a lot of baggage. Since you don't describe your husband's actions, it's hard to know whether he is partially responsible or a victim. Clearly, the waitress was not providing you with good customer service. I hope that you didn't tip her well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

callie	hate waitress mad at husband...but dont let it ruin ur relationship. =D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TTC 2 1/2 Years and counting....	If i were you i would have pulled her aside and gave her a piece of my mind... I would have also told her manager so that it wouldn't happen again...Some women don't care and need a reality check... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PiNkY	Guys eat that sort of stuff up! If you'd acted like it didn't bother you a bit, she would have backed off and he wouldn't have had the satisfaction of seeing your jealous rage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

abc	why would you hate either of them ???? she THINKs he's the one doing the tipping; next time that happens, you pay the bill and leave her a lousy tip! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sjfspoiledrotten	you should hate the waitress. Maybe you should start going to a different restaurant. It doesn't sound like your husband provoked this attention in any way. The waitress was out of line. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ted.stryker	DH??? lol..."hafe".... Grow up...he's with you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

absteal	What is a DH? and I don't get why you went back there??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

love_jub_185	just talk to him, the waitress is being a b***h Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tree	Both. I would definately talk to her manager and I would talk/yell/hit him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Audi S	tell her very politely that if she talks to him again, you'll break her nose. or you could talk to her boss about not paying attention to you. or go to a different section so you have a different waiter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Greg	Talk to her manager and get her fired. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

robrarker	Find a different restaurant. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dee M	You shouldn't hate him, he didn't do anything wrong. And if you dont want to deal with the waitress eat somewhere else. and let the restarant management know why you will not be returning. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	You should not hate the husband or the waitress. When you don't show anger and say something charming as a response, it makes you look more beautiful, mysterious, and sophisticated. For example, if a waitress flirts with you husband tell her: " Thank you for finding my husband so attractive, but will you get me a glass ice with a slice of lemon and lime please. "It will throw her off and let her know that he is YOUR husband. If she acts ugly about it, tell her that in a nice voice that what she is doing is very unprofessional and refuse to leave her a tip. Report her to a manager in a discreet way. I had a drop dead gorgeous boyfriend, who girls flirted with in front of my face. Even one of my so called best friends ( I didn't consider her a best friend though) tried to steal him behind my back. Whenever a girl would flirt with him in front of me be it waitress, so-called friend, or cashier, I would just smile and give them this sweet look that said I know what you are doing but he is mine. He would tell me: "That girl just flirted with me!" I would say: "That's great. She can look and admire you, but she can't have you." I always encouraged him to use this power he had over women and his looks as a way to get out of a small nowhere town - to become a model since he was so tall and well defined. It turns out he was too afraid to get out of small town and leave his friends. He ended up marrying a trophy wife and staying there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No