Should i forgive my husband who hit me?

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DMY	If he hit you once he will do it again think of yourself and if you have kids by this nut case then please think of them and leave Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lindsay	I watched my mother get beaten for 8 years. It started out small but in the end he put a high heeled shoe through her head and almost killed her, in front of my sister and I. You may not think much of yourself, but for God's sake if you have children get out before you scar them for life! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

im5particus	I have just looked at your other questions, you have got to ditch the guy. You are one unhappy bunny!! That husband of yours deserves a good kicking! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

meme	*** u can't love someone who doesn't love u, and let me tell ya he does NOT love u. u can't do somethin like that to someone u love. of course he broke your heart...u KNOW he doesn't love u and who wants to know somethin like that. get out now b4 u have to watch this happen to your kids. and what would your mama think if she knew? what will your kids think when they know? u do NOT deserve a life like this. get the heck out...NOW. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lisac67mc	are you simple and do u really need to ask this question do u enjoy being a punchbag love can hurt but not that much Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gossip81	Run as fast as you can Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

katieo_09	NO! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shu	Once they hit they always will hit again. No matter how much he says he loves you and how sorry he says leave him. He'll tell you i'll never do it again, but he will !!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chokebacktears	Just ask yourself: Is he worth it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kenny	domestic violence is evil.iv seen it happening and iv bin told by others about it happenin in their lifes.it wont stop u need to get out of it b4 its 2 l8.it will just get worse and worse and i hate the people that do it.u need to get him help or help urself and get away from him.love can b hard to giv up but he'll just keep hurtin u.sori Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lol_des	No ... you should not forgive him unless he admits he has a problem gets counselling and the counsellor tells you that he's a changed man...otherwise next time he hits you (and their always is a new time) you might end up seriously hurt or worse. After reading your other questions I suggest you both should get counselling. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladydrea2918	He broke your heart...and probably your jaw too huh? Forgiveness is the right thing...but that doesn't mean you have to stay with him. You can forgive him and protect yourself too... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Duisend-poot	A man who hits a woman is a coward and a bully. A man who lifts his hand to a woman is lower than low. Leave him, he willllll do it again and again. Just want to say i feel the same about woman who beat men. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sherzade	Get rid of him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kjw	hun i know its hard for a woman to leave a man who has hit her but get out i know you think its easy for me to say but ive been there and believe me i will never go there again. my x hit me and he said he would never do it again and one night he came back so drunk and battered me so much i had to have a full hystorectamy, now im with someone who wants kids so bad and i cant give him what he wants but he has told me that he loves me and would never leave me as its not my fault. i could tell you alot of things what he done and i wished i had listened to alot of people and left him before he ruined my life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mikey	No. Hitters never change. They only get worse. Sorry but I am sure you deserve better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mar	Of course you should forgive him. But don't give him the opportunity to harm you again. Was this the first time he hit you? Did he hit you out of anger? I stayed in an abusive marriage for eight years, always thinking it would get better. A light went on when my then four year old son said "the next time daddy hits you, I am going to smash him in the head with the wooden baseball bat." What was I teaching my kids by living like that? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

trigger	nope Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

John B	I want you to go back and read your statement. What in there gives you the answer? "you are in such a state because he broke your heart" No man that truly loves his wife would ever do that on purpose. He may even love you but he does have a problem. A man who hits a woman, even once, has a real problem. Anger. The next time he gets that angry and blames you it will happen again. Have him explain to you...when he is not mad.....why he did that. If he can't or won't you need to ask him to seek help with it. If he refuses to do so stating there is nothing wrong to get help for you must take action. There is a chance it won't happen again. But more likely it will. Please do not just hope all is well. Next time it could be far worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goingfasterbmw	unless he's your pimp... he should not hit you for any reason. Your going to have to find out on your own to give him forgiveness but think hard about it. cause you don't want to turn into a punching bag. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Juanitamarie	If he continues to hit you, it won't just be your heart getting broken. Forgiving him for hitting you is one thing. Staying with him is another. Get out before he does it again or worse. Don't fall for his I'm Sorry, I'll never do it again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilsepi	NO! LEAvE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sparkles	No, and get out of the relationship before violence escalates and he kills you. You can forgive him, then forget him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Just Me	Leave Now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oldman	First off I am very sorry that you have this problem...I grew up in a home where my father hit my mother and it really screws up a kid I can tell you that. There is NEVER and I mean NEVER any reason good enough for a man or a women to hit the person they SAY they are in love with. If my wife EVER hit me I would be gone! Just as YOU should be gone as well....Oh I am sure he has said he is sorry....it wont happen again.....its just that I love you so much...Ya da ya da....none of that matters the fact is you got hit...that's it its over done. Best of luck....and I hope you make the right decision. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sideshow bob	is it worth you getting hurt? no, no lady really deserves to be hit, theres someone out there wholl treat you the way you need to be treated. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lexiwords	GET OUT OF THERE!!!!!!! If he hit you once he will probably do it again and by the way you make no mention of his apologizing----if he has little or no regrets about hitting you once he probably feels it is his right. Go to a batterred woman's shelter---call your local domsetic violence project---and even if too much time has passed for them to act make a police report then it will be on record for the next time ---and there WILL be a next time if you stay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crystal	No way!!!! Leave him.Once a man raises his fists he always does it.I have been in an abusive relationship and I left my home,possessions and my country.A leopard never changes its spots.You deserve to be treated with respect.Walk away with your head held high. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

.	Only if you want him to hit you again. It's very unlikely he will stop. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ignoramus	If you want to be hit for the rest of your life, stay with him. If not, leave. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

grimmy19812000	Forgive him... Yes... Stay with him... NO... It's very unlikely that he'll change what he's doing... and if he does give the illusion of change... it's far more probable that he'll have a relapse and he will start again... One should never subject himself/herself to abuse... it's always a downward spiral and usually never gets better... Many blame parents or society... but I've found that people who do so... do it because they're so insecure about themselves... they find themselves lashing out at others... and using violence as a means of doing so... it's a mental problem... and it's something that he seriously needs to get help for... as do you if you continue to stay with him... Sometimes "Stockholm Syndrone" develops... etc. etc.etc... Bottom line... get out of it while you're still questioning what to do... don't wait until you start to become Co-Dependant or feel trapped... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No