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Should a woman stay with her husband when he is abusive, for the sake of the children?



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conchi
I think you know the answer to your question, it maight be hard to do, but once your out...the sun will shine again. Enjoy your life and don't have your children expose to what ever style of life your hubby is giving you, other wise they will grow up thinking this is the way... remember you only live once make the best out of it...

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bothachantel
No way! What kind of example are u to them if you allow someone to abuse u. The won't grow up to be strong people who will stand up for themselves. The will let everyone walk on them. And I'm sure they love you and don't like to see what is happening. Or they don't think much of you for allowing it and don't have any respect for u. Just remember - it never stops at the wife, he will grow tired of abusing u and will start with the children. Be a good mom and take their interest to heart. Even if u leave him and it means u don't have money or food, remember rather poor and happy than well-off and abused, angered and broken.

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IamClueless
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I have no children and I am not married but no where in the constitution does it say that men are allowed to hit and abuse woman and nor did you vow to marry a abusive man. Its safe that you leave it may be hard but this man doesnt not put you on a pedestal and believe me there is someone who will put you on the highest pedestal. And you also dont want to set a bad example for you children I am sure you would not want your son growing up abusing his future wife and I am sure you dont want you daughter being beaten and thinking its okay because mommy did it.

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Smiley Couple
Hell NO!

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pregojess
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absolutly NOT. you need to leave him fast and take the kids. your kids will grow up and think this is okay and its not. your life is worth so much and so are your childrens lives. you deserve better and life will be better for you when you leave. it will be hard at first but please just leave. and DONT ever go back even if he says he has changed cause that never happens. please get out now and fast. think of your kids. think how scared they are. what would your kids do with out you and what would they be exposed to with out you. you need to tell yourself you dont deserve this and you are a good person and have a wonderful life to live with your kids just not with him. and leave.

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BLUEEYES
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I AM MARRIED AND HAVE A 19 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER. I PERSONALLY THINK THAT IF A WOMAN IS IN THAT SITUATION SHE SHOULD GET OUT!! I KNOW THAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO HAVE A WHOLE FAMILY FOR THEIR CHILD BUT THAT IS NOT HOW IT ALWAYS WORKS OUT. IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOUR SPOUSE THEN IT REALLY IS NOT WORTH IT.IT WOULD BE BETTER FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD IF THE PARENTS WERE NOT MARRIED. A CHILD SHOULD NOT HAVE TO GROW UP AND LISTEN TO FUSSING AND VIOLENCE.

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photo_mom_2
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Get your kids out of there before they can get any more confused about whats appropriate behavior.

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amyestabrooks@sbcglobal.net
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Don't be stupid. You should leave.

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Kendra
No, I have seen women try to make that work, and it never does. The longer she stays, the more abusive he will get towards her, and her children will then follow suit, thinking that this is acceptable behaviour and treat her badly too, not to mention others in their lives. And sadly, if a husband can beat his wife, it usually isn't too long after wards that he will turn on the children that she thought she was protecting. It is best to leave, and if you can, keep him from finding out where you are until you get things settled with a lawyer. Trust me, the children never win when the mother is being abused if you stay. I wish I could help you more, I know that this is not an easy decision.

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NOOOOOOOOO, get the hell out with the kids!!!!!!!!

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obiewannabie
No, for tons of reasons. You should really consider talking to a consellor from an abused womens organization. They can give you some great insight into what you are facing.

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reenzy22j
Hell No! You and your kids deserve better than that, there are plenty of other guys that will to take care of you and your children. Get out of that mess and find somebody else that would appreciate all of yall and love yall not hurt you.

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allnatural
HECKY NOOOOO - the children will grow up thinkin that is how people show each other love! the woman will be unable to take care of the children until she is in her right mind & questioning whether or not to be with someone who hurts you (physically, emotionally, mentally, financially) shows that your mind is not right at this time. it CAN get too late - do not play with your life or your child's life - it only gets worse
i am sorry - you can love someone & not be with them - - if it is you, i am sorry for the pain you are going thru - if it is not you, please help the person to get away safely!

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goddessd64132
If he is abusing you, he is abusing the children. Maybe not physically, but emotionally and mentally. If they even have the slightest clue that this is going on, then they are being abused. Get out of the situation ASAP!!! There are organizations that will help, if you are scared, or have no place to go, no job, nothing like that should stop you from bettering your life, and your children's. Good luck !

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elfers
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NO!!! for the sake of the children leave!!! at the long run it will affect them if you stay with him.

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Answerman
A big capitol NO, yelled at the top on my lungs. Nobody should be anybodys punching bag it is just wrong.

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DramaGuy
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no. for the sake of the children she should get herself and the children away from him

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just wondering
Staying together for the children's sake is not a valid reason to stay with someone who is abusive. Your children are also victims of his abuse. They are learning that an abusive relationship is o.k. Divorce is difficult, it's true. But staying in a relationship that beats you up and also abuses your children is worse. Call a Women's Shelter in your area. They can help with resources. Phone numbers for attorneys, housing, etc.
Take care of yourself. Take care of your children.
While researching this answer, I found the following link. There are some excellent thoughts on it.

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tinkerpook1234567890
hell no, why do you think there is a high divorce rate. sure can't be the wife being bored or the hubby sleepin with someone else all the time, and vice versa. since there are childen involved its a way awful thing. My mom put up with it for 12 years and then divorced. To this day, the relationship I have with my father is rocky. Children need parents who act like parents and respect each other not rip each other apart like wombats. It can't go on; the violence must end.

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candi_reitsma
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I don't know what kind of abuse you are talking about but in any kind of abuse I am going to have to say, "GET THE HELL OUT!" Do you you want your children to be the only witnesses in the future to your murder if you are being abused physically? If this husband is hurting you then he DON'T love you, if you put up with it then it is because you DON'T love yourself. I think the kids are a good reason to get out of a bad situation! I recommend counseling though for both the abuser and the abused, but most importantly for the kids so this abuse does not end up in some sort of a cycle, I hope I am making sense. Everybody deserves to be treated with respect!

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blueonline
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No.

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♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO gettin out of that relationship will be for the children i know u wouldnt want your kids doin the same thing or gettin treat like that way and thinks its ok becuase mommy stayed with daddy and he treated her that way

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larry_at_vlfradiocom
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NO!! Here is Dr. Phil's Point of View:

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babybuttercup2
For the sake of the children, no.

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Mandy
NO!! For the sake of your children get out of there before your children learn that is acceptable behavior. There is better for you,know that!

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Bear
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No Never Nope Natta No !

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Chintan P
I think she should beat the husband back.

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messagebeliever
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no! and I'll tell you why, it's no better for the children. do you know how it is for a kid to know their mom is getting abused? they have no respect for their father at all! if your kids grow up around that it makes them more likely to turn out that way! please, do yourself a favor and leave!

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shannon
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No way - what makes you think he will stop at just the wife? If he is abusing the wife then more then likely something will set him off to start on the kids. I think that it is the mothers responsibility to get herself and the kids out of that type of situation ASAP. If she does not, then I think that would constitute as abuse....

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♥cute~girl♥
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No way... what are you trying to teach your kids?? Would you want your daughter to get the sh** kicked out of her by some guy, or your son to feel that it's ok to hit a girl? Call the cops and hopefully a little prison time will teach him how it feels to be helpless.

Most kids would prefer their mom's happiness over a fake, traditional family values, bullsh**. Find a real man!!

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willowprincess
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for the sake of the children, Get Out OF There! what's to stop him from abusing them?

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