Should I tell my wife about my secret? I think she might leave me if she knew I am actually a closet?

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Minnie	What do you think? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

skaram182	you should tell her... the truth is never worse then the lie we create for it... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TattooLife	Wait, let me stop laughing before I answer... Hahahahahahahahahahahaha... Few more seconds, sorry.... Okay I'm good wait, no.... Okay now, how does she not know that your not bringing home thousands of dollars a week, and only bringing home like a hundred and something? Wow nice secret, but you should tell her your not rich. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nuala	Are you serious? Well if you felt the need to lie to her about something that big, then maybe you aren't so compatible. I'm sorry that doesn't really help but that's a really strange situation. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jessdm1223	tell her..if she really loves you then it won't matter...if she leaves you because of that then she isn't worth it anyway... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~Amanda~	oh wow, you are good! you pulled me in like a moth to a flame with that opening line. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

huff	well thats sad you should tell her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bina64davis	No, don't tell her! And I'll keep your secret if you come and redesign my whole closet! Otherwise, you are out buddy! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nena S	Oh my goodness.....You're joking, right??? (If you aren't, I feel sorry for you and even sorrier for your wife...!) Nothing is hidden forever. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sexxylexi	It depends..how long have you guys been married? Did she fall in love with you as a person or you as the attorney? If she loves you for you then she'll definitely forgive you but probably not forget because if you lied to her about something like this and for so long then she will always question your motives about other situations. If my Fiance did that to me then he would lose so much of my trust. Good Luck! There is only one way to go.."ripe it off like a bandaid". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

babyyocca	Yr Wife??? and She dont know Wht yr Working??...U hate lying to her huh? then tell her the truth.. And face yr mistakes.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lwheavenlyangel	Tell her the truth. Keeping this from her and her finding out on her own will hurt her even more. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

flagger	Wow, I heard the home refurbishing busness was good but I never thought that the payday was that good. I think you might need to come clean regarding your profession. Tell her you need to change carriers because you cannot lie anymore. Once you are no longer an officer of the court you will be able to tell the truth and clear your conscience. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cyber_music	haha! priceless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

loulu	If a closet repairman makes that kind of money, then my hubby is in the wrong business! You should certainly tell her....she would have your house so much more organized if she knew you could do it for her for FREE!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Lucky Charm♥	First of all how long you've been hiding this & how long you've been married to her??? Well I think when you get married you should be honest from the beginning. You're crazy lol... How can she believe you're an attorney & you're a closet repairman? It all depends on how long you've been hiding it for. I've been married now for 6 years & there's no way I will leave my husband for hiding something like that. Another thing, if she really loves "no" I dont think she'll leave you, but keep something in mind though. When you lie to someone about the petiest thing, and when the truth its uncovered, it will be hard for them to trust you. And when you're really telling the truth she's gonna think you're lying all the time. Also, its gonna make her think about what else did you lie to her about if you lied to her about something that stupid & hide it from her for so long. Boyyyyyyyyyyy she's gonna be pist. lol... Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anika J	Yous hould tell her. Or else if something happens to you and she goes to your supposed work place, she'll find out and hate you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bearded Rusty Tater ©	If you already got her to the alter and she still doesn't know... I'd keep that info in the closet ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Maha Oe'	How is it that you make as much money as an attorney? Thats alot of broken closets and space savers. just come home one day and say "honey I lost my job today and I was so broke up about letting you down and not being able to provide you with the lifestyle we have grown accustomed to that I stopped in at this place( insert company name ) and inquired about a job, they hired me on the spot and I start tommorow!" Of course what did she think you were carring around with you? your tools must fit in a briefcase. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ang	Keeping secrets from your spouse isn't a smart thing to do. You should tell her the truth. If she really loves you then she will stay. If she leaves you then I would say that she really didn't love you and she only loved you because of you being an attorney. I would stay with my husband even if he lied about what he did for work. Although I know that he really is a chemist. Hope that I've helped. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stealth_1	Oh you so made that up! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joy	Ha Ha I fave missed your questions lately. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	Your askin me the WRONG question guy, right about now men in tool belts look pretty good to me, I have a lot that needs doin around here and as for attorneys???? Well, I don't think I can post what I would like to do the the lot of them....so build it baby:) But I thought you were one of those who gets paid for borrowin people's watches to tell them what time it is???? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chic	What? How does she not know what you do for a living. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EGOman	Why don't you just come out of the closet and be honest Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	how does your wife not know your profession??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Khalil	She obviously didn't care enough about herself to take the time out and investigate you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	If that's all you have to worry about you're lucky. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

b k	come out of the closet baby it is going to be a rainbow day YES she is going to be pissed Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

syd p	how can you marry someone and not know what they do? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tati	why did u lie to her about that??lol ur just weird Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No