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Newlywed
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okay i have this friend of mine which is a guy and he is also friends of my husband. Months ago, my friend has made moves on me trying to kiss me and stuff, I used to like him that way and I told my husband about what happened, then we went not talking to the guy for months. Now I am pissed because my husband and him made up and he promised my husband he wouldnt never do that to me again and he still make moves on me!



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Paul&Fran
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Well if this is actually bothering you once again tell your husband and put it firmly that this man needs to be out of yalls lives before it starts a problem between yall. And if not then he can move in with him lol..

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angela_de_la_court
do it

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Betty M
Sounds like your husband values his friendship with this guy more then his marriage to you. No man who loves his wife would ever trust a so called friend who tried to have an affair with his wife.

If you actually want to stay with your husband after he has become friends with this jerk again, then it's totally up to you to stop this man's advances toward you, since your husband isn't man enough for the job or just doesn't care.

If he tries to kiss you, haul off and slap him hard across the face. Tell him no means no! Is there something wrong with you mentally that you can't understand that? Every time he makes some advance toward you, be down right mean to him. Let him know, you will NOT put up with his behavior.

Tell your husband, if he doesn't care or have enough respect for you, to be man enough to stop this man's advances then at least you should be able to choose who you want to have an affair with, instead of him choosing the guy for you and bringing him home to force himself on you.

What is wrong with your husband???

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They Don't Like Me!
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tell your husband again, i bet this time he won't become his friend again. your husband probably just wanted to give the guy another chance, but he is has crossed the line...tell your husband.

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teenie
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Just tell your husband you feel betrayed and he shouldn't be friends with someone that disrepects not only you but your husband also.

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vernathome
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If you are asking should the friend go?
YES and you should tell him the time he makes a move on you. If your husband is there all the better. no one should be uncomfortable in their own home.

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Sophiesmom
Tell your husband.

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Volks
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You start the question off with a friend of MINE and said you used to like him. So who's fault is it? Perhaps you are leading him on.

Any why would you consider this guy a friend of yours if you don't like him flirting with you?

But in any case, if you are married and he's supposed to be your husband's friend, then he should be avoiding you because this has already happened once.

Stop sending the guy mixed signals, tell the guy you don't want anything to do with him, and you want him to respect your marriage.

If that doesn't work, then you need to talk to your husband about it.

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lovelylady6010
Sounds like it is time for you and your husband to have your SECOND talk about this other guy.............

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wannaseeaghost
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Your husband HAS to be smart enough to understand how uncomfortable this is making you, therefore taking immediate action. That dude is NOT a friend!

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FRANCO
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Your husband is an idiot. Get rid of him.

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multitaskmama3
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well first off...you need to tell this jackass "friend" in front of your husband that you do not want him hitting on you anymore and if it doesn't stop then your gonna slap a restraining order on him...that wont stop your hubby from seeing him but...they will BOTH know where the bear shits in the woods!!!

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L K
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Maybe he made a deal with your husband, nobody comes back around after putting the moves on wife unless he allows it.

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spaceoddessy1
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Get a restraining order packet and leave it in plane view so your husband knows your not going to deal with that guy.Tell your husband when he finds it, that you were just about to fill it out. so maybe he will take this issue serious this time.and if that dose not work fill it out and turn it in.

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ronnny
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Tell your husband again. If he does not want to talk about it then ask if you should sleep with the two of your friend or what? Then see if he wants to deal with it. Your husband needs to see you are serious about this.

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soozemusic
Tell this guy's wife or girlfriend. If he has neither, tell him that's his problem right there, and that you can wait until he does and you will tell her then. That should do it.

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rjsr40
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Tell your husband he will have to end the friendship.

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Jay R
Tell your husband about it again. Tell him each and every time it happens.

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wolfmother
tell your husband you don't want the creep around you and you wished he wouldn't hang out with him cause that ain't cool

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rosie b
Ask your husband if he thinks your some kind of floozy , How dare your husband bring that man back and he is still making moves on you.Boy that gets me mad. Tell your husband he is not aloud in the house, yard, and where you are , and tell him he's still making moves on you. If he still allows him to come around then tell your husband that he has no respect for you or the sanctity of marriage and he needs to get out of the marriage if he thinks you are every bodies property.

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SCOTT
You should have checked to make sure your husband had a set before you married him.

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Mrs.Mason
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You need to cut your friend off girl- Set him straight, your a married woman.

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lovinlife
Tell your husband he started hitting on you again. If your husband doesnt put an end to it, then you handle it girl! You know what to do!

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letterstoheather
You might consider telling this "friend" that he's no longer welcome in your home.

Your husband should not have to handle your problems.. but it would be a good idea to tell your husband about it again.

The same thing happened to me.

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Heart2Heart
This is pure disrespect for you on both the husband part and the "freinds" part. You need to communicate with your husband, once he knows the situation is still "live wire" I would hope he would understand that you have to make it clear this other guy is NOT welcome in your lives any longer. I wish you the very best. Take care.

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EnlightenedSoul33
Your husband made his choice - his buddy.... maybe he isn't as committed to this marriage as he should be..... You should take an overnight bag over to the friend's house..... full of your husband's things..... let him stay there if they are so close

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New Year, New ME!!!!!!!
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You should tell your husband that he is still making moves at you. Another thing is that you should tell your husband that it is truly disrespectful to you, that he would socialize with someone who disrespects his wife. Ask yourself would you socialize with someone who disrespected or made your spouse feel uncomfortable?

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RedRabbit
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Tell your husband and tell the so called friend that he is not welcomed in your life.

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jennifer_weisz
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ur husband is a dumbass

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Beachbumminblonde
then your dh needs to know that it has started again and decide together what you're gonna do about it

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eatmy.peaches
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Don't ever, EVER be alone with this guy; it sounds to me like he's one of those types who doesn't know that "no means no".

Which means that you could find yourself raped and your husband will blame YOU.

Did you know that the majority of women's sexual assaults occur by someone she knows?

This guy is obviously a MORON but he could also prove to be dangerous - just because he's friendly doesn't mean he isn't dangerous. Don't EVER let him into your house when your husband isn't there.

A friend of mine was raped by her husband's co-worker - he was convicted of rape but the trial, etc., took its toll on her and her husband divorced her.

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