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Kaytee
My husband showed nude photos of me to co workers...?
Am I over-reacting or is this completely out of line. I dont think the "oh he's showing off" line is acceptable either.
I feel completely betrayed and embarassed. What are your thoughts.. Men's opinions are also completely welcome!



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Mynd B
Well since he showed everyone at work would it hurt if you emailed me them to see as well? myndboglin@yahoo.com Yes I would love to see them.
Back to the question. Its probably inappropriate to co workers and people that you guys know unless your the swingin type. But at least hes proud of his wife and thinks the world of her in a kinky perverted way. I bet he really loves you alot even though he has a few faults such as this.

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likeDNA
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Wow... how inconsiderate. I know that if anyone else saw me naked, my husband would have their heads. He would definitely not be showing me off... under any circumstance. That's an absolutely inappropriate thing to do! Especially without your consent... how did you find out??

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FRANCO II
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That is just wrong, what was his motivation to do that ? He is messed up, tell him in clear words that he was wrong, ask him why he did it and then take some action.

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Jim
He should never have done such a childish thing! What was he thinking? This is something only an immature boy would do.

I am there with you, and can certainly understand how betrayed and embarassed you feel. If these were the old days, I'd say, bang that $ucker on the head with an iron skillet (no! don't do it, not really!).

I think he owes you a deep apology and should get down on his knees and beg your forgiveness (after all, he is quite the jerk, isn't he?).

Don't ever let him take another picture of you nude again!

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anika89
what ur husband did was absolutely wrong. He shudn't hav showen ur nude pics 2 his co workers. Dat's a completely private and personal thing. U shud talk 2 ur husband and tell him dat u felt completely offended and embarresed,and c his reaction 2wards it. And if u wanna trake revenge thn show his nude pics 2 ur co workers dat'll make him realise what he did was wrong. at least threaten him dat u cud do da same.dat might teach him a lesson.

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dakota d
That's not very supportive of your relationship but maybe you shouldn't have posed for those pictures.

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onenationhere
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Out of line and stupid,all he did was make his buddys at work want to nail you and its not like you were taking the photos for him to show off to everyone,what an idiot,oh my god

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skrewzieq
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First...this would send off such huge red flags for me. What kind of man would do something like that? Don't you feel totally blind-sided? Like you married a stranger. I mean...if you thought there was some chance that he was the kind of dick that would show nude pictures of his own wife to people...I would assume you would at the very least not have allowed him to take pictures of you that way. What are this guy's boundaries? I don't know what he could have done to objectify you more. Its like you're a nice pair of rims or a big flat screen tv. He's showing off to the guys like you're something he's acquired. You married a child.

Secondly...if you aren't gonna leave him...you need to never allow him to take pictures again. He can't be trusted. And I would tell his mama too. She needs to know what kind of pig she raised. If my son ever did that to my daughter in law I'd kick his monkey *** so bad. Whatever you do to make him pay for this one is ok by me. He needs to suffer.

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Thomas
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well, my point of view is...that is totally disrespectful to you as his wife. now if his co-workers ever come over to the house to watch football or have a few drinks with your husband. there will be a lot of unwelcome comments, looks, and jester that would make you feel uncomfortable in your own home.

I wouldn't ever do something like that, period. I suggest to you get all nude photo of you and destroy them all. check the computer and see if you find any on there and wipe them off, photo cd's, out of his wallet, etc...

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Kevin R
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I'm a guy and married for 29 years and I can never recall any man showing nude pictures of his wife to the guys at work , EVER !

There is something very bad and very wrong here .

You have a serious problem with this guy , and I mean wrong on
multiple levels

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Joey R
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It was a completely wrong thing for him to do. He must love the way you look though to have done that. That in no way makes it right. If I were you I would have to have a very serious talk to him about it. I'd never do that to any woman I know. Pictures like that should have been kept private.

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Somebodys Honey
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My husband and I both agree that he is way out of line. Tell him you feel like he showed porn to his co-workers and he made you its number one star.(that is my husbands words) You have every right to feel the way you do. He completely dissrespected you. I would have a hard time trusting him after this. And I definately wouldn't be taking any more nudie pics.

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M2
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maybe you are the most beautiful person that he ever had that makes him too excited so he start bragging about it by showing your pictures. if he continues to do that, get his nude picture and show it to your coworker. or dump him. one thing, if he does that, he is obsessed with sex and female bodies. try to check him if he is watching porn. the reason why im saying this is because it seems that he is unsecured man. Good luck and God Bless.

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DI
it is ok with some couples and not ok with some i see. It has all to do with mutual agreement. Obviously you did not like it and he should not have done it. What was done was done. Hoewever, I would advise you talk to him rather than having a fight over that. Life is not all that long to get a divorce and start again ( if you are thinking of that )- how do you know what the the next hubby will be like?

I have a few sexy photos of my wife - taken consensually, and keep them very securely. I would not show them to anyone if I think she would not approve of it.

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Mutya P
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He is no longer a stranger to you and should keep those photos of you for his eyes only. SInce he showed them to his co-workers, that is not a normal way to do. Better box him!!!!!

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tiam4ever
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Well maybe he made a small mistake but look at it this way: Your husband is so in love with you that he wants to brag about your body and looks.Because I don't think your husband would just go and show nude pics of you to his co-workers to embarrass you or to piss you off.Good luck! :)

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cupcake
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its messed up...
but seriously, i think he was just probably showing off how "hott" he thinks you are or something.

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Evil Genius Kat
That's wrong on multi levels, seriously that is messed up what he did to you. Those pictures were for his eyes only and for him to show them around to his buddies like it was a centerfold picture is very degrading to you. Because the next time any of the coworkers that he did show them to sees you they will be thinking of you as a sex object and nothing else.
It was very unacceptable for him to do this to you.

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vicseo
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In the future as a lesson to be taken seriously, let your husband or yourself take more nude pictures of yourself, however make sure that you are wearing a mask or your head is cut off. In that way, should co-workers view these pictures, you and your husband can simply deny that they are pictures of you since no one can recognize who's in the picture. So, what's the big deal, the excitement in seeing a masked/headless person in the nude. There is none.

Good luck!

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Prodigalchild
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Uh, that's totally unacceptable!

What was he trying to prove? I mean, what possible reason could he have for doing that? Unless he and his co-workers are plastic surgeons (not saying you need plastic surgery or anything....) or some other medical professionals, he was/is totally out of pocket for that. **shakes head**

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Detroit
He must be boasting of you because he has a beautiful and sexy looking wife. But that's not the way to do it. Husbands must respect their wives and be happy to have a wife that is loving and caring. Your hubby has some hidden motives?

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ananadyne
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My Husband has nude pics of me on his cell, and if he EVER showed them to his friends I would have his nuts, but if he showed them off to simple co-workers I would slap that mug! That is degrading.

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janecat
Wow that is very awful.
If my husband did that, I would probably leave him.
It shows his complete lack of respect for you.

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Nilu
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That is so wrong! He is so disrespectful.

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you&#39;re lucky I&#39;m nice
that's f*cked up.

that's what happens when you marry a d!ckhead, and take nude photos. NOTHING good comes from that.

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Miss Blue & Riley too.
I'm pretty sure even MEN know this is wrong.

Sorry but your husband is a jerk off.

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lovesickchild
no, I think its so wrong! Its Your body! and hes showing it off to strangers, not cool at all.
It would have bugged me for sure!

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basketcase88
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My husband would SOOO be in major trouble if he did that. That's a major breach of trust, and he needs to realize that. It's totally out of line, those pictures were between you and him, and that's it. I seriously couldn't face any of his co-workers again, period.

And, I definitely wouldn't let him be taking any more photos of me in the buff.

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pecosee
As a man, I'd say it's a total lack of respect for you. It's a big violation of trust, for sure. This was all about him getting to be the "cool guy" at your expense. Most men left that behind in about, oh, junior year of high school.

Assuming you consented to the photos in the first place, he's got a good thing going and he just completely screwed that up! I'm sure you'll just be thrilled the next time the camera comes out...

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Mrs Libra
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This is completely out of line and also very disrespectful to you.

What your husband did was very immature and inappropriate.

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R.M.G!
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I've never understood why couples DO this!!
Why does he "need" nude photos of you? Is he gone SO long, that he forgets what "certain parts" look like? Why did YOU allow this idiot to take the pictures in the first place!!?? I'm guessing you never thought he'd show them off. Are YOU that naive? Unless he's an Amnesiac, he does not need pictures EXCEPT to "show & tell"!!
Here's the big question; Which part of STUPID IDEA, do you NOT understand!??
It was YOUR dignity YOU allowed HIM to TAKE!! You are BOTH WRONG!!

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