My husband injured me on tuesday 1st august i'm scared of him what?

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ahmad	it's very wrong he do that but if u love him make agood excuse to him if you not leave him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kimberly T	Go to the police and have a report made out on him, also get a restraining order on him also, get a lawyer and file for a divorce, Do this now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

superboredom	move out, and stay away from him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

manikally	Go to the police and press charges, it might frighten him into stopping. You don't need to be in an abusive relationship, you're better than that and deserve better. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Maggie	If he did it on purpose I think you should be scared. Has he done it before and do you think he'll do it again? I would need to know these things before giving an answer that I think could help you. I have been in that situation before and stayed in the relationship too long. I thought he would "change". We tried counseling. It didn't work out and I left him. Ironically he is not like that anymore so it may have just been that our chemistry wasn't compatible or whatever you might say. At the least seek counseling - together and individually. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rachiecakes	get as far away from him as possible Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chav Princess	Leave him. He sounds like a wanker Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bella	Get out of there!!!! Please don't stay with a man that abuses you. You do not have to take that bs. Divorce his *** and take him for whatever he's worth. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Olivia B	Depends on what you mean by normal. If by normal you mean waiting for the next injury to happen then just stay with him. Or, if you mean normal as in not in fear of him physically harming you, leave him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ottoman	if it was deliberate ..forget about going back to normal..think about going back to mum.. if it was a accident ..ask him to reassure you it wont happen again Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jewells	GET OUT! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lolitakali	You better start documenting and try all efforts to get out of the relationship. A divorce and the attorney will get all the monies for you. If you let him, you will continue to suffer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mml619	leave him. he will hurt you again!! and maybe worse Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marks3kids	I have ideas but they take longer to explain than is allowed here. Good Luck marks3kids@yahoo.com Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chernice r	call the cop's on him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

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steven e	there are two sides to astory,we should not jump to conclusions,it is not right for any party to be blameduntil the truth is known. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

winchester mom	why are you scared of youre husband/ you should not be scared of any man.just think about it we dont need a man like that honey there is too many men in this world for us.dont take that s--- Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smurfette_ftwayne	I would leave if you havent already, cause he'll give you this **** about I'm sorry ,it'll never happen again. I learned the hard way it does happen again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marci	Go to the police, get a restraining order, seek counseling. If your husband knows he has a problem, and wants to stop he will accept the actions you needed to do, and he will seek help. If he doesn't, then you need to protect yourself, and leave him before he either hurts you really bad where it could possibly disable you, or even possibly kill you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lily	Call the police and report this. Contact a lawyer and get out!!!!! It isn't plainer then that! Or.... Let him hurt you over and over and over, until he kills you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jo_bryant29	do not ever forgive a man for injuring you. whether its a shove or a slap it is disrespectful and that is not how you treat someone you love!!! do not settle!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

**~~~~~His Angel~~~~~**	Abusive men can be very intimidating. They tend to isolate and convince their victims that no one will be able to help them. I'm guessing that he's threatened to take his vengeance further if you seek help. It's all a bluff. He is a coward and he's terrified you will find a way out. Make out a police report, get a restraining order, go to a shelter. Here is the biggest hold these losers have on women, we tend to want our "stuff". Let that sh*t go. It's a price you have to pay for safety, for your life. This is how women get killed. Take what you need and head out the door. If you have children, he'll try to use them as leverage, don't let him. It's not healthy for your children to witness this type of behavior. It only perpetuates one way or another. If your family doesn't provide support, go to a women's shelter. I can't enforce that one enough. There is always somewhere you can go. This isn't the 70s anymore. You have options, you have support. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stezkisses	my mum and dad was in a bad marriage for a long time, it got worse the more time they were together my mum put up with it there where even times they nearly killed each other. police came and my dad always played the good guy and in the end it was either kill each other or get out there were also me brother and sister that saw all this and yes it messed us too . my mum got the strength to get out she was so brave to stand and say enough!! so what im saying is get strong be brave and get out because it will get worse xx take care sweetness Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Spadesboffin	A man that hits you is inexcusable. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sole Angel	Well, if he beat you, you need to leave asap-it won't stop. My cousins ex-husband used to beat her. He did it one night before they went camping, that night she zipped him up in the tent , beat him with a log, then rolled him down the hill. Needless to say when he finally got out of the tent, he felt that they needed to get a divorce. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wifa 4 Lifa	For me, one strike and your out!! Leave,I know it's hard for you to do and it easy for me to say, but chances are he'll probably do it again. Be smart and make the right decision expecially if you have children. Good Luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Curious	What do you mean your husband injured you, in what way did he injure you? Go to a doctor and leave your husband before he does it again. When you ask if you can get back to normal, it depends on what is wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

killerlegs	First, find out where you can possibly stay, then go to the police and file a report and for a restraining order and ask for police escort to remove your stuff from home, hopefully he will not be there at the time. When you leave, file for a divorce. Try to find out about legal aid through the government if you can not afford it. Try to move far away from him so he will not be able to find you easily. It is important to report it because if you do, there will be a record of abuse and if, God forbid, he attacks you and you have to defend yourself and you hurt him, you will have a better chance of getting off because they will have a record of his continuous abuse and they will believe that you did try to defend yourself and did not go with the intention to hurt him. If you hurt him even in self defense and they believe you did it intentionally and you don't have that record of abuse, you can go to jail. Even if you swear that you were defending yourself and they believe otherwise, that will be it. Protect yourself, especially if you have children. Never stay in the area where he lives. Try to go as far away as possible. I really hope you will not stay there and wait for him to end your life. It is a situation that will never change, but just keep getting worse. That is a fact. May God keep you safe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john_0502000	WHY U SAID NO TO HIM? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HeartsOnFire	Sweetie if this man physically assaulted U then PLEASE remember that if he'll do it once he WILL do it again. I'm not sure there is any way to get back to "normal" after something like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No