My husband hits me!!?!!?

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boredperv	LEAVE! How can you even think any of it is your falut. There is no excuse for a man to hit a woman or vice versa. What he did was illegal and he shouldn't get away with it. Have a bit of pride and self worth and bail. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gabriela F	call and tell to the police and if it's necessary, bits him too!!!get up and fight for your rights, baby!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Arenyth	Anyone who beats his wife cannot possibly be that great of a father. If he doesn't care about your unborn child, he's a horrible father. You need to get out of this life right now, if not for your safety's sake, then for your children's. What he is doing is wrong, and it sounds like you're hitting him "back"- which is self defense. Call the cops on him, just leave, you're only bringing your family and yourself more pain the more you let him do this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

c money	if you hit him first you better just get out because after that as far as i'm concerned you deserve it no B*TCH is worth puting up with some crap Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jasonheavilin	YOU HAVE TO GO. True enough you should not hit him, but he should not hit you. Specially if you are pregnant. For your safety and the for the best environment for your kids, YOU HAVE TO GO. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dukalink6000	You get out NOW! A real man does not hit for any reason. A "great Dad" does not hit Mom. Do not fall into the Victim Trap of blaming yourself for his violent outbursts. And no man EVER hits a pregnant woman. There are mechanisms in place to protect you. Once again, get out NOW! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

notfreeinnh	Go directly to abuse concelling. Is this what you want your child to see.. parents hitting each other. You should be concerned about your unborn child as well as the baby you already have. Get some help and get him some too. No one should strike anyone and certainly not a pregnant women. Geesh!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zzHoUnDzz	Leave or put him out.You arent only damaging yourself but your children as well,,if not phyically,,mentally.Now do it!!Its not your fault!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oddball59	You say he is a great dad....well I don't think he is. He hits you? Your children will be learning from him how to treat women. There are places you can go and should go to get away from this. If you can't think about yourself in all this at least you gotta think about your children. Do you want them to see and hear all this stuff going on? They will grow up with problems and may even turn into wife beaters or if you have daughters then they'll learn it's okay to be hit by a guy. Get out now and stay out if you care anything for yourself and children. The fact that sometimes he nice doesn't make it okay. He is breaking the law, he is committing assault and battery because YOU LET HIM! Ask yourself this : Would it be okay for him to beat up a woman on the street? Then why is it okay for him to hit you???? He sounds like a loser.....do you wanna end up a loser too? Take no more.....respect yourself! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anthony F	Leave him. There is never a good excuse to stay with an abusive man. A man should never hit a woman no matter what. Just because you hit him still doesn't give him the right to hit you. Leave Him Now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bjsmama	Please leave him. Please get help. It's not your fault. If you stay in thois situation you are saying to your daughter that it's ok. Would you want her to be hit? If you think you can't get out for yourself, it may be too hard, or you are scared, then PLEASE, PLEASE do it for your daughter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chucksters&Hoodys	you should leave his sorry *** i knew moms who used to get hit and the only reason they stayed was because they were scared not because they loved him that was the lie they told themselves if a man hits you leave him immediatley hes no good it doesnt matter if you have a kid with him itll be better for you and your daughter to get away from an abusive man Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tumbleweed1954	You need to leave him and go to a shelter. Then you need to seek counseling to discover why you'd 'love' a man that beats you. You deserve better. Get out! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Key Master	a great dad would not hit his pregnant wife and a great mom would not raise her children with any one who taught them that spousal abuse was ok. leave him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr. Feelgood	Call the cops , or take a bat to him..........or both. But don't let this continue or your children will think it's okay to hit. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chris	get help and leave do you enjoy being a victim? and something else ....report him to the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bella	Honey, stop being dumb. Leave the *** hole. He might be a good dad and all, but you need to be happy and think of your kids and their well being. If he hits you, he's most likey going to take it out someway on the kids. Just go. F'real. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

connie	its time to beat his *** and leave as fast as you can move to another state change Evey thing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬	yea its hard to leave but think about your kids you dont want them to see that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Richard G	If you hit him, even "in return", you will go to jail as fast as he does!!! Domestic violence works both ways, so don't think you have special rights because your a woman! I'd leave his sorry @ss in a heartbeat!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brucenjacobs	Call the police now! How good of a mother will you be if he seriously hurts or kills you. Even if something were your fault, that does not give him the right to hit you. Get off of Yahoo and call the police. I would have to read about you in the newspaper. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Blue Jean	Leave him at once, take the kids if you have to. There is no justification in physical violence, and if this continues you might end up losing the baby, or worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eyes of Green	you should have walked out the door after the first time he hit you weather you have a kid or not, why would you want to be in that situation and why would you want a child to grow up in that kind of home? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ncmudslinger	Trust me if he really loves you he wont hit you. LEAVE HIM. No women deserves to be hit. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Texas Made!	leave him asap....and call the cops...you should never have to put up with that!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

omalle89	either get some serious counseling for him, or leave Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

servinggodalone	First, even if you hit back, that's no excuse for your husband to hit you. He is being abusive and that is illegal. It doesn't matter what he says causes the hitting. Second, you need to leave him immediately. What kind of example are you giving your children, that it's okay for a husband to hit his wife, that it's okay for their father to hit their mother? You need to leave immediately. Thirdly, in some states, you can have your children taken away from you for staying with an abusive spouse. Without either parent, your children would be placed in foster care. Is that what you want? If you don't have family you can go to, try contacting Lutheran or Catholic Social Services for assistance. There are also, in many cities, organizations specially for abused women. God bless you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Webballs	Man, leave the wife beater. A man wouldn't do that BS!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Isis	Leave. This is physical abuse. Women who delude themselves into thinking that things will get better are only kidding themselves. You need support and a chance to face the facts. Get help. make a plan. This is dangerous and wrong. Period. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	Get out now. This will only get worse...The sad thing is that you believe that it's your fault that he's beating the crap outta you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bapo	It is your fault. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No