My husband cheated on me before and i forgave him but now he has a security code on his cell phone?

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monkey tuesday	Your relationship is screwed. The sooner both of you realize this, the better off you will be. He is still up to some debauchery or he wouldn't need the code, and you will never trust him again anyway. NO TRUST = NO RELATIONSHIP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smt	What about the bill? If you can't get the security code, you could see what calls he's made from that phone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JADE	You can't live your life always trying to keep checking on your husband. If you've decided to take him back, then you have to establish open lines of communication with him. If, deep down, you know you still can't trust him, it is quite senseless to keep him in your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bert	That's really good that you forgave him, but what about you, do you deserve to live this way, the bible says that if your partner is unfaithful, you may divorce him, seek God and you shall find Him, He is more than willing to help you, besides God wants you to live in peace......Jesus loves you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

harlowtoo	Honey, forget about cracking the security code, the guy is obviously still up to his old tricks. I think you just want to see his calls to confirm what you already know. It may not be what you want to hear, but you should call it quits before he hurts you further, you no doubt deserve better than a marriage full of deceit and mistrust. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

New York Chic	u know wuts on that cell phone!!! u just dont want to admit it or believe it!! im sorry hun but once a cheater always a cheater!! and the fact that u took him back after he did it once, he thinks he can keep getting away with it!!! good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

falconpeddle	i dont give a person but one chance now i`ve been cheated on to many time`s i dont have time for the games if he has a code where you cant get into the phone give him a choice The code or get out. maybe he will love you enough to come clean. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jeanie	You already know what's on his cell phone. Besides, why would he need to have a security code if he wasn't up to something? Why take back a man like that? Don't you deserve better? Stop playing this insulting game and dump him once and for all! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Me	My Bf cheated too and if he put a security code...I am gone! I wouldnt tolerate that also. Obviously he's hiding something. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

eitakydennek	not worth the time. once a cheater always.... theres better men out there! you could alwyas drop the phone in water and mess it all up. lol that would be funny! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jannyt22	Why would you want to prove to yourself that you've been a fool ? You should never take back someone who cheats. That's not necessarily to say that the person is going to cheat again. But, once you've been cheated on you can never truly trust that person again. So, don't torture yourself. Move on. If you're not prepared to move on, then you just need to forget about the code...and your self-respect. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lost and tired	i no it sounds sleazy but create a account wit his phone company and check his bill to see the calls. or just ask him 4 the code Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shy Girl S	You have every right to mistrust him...he cheated once and now he has a security code on his cell phone. Doesn't look good to me. You need to be upfront with him now and tell him, in order for this relationship to move on and gain your trust back, he has to be opened to you on every level....no security codes, no nothing...he deceived you once, now he has to prove he can be worthy of your trust. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chmar11	Kick him to the curb. He has the lock on there to hide something. You say he cheated on you before when you took him back are you sure that he was done with the other person? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chris f	not to sound rude, but if you took him back and are still not trusting him, then you don't have a chance. if he won't show you then he's hiding things from you. dump him!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tersey562	Do you have a cell phone number with the same company? Go into one of their stores and ask for a printout of last month's bill. Tell them you misplaced your copy and you need a number off of it or something. I believe you are entitled to it if you have the same provider and receive one bill for both phones. Besides all that I think you two need counseling. There is no reason a husband should have a security code on his cell phone unless he is trying to hide something from his wife. And being secretive only adds to suspicions and distrust. He either needs to be open and honest and built a solid relationship with you or you two don't belong together. Good luck and God Bless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Aussie Ian	Really now, if you have to be snooping, you should not be with him. The trust is dead - lose the Bugger and get on with your life! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabeHeart	If you distrust him that much, why stay with him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eyes of Green	you do not need to check he is cheating otherwise there would be no need for the code Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jamila	you are legally his wife, you can find out anything you need on him Call the company he got the phone from, you know his name, social, birthdate and so on Girl do some investigating and you can pretty much find out anything you want or you can just sit there and wonder Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spelling nazi	I have no idea. But this guy is obviously not going to stop cheating on you, because he got away with it before. I wish I could help you. Personally I'd take the cell phone and smash it with a hammer. PS: LOL Russ, I swear I didn't see your answer before I wrote mine!! ha ha ha Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bigandbad	You know now that you shouldn't have forgave him, right. If he has something to hide you should be very concerned. The phone company can give you a listing of calls and texts, if you are on the account. GOOD LUCK Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spun_down	no problemo. call the wireless company for hardcopy or online access to all # incoming and outgoing. lol. get a lawyer Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	smash his phone with a hammer and kick him to the curb Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Me baby Me	Snooping is not the answer...but he should be open and honest with you if he wants to try and rebuild your marriage. The security code on a cell phone is usually the last 4 digits of the cell phone number LOL...unless he changed it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mz.FiERR0S	if you two are married, call the cell company and tell them you forgot your password. they just ask you some security questions like your address, name, work place, etc. stuff you should know Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Been There Done That	He is hiding something......is your name on the account??? Call up the company and have a billing acount faxed to you or go pick one up....... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sean	I have to think that he's cheating again. The ball's in your court. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

coolbeanie27	First off....if he needs a code on his cell phone....you don't need him. he's still cheating. I wouldn't feel the NEED to PROVE it ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

funkychunky7000	when someone has cheated on you and you take them back they are SUPPOSE to be completely open with you. So just ask him to let you see whats on his phone. If he refuses he is hiding something Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Genevieve	I hate to say it but Spun is right. You have to get the lawyer first though in order to gt the phone company to release the info. I speak from experience. My dad (75) had a cell phone and wouldn't let my mom use it or even go near it. He filed for a divorce and during the divorce my mother's lawyer had to go through court to obtain a warrent for the release of the phone records to prove my dad was cheating. The only thing it proved in the long run was that he was calling another woman constantly. They got the divorce. 6 months later my dad moved to Florida (unknown to me or my family), called me from Florida to tell me they got married and were now going to be living in Florida. (she's 39- 6yrs older than me!) I haven't seen my dad since- it's been 4 years Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No