My husband beats me and slaps my baby most days! Need help on what to do!!! PLEASE HELP

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BookyWooks	You poor, poor woman. Please leave immediately. Call the police, go stay with a friend or family member you can trust and do not speak to him. Please do this at once. Don't be scared, use all of your strength to protect your baby at least. People like your husband need to be shot. No excuses. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

b_boogie	You need to contact your nearest Domestic Violence Agency and ask them if they can assist you with the problem. You need to let your family members and closest friends know about the abuse, and see if they will be able to take you in. At this point you have to be brave and make that decision (if you feel your life is threatened) to call 911 and report the abuse. This is the safest and most effective way to ensure the welfare of you and your child. Pray for the best Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Astral	Never mind the points - think of you and your baby. Never mind the material stuff either - that's always replaceable. He needs to be locked up - get out and go to family or friends. If he follows you call the Police and have him arrested for GBH and endangerment to a child. Just get in the car and drive - and don't look back! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Laura♥	Omg you poor thing, make sure you bring all birth certs and passports etc. i would advise you to open up an account aswell (if you and him share an account) and put away money! but the main thing is to get you and your baby outta there bring some clothes, baby stuff (nappies,milk,bottles, etc..) and MONEY! get the hell outta there! I really hope you get away (wish i could help more) best of luck! x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emeraldisle2222	Just contact the police right away. You don't have to move. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Please punctuate properly folks.	Ask your local Citizens' Advice Bureau to tell you of a half-way house in your area. Get them to tell you how to get a court injunction to stop him approaching you. Stick with it. Don't let him near you, don't EVER talk to him again, don't make eye-contact, and have a big male friend or relative with you when you need to shop. Ditch the creep, and file charges with the Police, now! Ram home to him what an A$$ he is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Starlight4u2	Don't wait another minute just go and at the mean time call the police and let them know what's been going on and they will make sure you and your baby are safe. Pack and leave now! Ps... I don't care about points I care you and your baby are safe! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Legandivori	Spousal abuse schooled be reported to the cops, and go to a woman's shelter so they keep it anonymous about where you are. Make sure you get court to get you a criminal Porter of protection against him. Make sure you know Gates, times,kl etc of your being hit and as lapped and tortured,. Timon's,. locations., injuries. TAsk cops to lock him UPI0 too. Make sure you task out all Mooney you can. During the morning right after her leaves, without saying a worked,, speak to cops go to cops with your car if you have one. Have written out all incidents, etc. but make sure hubby does never dined them. Make Xerox zippy of it all. Other optional: got to a trusting relative but not your parents, etc with the kid. Some one who your buss would no pt expect you to be with. it is imperative to keep[ it all top secret. If hubby steps out tonight, also call cops,. but make sure he USN;t around to get info. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Right Wing Extremist	Pack your babys clothes diapers formula and favorite toys, a few clothe for you, drivers license social security card, grab your purse. The agency will help you with other things. If he is slapping you and the baby call the police file charges against him. While he is in jail leave!! God Bless Linda Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HipHoppy21	He is a bastard, You hear of domestic violence which is unacceptable but hitting a baby is DISGUSTING. You need to grab everything you think you will need. Get some money together and go to a family member or hotel as far away as possible. Don't put up with this like some people do. Get Out Quick. Don't worry about that nasty diabolical man Good luck My thoughts are with you xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Blue Raven	Baby's cot and clothes, some nappies and basic medicines like calpol and sudocrem, your clothes, passports, cash, car documents, debit cards if you have own account (if not, get as much cash as possible out), any other forms of ID you have. If you have credit cards, take paperwork for those as well. If you received any letters from councillors or social services advising you and acknowledging your situation, bring them. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nikki G	Stay with a family member and dont answer his calls. You need to get in contact with the police as soon as possible. They will keep him in custody. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

robert x	Your situation sounds dire what you need to do is to get in contact with citizens advice bureau who will be able to tell where to find help from a woman's shelter, who may be able to help you sort things out and keep you safe from your husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brianna H	Have you ever seen that movie Enough with Jennifer Lopez? Get out of there, girlfriend! No one deserves to beat you or your child. Take a day off, and leave while he is at work. Don't leave a trace about where you've gone. Tell your family about where you are going, (particularly Mom and Dad) and get out of there! Take all your passports, bank details, and others. I am so sorry about the family! God bless you too! Are you looking to stay in the US or go out? If you want to stay, move somewhere where he would never guess. Move somewhere like California, or Idaho. Or something. If you want to move out of the country, then I would suggest somewhere, like as you said, Thailand. And most of all, put it in God's hands. Pray everyday. He'll get you through this. And possibly bring this man to justice. And as far as not involving the police, I would call the police anyway. If you don't, you're going to be the one losing MORE than her job. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is. Your first priority is being a mother to your child. Keep you and your baby as safe as possible. Thanks! Good Luck! Brianna =] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Christie M	Weave -women escaping a violent environment. If you don't take care of yourself and your child, child protective services will remove your child and charge you for failure to protect, and you will suffer more consequences that you could ever believe. Leave now....before law enforcement becomes involved! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meme	So what he looses his job! Not to be rude or anything but would you rather you or your child loose their life than him loosing a job! Come on now! You deserve better than him. I think that it would be best if the police gets involved. At least you and your child would be safe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ChemoAngel	Don't worry about your clothes. Just take all the money you have available to you, take the baby, and get out. Do it while he is at work. Leave him a note if you must, but don't stay there. Go to a shelter where you will be safe. Do not take any personal belongings that you honestly don't need. Things can be replaced, your life, and your baby's can't. Don't worry about material things right now, just withdraw half the money in the bank, and go somplace safe. If you go to a homeless shelter, or a domestic violence shelter, they can supply things for you and your baby. Pack as little as you can, what you can do without, leave behind. Safety comes first, the rest can be bought again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bruce	Paper work takes up no space at all, so just take everything even his. Then you can sort out what you need at a later date and discard the rest. Then just worry about everything you need for the baby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

a.lewthwaite	i study human paterns and their way of tinking and judging by your use of the word 'basically' and 'getaway' u sound like someone looking for attention and are really waisting peoples time. u said u need a plan well by the sounds of it u already have one dont u? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rachelle B	go get help, ring the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ r-PaTz ♥	You have to contact the police so they could help you leave. Yes, leave while he's at work but make sure the police are involved so they would stop him if he tries to track you down. Explain to them your situation and how he beats you and the baby so he won't have custody of the child at all. Sorry about your situation, guys like that are a-s-s wholes!! Good Luck =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Orla C	Just get the passports and the baby's cot and some nappies and go. And call the police while you're at it. Good luck and be safe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TINK	NEVER BLOODY MIND IF HE LOSE'S HIS JOB GET THE POLICE INVOLVED AND GET AN INJUNCTION OUT ON THE NASTY SICK BASTA*D THERE ARE PLENTY OF SHELTERS YOU AND YOUR BABY CAN GO TO AND BE SAFE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jake P	Call the police, they will suggest a shelter which will provide for you and not be able to be located by your abuser. Then you can move forward from there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Saz	just grab your paperwork and your babys essentials and get out of there you can buy new cloths, makeup, jewlery just leave it and get out good luck xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dels replies	Go to women's refuge at once Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

loving mommy life!!	Tomorrow when hes at work. pack everything you need and can fit. take some food with you as well. if u have a joint account take money out of it so he doesnt block it and then you have none and go toa womens shelter. if you dont know where one is drive to the police station tell them ur situation and they will lead u in the right direction. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fizz	Leave everything you can get it later - take money and important documents and then go to your local womens refuge. Once there ask to transfer to somewhere else in the country and get put on the council housing list and change your surname, you can do that for about £60. hurry before it is too late, i hope it works out for you. x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

L D	Just take a bag of clothes, empty your bank account and get out of there asap. You can worry about luxeries such as cots and stuff when you are far enough away. Find a woman's shelter, change your mobile number, inform our local police that you are leaving him and why so that if he reports you missing then they won't go looking for you. Just get the hell out of there, if not for yourself then for your child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scooter	you need to get someone to help you you cannot do this alone. if the police know they will take you away from the house with full police escort and he wont be able to do anything about it. they will move you to a safe house Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

littlebethan	Get in contact with refuge. Their site is http://www.refuge.org.uk/ They will help you. Seriously as the above answers say, get the passports, cot and go. Things like clothes can be bought. If a child is at risk you MUST get that child out of there! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No