My boyfriend is very verbally abusive. What should i do?

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allspells	Dump him NOW!! Verbal abuse usually leads to physical abuse! It is not safe for you to been in this relationship! You can find someone who treats you right! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rick	Dump him. No one needs to put up with verbal abuse. Believe me, it just gets worse as you get older. If you tolerate it now, then you are setting yourself up for pain down the road. Set your standards high. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ssgjwyf	Kick him to the curb...tell him he needs help, and if all else fails, cut his tongue out in his sleep. (i'm kidding about the last part.) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Check, Please.™	LEAVE THIS GUY!!!!!!! report him 2 the police!!!! get away from him NOW Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PhostaKidd	CALL THE POLICE AND.... ***!!!!!-----GO ROCKIES-----!!!!!*** Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

laffytaffy	you should leave him. he might get physically abusive with you. also, why do you even want to be with someone who has no respect for you and treats you bad. you deserve better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Elana	So why are you still with him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*CHERYL (aka cchot2u)**	you need to replace that little boy! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lisa L	Sounds like he has problems somewhere along the line, he's making you feel bad as it makes him feel good. He either needs some therapy, but this is no good for you as after a while you will start to beleive it. get him some help or leave this relationship as it's not looking very healthy! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KRIS	as the old saying goes, if you don't like it leave Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

koda6121997	dump him get a new one or just stay away from him for about a month- 3 months that should calm him down a bit. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mildred S	fire him. you don't need someone abusing you he will not change / he will get worse. you will gradually have your self esteem destroyed and won't recognize what you are losing. definately, for sure , for sure , get a new BF Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

margarito s	WOW you should dupm his black sorry *** man if he calling you those stuff you should dump him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

joni	say see ya Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wuts crackn	dump him NOW or else face that verbal abuse normally leads to physical abuse. If u dont have the balls 2 leave him then ur the stupid one.dont trip fool Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ronatnyu	Well if he's doing that now .... I'm telling you you'll be in physical trouble soon..... so cut your ties and walk away while you still have your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hockey_7	dump him! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jules	so leave him or you are.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Celtic-Candy	Break up with him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

riya	break up with him....there's too many men around to be dealing with that foolishness Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

[ KOOlKidddS . ]	UH... DUMP HIM!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brina	break up with him, you dont deserve to be talked to like that. why would you want to stay with him? It will only get worse! He doesnt love you if thats how he treats you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

peaches6	why are you there? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bic	do you really have to ask? dump him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hannahbear	leave get the hell out right now if he can't support you how can he love you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Debra B	GET AWAY FROM HIM............FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Darby	Run, don't walk, away fast. It will only get worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ms_sokin	Easy, leave him! Verbal is just as bad as physical. They both hurt you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cope_acetic	Then why the hell is he your boyfriend??? Dump him....you can do a LOT better! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TONY S	Dump him. I have been dumped for the stupidest reasons and it is an insult. Here you have a guy who is begging to be dumped with his bad behavior....DUMP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jude	he wants u to feel just as bad as he does, i would not stay with someone who disrespects and name calls, because its who he is and part of his character and not easily changed. focus on yourself, all this verbal abuse will get u nothing but a low self esteem and after awhile u will feel as if u deserve this, get out now and don't marry him, no one deserves to be treated like this. often times verbal abuse turns into physical abuse later on. if your smart u will leave this relationship and move on, as there are many good men out there looking for love, u don't have to settle for this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No