My abuser came back! What would you do?

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baby_sunshine_4eva	hi. i would not have any contact with him. people that are abusers are all about the power. they want to control the other person. if you reply back to this guy and say hello, it will give him the impression that what he did was right. he wants and needs power to feel good about himself. don't give him that. if he persists, you could always talk to the police, see what your options are. if you do not want to something as drastic, reply to him and just tell him you have moved on in your life and wish no contact with him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

letterstoheather	IGNORE. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Toni R	As tempting as it maybe just ignore him!!! Think to yourself do you really want to allow someone to put you through that again? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bubblegum_Faeire	Don't Reply.. If He Abused You Once He Can Do It Again. And Change Your Number Or W/e He's Contacting You With. I Know Some People Would Say 'But He's Changed!' He Hasn't.. An Abuser Once Always An Abuser [My Way Of Thinking] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sheikhlaodum	don't reply. haven't you had enough yet? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mamabee	Do not reply and do not meet him. Change your number. If he starts coming around tell him you are done and no longer want to see him. If he persists in harrasing you get a restraining order. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

linkstar	He's trying to get back into your head. He'll try to play nice but he hasn't changed. Don't even bother to reply. If you do it will just make you more susceptible to his torture and games. DO NOT CONTACT HIM! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

holly	He has more than likely been dumped by the new lover. Ignore him he's a rat. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

redpeach_mi	do not reply. people like him are always looking for the "in" with someone. if you text him back, even if it's bad, that is the "in" that he was looking for. block his number from texting you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lucky karma	Get a new phone number. Are you joking girl, this bloke is a loser - have some more self respect. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pudding	Forget it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Britta R	LEAVE HIM ALONE! He regrets his mistakes now. BUt people like that DONT change, forget it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jupiteress	Do not answer his texts. Go to victim support and have a chat with them. Do not even think what he wants...its what you want that matters. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Desperate To Loose	You stay away from him. My mom was in a situation like that. You don't talk to him. Get a restraining order. Move do anything to protect yourself. You don't need that stressful behavior in your life, and dangerous behavior. Don't text him back and all. Change your telephone number and don't have a forwarding one. Protect and take care of your self please. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Penny	I would not reply. Stay away and don't answer his text. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wellbeing	Leave it. He's trying to engage you, if you respond at all, you will be in for more abuse. If he approaches you physically, tell him that you have moved on and want him to do the same, that he is no longer welcome around. Get a restraining order if you need to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Honestly, now	Ignore him and hope he goes away. If he doesn't, get a restraining order. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michelle	Change your phone number and DO NOT reply. Don't stand for that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cassandra	do you want to get abused again? didnt think so. never talk to that idiot again! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mark	who cares what he wants, DO NOT REPLY Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fifilapoo114	do not reply and let the police know that you are worried. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rein	He probably wants you back to tourment some more. Igore him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bunnielover	noooo!!! don't reply him!!!!!!! just ignore it.....and he possibly either want abuse you again bc he maybe miss you? or something? but I suggest you to not reply him! and go to police about it! I will pray for you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

very confused	Are you crazy the last thing you need to do is reply, he will do the same thing again Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CoolDude	He wants his victim back. And if you are even remotely considering getting back together with him, then you obviously deserve each other. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kate	don't reply! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

civil_seismic_eng	do not reply notify the police and get a restraining order. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PokerPlayer	Don't even reply to this @sshole. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jusanotherqt	don't answer him, you'll just encourage it, it was obviously not a healthy relationship, and if you're worried about your safety, don't hesitate to call the cops and get a restraining order. put yourself first he is no good, any man who abuses a woman is a flat out coward, and you deserve better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

that judi	Nothing good can come of this so delete his messages and ignore him. Be on the defensive and do not engage him in any way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladysosureone	do not even think of responding to this fool once an abuser always one you have your own life now leave it that way~~~~~~ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No