Men what is you definition of a good wife, women what do you look for in a husband?

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~Charity~	What I looked for in a marriage... Honesty Intelligence Confidence Good Sense of Humor Good work ethics Family oriented Mentally stable The ability to listen Protective And being attractive doesn't hurt! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pedebeed	I see someone that is into the same things that I am but yet still in too the things that they enjoy to themselves. Open minded and willing to try new things that peaks an interest. Someone who is willing to split things down the middle but yet selfish enough to keep a little more for just them self from time to time. Someone who is open & willing to talk about how they feel and other things will make anything successful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Divine	THAT'S TRUE TO HIS WORD,HONEST,THAT MAKES SURE HE HAVES MY BACK,TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS,AND SOMEONE THAT KNOWS ITS A TWO WAY STREET IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND 50/50 AT ALL TIMES TO DEATH DO US PART. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xo~girlie~xo	I look for a man, who has a sense of humor, ambition, a good job, and doesn't have to have a great body, but can;t have completely let himself go, someone whos is honest and hard working, intelligent, someone who has good conversation skills and willing to experiemnt in bed, and likes to have sex alot :") Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jenness Steele	A successful marriage takes work, dedication, patience and trust. Last but not least unconditional love. I think a good partner doesn't put unrealistic limits or expectations on you. Sees you for who you are and will always stand by you no matter what happens. Someone you have the best time with and can turn to when you have your worst times. Someone who does little things to earn your love every day and doesn't take you for granted. They are willing to explore and share everything with you. I think to have a good marriage you have to be considerate of your partner and be willing to bend a little and compromise. Give and take is a huge part of what it takes to have a successful marriage. You will know when you find the right person, and if you find you are not with the right person get out. Life is too short and your soul mate is out there. I swear I just found mine! He makes me feel like I am the only woman on earth. Love is such an amazing thing. True love is something to hold on tight to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarah71397	everything i have: mutual respect consideration fun gives me confidence has my best interests at heart listens support i think you have to have all of the above to make a marraige work Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

texas tornado	A good husband is someone who puts you first & wants only the best for you. And a really good man can make you laugh, even at yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aerofrce1	I have been married for 8 years yesterday...we have been together for 11 years. In my husband I found someone that shares the same sense of humor (which is the MOST important thing to me) We wanted the same things in life and we have never asked each other to be someone we aren't. My husband let's me be the person I am no strings attached. All these things and more are why our marriage works. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kaye t	Marriage needs commitment, compromise, communication and love. I look for all these things in a guy, and luckily, I have found someone! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetsarah	i think a good husband: need to provide good sex, have goals in life, prepare for the future, show me that he loves me That is it... i am easy to please!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carol s	a good wife is someone who compromises, loves, listens and enjoys the company of their husbands. i look for a guy with a job, loving heart, compassionate, funny, smart, fun to be around, and willing to wait until marriage to have sex. the above applies to a good marriage Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gab&Thomas	I think a successful marriage is one where you can both take care of each other. I'm not talking in any one specific area, but in all areas. If the man works and takes care of the finances then the woman should take care of her share. It has to be a 50/50 endeavor or you're doomed for failure. Communication, love, loyalty, respect, and laughter is also key in a successful marriage. And the willingness to help each other out. I'm pregnant right now and my husband picks up the slack for me. He steps in and does what I normally do but just can't do right now. It makes me feel loved and cared about and in return I try to do things for him. My grandparents have been married for a ridiculously long time and always joke about the fact that when he's thirsty she gets him his water and when she's thirsty he gets her water. They both get up and get water, but they do it for each other and therefore they always feel loved and taken care of. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Auto S	Good wife = loves you, family oriented, puts priority on you over herself first, listen to you, shares with you everything, willing to help around the place, and doesn't cheat on you. There is probably more I write, but you all know where I am getting at. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wldchldwoman	BEING BEST FRIENDS WHERE YOU CAN SHARE ALL YOUR EMOTIONS AND NOT BE JUDGED!!! AND GREAT SEX WHICH CONNECTS WITH THE FIRST PART!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

n9wff	Proverbs 31 woman. she should be: a good mother my best friend my lover my confidante my lifelong companion. not selfish. a praying wife for her family. Marriage takes two wills to become one. One cannot overrule the other but each with its best to cover the weakness of the other. Love requires DOING, not just saying. My daughter loves sitting on my lap and getting hugs. My son loves to play with his dad. My wife loves her "emotional needs" met. Saying love isn't enough. Giving it by doing it is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drifter69	a good wife? - self assured, confident, strong positive and supportive... and for her I will be that as well. I like a woman who takes pride in her appearance, dresses well, holds herself in social environments and is deep down inside, a loving and caring person. And best of all... I have found her!!! Life is good!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

IronHook	A attractive best friend. A successful marriage is one where respect, kindness and understanding are key. You will fall out of love while you are married. You will second guess you marriage. You will grow unhappy. If you work on it and they work on it... You will be glad you got married, you will grow happy and you will never truly regret that you got married. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CoffeeQueen0327	I think that a husband who is his own person is ideal. I don't want to be your mother, I don't want to be one of the boys... I want you to pick up your own socks,take your dishes to the kitchen, and to do some laundry when you need something washed. Sharing a life together shouldn't mean taking care of your own life and your spouses too. I mean, be my husband, not my pet. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cereal Killer	I believe a good husband is someone who stands by his woman. He must be supportive, compassionate, dependable and faithful. But above all, he should lie when I look like a hobo, and be honest when I'm acting like a b****. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stuffys_sweets	I look for a life partner, a best friend, faithful companion to share my life with. One that is forgiving, patient, understanding, trustworthy aka worthy of my trust, honorable, respects me and is not afraid to be honest with me through communication. One that is beautiful inside and out. All of the ingredients listed above help make a successful marriage on both sides of the coin. In other words, if you both have similar goals in mind, are friends and not only lovers, faithful, forgiving, patient and supportive, understanding when times get tough, trustworthy, honorable and respectful of one another, and you can both openly communicate well instead of not speaking your mind, you should do just fine. If you can realize that a marriage is a commitment that takes time in which you both grow and change, you should do just fine. If you can realize that there will be times when you have doubts during the ever changing process, you should do just fine. All in all, remember your vows. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SexyGem06	In a husband I look for someone who I can relate to, trust, and tell anything to. Someone that can make me smile just by looking at me and make me laugh!! I found this person!! So they are out there. To make a marriage successful you got to have trust in one another and make sure the marriage is 50/50. But sometimes you have to put in more effort than the guy in the marriage!! But as long as you have trust and faith your marriage should be okay! Without those two things then its pretty much destined to fail!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

joanna30536	the most important thing and a marriage is communicate Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meow	i look for sincerity, love, loyalty in a hubby and marriage is made successful with trust, freedom to express, lots of communication, friendship, being comfortable around each other, forgiveness, feelings, love, love love and more love. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Agnostic Front	What i look for in a good wife is someone who will listen to me, and i respect enough to listen to her. I also need to be physically attracted to her, and she needs to share some of the things i do for fun at the very least. What makes a marriage successful? Simply 2 things. Trust, and Respect. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Steve b	A good wife will stand by her husband in the good and the bad. Also be understanding, helpful, enjoy doing things together, his best friend, and enjoying each other.............and vice versa a good husband would be the same Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ronnny	Trust understanding smart pretty and confident. I come home from work and do what i am supose too. But the once every 2-3 months when the guys want a beer after work i want a wife that will not get mad about it. If i have 2 many she will come pick me up so we do not get a dui. She can come every now and then and have a drink before we go somewhere else. does her half of the house work or what ever ends up being a mutal amount considering our work. Understands my hobbies and junk like i do hers. It is all about talking to the other and giving suport and undestanding with some advice mixed in. rd Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Peaches	I was married to my husband for 52 yrs until his death in 2002 Marriage is a give and take. One needs good comunication, trust and honor your marriage vows. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Da bomb	a woman who I have great conversations with. She cudles with me. She makes me smile when I am depressed. She makes me feel like her hero. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms Pollyanna	I have been married for 27 years and when i was single i looked for a man that had a good sense of humor, someone that liked making money, that means someone with an income, he did not have to be rich. Someone that did not have baggage, like children from different women and that wanted a good life no drama. We are not rich, but we have 3 very good sons, and a home and just enjoy our company together, and every time our anniversary comes up,we say that we have no regrets when we both said I DO! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥	A hard worker, good provider, devoted to his family and GOD, honest, trustworthy and affectionate Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Raquel	I look for someone that holds a good job, likes to go to work every day ( these unemployed men that some women support can take a hike!), loves kids, loves me, loves animals, and enjoys spending time with me in and out of bed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No