Men only , why would a husband not want his wife at home when he comes from work?

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killinshel	lack of interest in you and your relationship. And or something else he wants to do and your in the way... Id be hurt, crushed and POed. It's almost like he is trying to rid himself of you... And he is your HUSBAND.. Meaning your Friend, your lover, your everything.. That is awful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥SEVEN♥	I know you said men only but can I answer please??? Okay, thanks! :) Well, whenever I call my husby at work to let him know that I am going out somewhere, the first thing he say is; "Be back before I get home from work" and of course I oblige. Not that I am scared of him but because of the respect I have for him. I know how much he loves having me around...no matter how annoying I can be lol. A lot of people will tell you that your husband is cheating but that is neither here or there when they do not know your man or your relationship. You do, so you will have to make that call. Just because he doesnt mind if you are out when he get home doesn't mean he is doing something on the side. However, if he has more "suspicious, I am creeping on the side" behavior, than I would definitely be worried. I would just keep an eye on him with out letting him know that I am suspicious. One thing I like to do is act like a dumb bimbo so that my hubby will think that I am clueless to the world. Men feel that they can be less discreet when they have a women who is "unaware" and not suspicous of her surroundings...sad but true lol. SO...only time will tell sweetheart. Good luck ;0 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

baseball_[7]	Think this one through...ok first thing that comes to mind is that he is cheating on you..but don't jump to conclusions..if things appear to be fine btween the two of you he may jsut be planning a surprise for you and dinner cooked on the table.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Logan	Are you newly weds? Did you move into HIS place or a place that you both decided on. If it is the former then I would say that he wants some solace when he gets home. Maybe he has a job where he deals with people all day. It can be trying and I know I myself have days when I am just so happy the wife isn't home! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mouse09	Ladybug, the Jerry Springer show comes to mind? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

McDoom	He can love you and still want a little alone time to kick back and relax, after being surrounded by people and commitments all day at work. It doesn't sound like he never wants you home, just wouldn't mind that opportunity sometimes. Maybe you'd enjoy a little you time, too. That might even be his reason. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

originata	There is a huge difference between him saying he doesn't mind you staying out late and he doesn't want you home. Do you usually hold parades and celebrations as soon as he walks through the door? I don't understand what's so special about you being home when he gets off work. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rachel2009	Woah~ People are crazy! My guess is that he is giving you time to do what you want, which is such a good thing! My husband and I go places separately, we do things together, sometimes I have to call him and say "Hey where ya at, hon?" That doesn't mean he doesn't want you home, it just means he is letting you be an individual. It sounds like you are taking things extremely personally. Poor guy can't win. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Guytheterrible	Wanting and not minding are two different things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*havin fun in the sun*	i don't know i have never heard of that one before. maybe he doesn't want her to know what time he gets home. maybe he's got plans after work. good or bad who knows Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ablex	He doesn't mind if you stay out or he prefers that you stay out? If he doesn't mind, maybe it's because he's a mature person without a load of insecurities and control issues. If he prefers it, maybe he just wants time to unwind without you getting on his nerves. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

THUDD (sounds good)	Ask Him Trust your husband more than Yahoo. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pixie	Maybe he just wants some alone time at the house, my husband doesn't work and I wish he wasn't there sometimes when I get home. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Free Stuff in 2012	I do not know your husband. There could be many reasons. You should discuss it with him. First you should meditate on why YOU think it is strange that he does not mind. What are YOUR expectations, and are you being honest about them. ADD: My most recent ex and I had huge fights, but only after she started her classes. I had a routine where I came home from work. Told her I loved her. Said hi to her son. Then retired to the porch for a smoke and a beer. We got along fine. Then she started classes and talked about our "future life together". The kitchen became her "domain"; she would not let me help cook anymore and huffed around about me cooking for myself. She would have dinner for all three of us waiting when I got home from work and would throw a fit if I was late or wanted to go have a beer first. She insisted that she had no expectations even though she had even changed the way she talked. I am no longer with her but we remain friends. It was not the fact that she had domestic expecations that bothered me, it was the fact that she was blind to them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soon To be Daddy to twins	LMAO i agree with the first answer, he wants to masturbate in peace LOL Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yosh	Uh, he either feels like a bit of time alone, or he might has a sweet heart coming over, doubt it though, I would think the guy would be a bit more subtle than that. Sounds to me like he wants a little independent time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Variable 46	You'll probably get a lot of answers that suggest some sort of deviancy or being up to no good, but a lot of guys just need some "alone" time, and there's nothing nefarious or unnatural about that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Salacious Crumb	empty house agenda [1] spank it like it owes you money [2] take an enormous dump [3] watch "Family Guy" without having to listen to the "pffft! This is so childish" comments. [4] enjoy silence. just - silence. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KJ	that'll give him time to shower and get the stench of the other woman off of himself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)	He wants to come home and whack it at the computer in peace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No