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heatherlynn822	A lot of people would consider it a form of emotional cheating. Your husband is looking to these women to fill a form of intimacy that should be filled by you. I think you need to talk to your hubby about why he feels you are no longer able to fill all his needs..... Print the convos out, keep them in locked desk drawer. Its porbably best to address them ASAP though.... sneakiness and 'hiding evidence' is not the way to resolve problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ŧ Rock Hard F* Safe Ŧ**	hYou really need to talk to him, you trusted him and now you need to show him that the trust is gone. I once found my boyfriend was flirting with other girls at bars, one of the girls was even my friend. Then my other friend said he kissed her. I was so upset and told him I wanted to end everything and tat he was just looking for all the attention he could get from women. You don't need someone like him in your life. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nc_paralegal	It depends on the values and morales you have for your marriage. I think you need to let him know that you are uncomfortable with that. You don't want him to feel that he isn't allowed to talk to other women. He shouldn't worry when he has to talk to a female co-worker for instance, but he should know that flirting with other women will not be tolerated. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kyla~Sures<3	I think it is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

meg420c	If you don't confront him, this behavior might escalate into something worse. He's dumb. He thinks he's getting away with talkin' to other women, and he'll continue to do it until he's ''caught''. It may start out as just a simple conversation, that eventually works into flirting, and acting upon that. Confront him before it gets out of hand. I would just copy and paste the conversations into word and print them out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emily F	is he saying anything that he shouldnt be? doing anything romantic with anyone but you is cheating. ask him about it and say that you dont like it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cc	i would talk to him he shouldnt be "talking" to other women.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anji	I understand that you do not wish for a fight... But - it is your duty to yourself to say something. Let him know that this is unacceptable and ask him to join you in counseling before he ends up meeting one of these women. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PiNkY	Some guys do not feel this is cheating, however most gals do! I would be furious if my hubby was chatting or corresponding with another female in secret. You need to nip that in the bud now, and let him know that it's not okay for him to continue! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kas	I think that you should find out exactly why he is doing this. Also, you didn't specify as to whether they were sexual conversations or just regular ones: if sexual, confront him. If not, curiously ask who they are, where he met them etc. It isn't cheating unless they have met in secret or done sexual things such as used webcam, photos etc. online. But I'd be a bit worried if it was my husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brunette wife	If the conversations between these other woman and your husband are intimate yes its cheating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Angelah	Print em off and save them somewhere....then confront him. That I think is really pushing the envelope of cheating. Talk to him now before it goes further. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TBelle	if he is hiding it from you, then he knows what he is doing is wrong. Email a copy of the log to yourself on a new email account and keep it there. Usually it starts by chatting....then it will go further. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Valerie X Account #10!	I thought "You" were the one that rocked his world? Guess not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jiggley Wiggley	YES!!!! why would he need to talk to other women when he has you to rock his world? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Indigo*	Yeah honey it's cheating. Sorry. if your both cool with it don;t cause trouble. I got in trouble with my husband one for talking to a guy on myspace. Yep. It's cheating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabeHeart	Take the conversation text, switch it around as if it were you chatting with a male...show it to your husband and ask him if it would bother him if he became aware you were having conversations online like that with other men. If he says it would, then ask him why he's been doing it with other women. Two easy tests for inappropriate behavior in a relationship are: 1. Would you do it in front of your partner 2. Would you be okay if your partner did it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dingobluefoot	Anytime your mate invests his emotions in someone else, that's cheating. In fact, it could be even worse than just having a one-night stand with someone he has no interest in. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SaM♥....	yea its cheating Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chica	I'd have a big problem with that and I would want to talk to him immediately. Try not to be too aggressive about it. Go with a soft approach. Tell him how uncomfortable you are about these conversations and that you are always there if he needs you. Do you have a myspace? You could message them to yourself and then save them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jennygirl	if hes flirten wit girls thats cheaten so maybe he is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Philip R	Talk to him about this issue and together you can resolve it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nickyname	If you want to keep them for what ever it is just print them out. I don't know what these convos are but if he is trying to hide them they can't be good. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ramona-please step back!	If he's not acting out his fantasies with YOU... then???????? I'm just saying........... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wings fan.	i would say its cheating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nick_Gr33n	If he was talking lustfully to other women: whether its email, texting, phone calls, or personal visits: its cheating As for hiding them, Highlight ALL the text, Hit CTRL + C Then open MSword, or notepad, or something like that: Hit CTRL + V make sure all dates and such are included. Save them somewhere your hubby won't look Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

therearetwosidestoeveryquestion	I would talk to him...you feel uncomfortable, i don't think your over reacting, its how you feel and it important for both of you to talk about it... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lucky3	Ha um.... I would consider it cheating. Kind of an awkward sense of the word to me though. I'm a guy, and I wouldn't do it. But...I don't really know. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~NIKKI~	who told you it was something guys have to do? that is the funniest thing i have ever heard of in my life...i wonder how our ancestors made it without computers if this is something guys "have" to do...lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

matilda3248	you should say something to him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Mrs.	Cheating is whatever you consider cheating. Some people are swingers and don't consider that cheating. Everyone's rules are different. Clearly you are bothered so it is not appropriate. Don't know about a site that you can keep them in though, sorry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No