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Destroyer of Dumbasses	messin around on the internet is NOT cheatin. let him have his fun. this kind of stuff probably relieves his stress. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bibi	well how about you do it and ask him how he feels about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CE	Cheating. I think it's time you pull out the big guns. Tell him things are serious and something is wrong if he needs to discuss things like that with other adults besides you. I would also seek counseling with him. Something doesn't sound right at all... there must be more that he does in your relationship that you aren't ecstatic about either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jewel	Definitely cheating! He's looking to someone else to fill a place only you should fill. He can't deny what he's doing, you caught him cold! I'm going through similar things with my husband. He joined a dating site online, set his status to single, looking for a meaningful relationship and has been talking with several women, looking to hook-up. He denys it too. But you can't ignore what's right in-front of you. We can't trust these men. They're lying, cheaters. I know I have to breakup with mine and we have a 2 year old son. This isn't easy. I know I feel like my whole world is falling apart. I imagine you feel the same. LIke your husband, mine's gone for hours at a time. How can we trust them, knowing what's on their minds and who's in their hearts? How can things ever been like they were? We have to face the facts of what these guys are doing and stop living in denial. My heart is with you in whatever you choose to do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

suzanne	If you can get in touch with this woman on Face-book and tell her to back off.! Honestly-it beggars belief what the social networking sites are doing to peoples marriages. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

••○ PitBuLL ○••	I definately think it was cheating. I would get counseling or something. He needs to stop being in denial Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Old School	That is considered cyber cheating and emotional cheating which can lead to physically cheating. He either needs to cut this off and it something you need to let him know. I think now is also the time for you to go to therapy. Individual and couples counseling can help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

watch yourself	Cheater. I would check all his phone conversations. if you call up the cell complany they can send you EVERY SINGLE TEXT SENT AND RECIEVED. First do that.. and then if its true. then.... SHOW WHOS BOSS!!!! && PSH! naked bodies? wow. why would people joke around like that?? hes not a teenager or kid... Yeah so call up. and watch more. if you find out that he really was kidding.. DELETE HIS FACEBOOK. :P =] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Praying for A Blessing!!!!!!	Yes cheat is cheating that so inappropriate on so many levels Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CanClawU	Being a married man,he shouldn't even be messing around with any other woman (even though, it's just a "friend"), whether it's facebook, myspace or just texting. I am in a similar situation as you are. You found out accidentally, while I have had "feelings" that my huband is behaving strangely. I saw some really inappropriate messages on his cell phone and I asked him about it directly. He said they were just joking around????!!!! What the @#!! Joking around? You don't joke around about saying intimate things to each other. He said that woman was just a friend of his from his former workplace and that they kept in touch, this woman knows he is married with kids, this woman knows he's got issues. But I couldn't really blame that woman, I couldn't blame her if she does not know any better since it's really up to my husband, too. He could stop it, but he doesn't, he's still talking to her and texting her. Sorry, I know you're asking for an opinion but I truly feel what you're feeling and more. I agree that maybe your husband needs a reality check (like mine). But if you still love him and feel that you could still give him a chance, then, talk to him, have it all out. Ask him what are his issues; ask him if he truly cares for your children. Because, this might sound stupid, but I don't think divorce is the solution to everything. Try counselling. Good luck. Email me if you want. God bless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deja	Bailey is rite!! Even though its just words its still wrong and is something you and him should only be talking about (naked bodies) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rooney	You two need to communicate and if he is not apologetic, remorseful and still denies or does not discontinue contact then I would consider a separation. He is having an affair (emotional or physical), don't let this go, do something about it now! btw- that ALWAYS happens to me when I check my facebook and it goes right to my husband's inbox! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

unsung hero	Doesn't sound like he has physically cheated yet, but he has definately crossed the line.... It sounds like he is trying to lead the relationship with that other woman to sex. He clearly has an emotional bond to this other woman, and has been sharing emotional intimacies with her. You would call that emotional cheating. You need to hire a counselor ASAP, and have this dealt with now. There are definately needs he has that aren't being met, and it's only going to get worse if you don't get to the bottom of it with a professional. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bibigirl	He hasn't cheated, yet. This is how affairs blossom. What if she comes into town one day and wants to have "lunch" with him. This is not good at all especially since you had no idea he was communicating with her and in this manner. Be alert, Honey. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

beebopopop	he needs to stop or it could lead to more things.. he needs to stop now.. now now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ablex	Bullshit. The only people who can define the terms of a relationship are the people in that relationship. If you say it's cheating, it's cheating. It matters not what a bunch of strangers think. What you do next is up to you, and only you. Don't let people who have no knowledge of you, your husband or your situation influence your decision. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PrettyN	It is not so strange for men to go back to their long lost loves when there current relationships are causing them strain. You have 3 children, hence he may not feel as excited with you anymore because you both have the stressful demands of parenting, so he may be seeking to reignite a flame with the ex. Never understood why men do this, after all there is a reason SHE is the ex....She obviously wasn't worthy of a life long commitment for whatever reason. Be careful sounds like he is seeking to reunite if he hasn't done so already! Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natalie	He doesn't speak with you about his feelings, but he's got no problem talking to her. I don't think it's cheating, but it is a kind of a betrayal, nevertheless. I would sit him down and give him a piece of my mind to let him know how I felt about it. And I wouldn't mince words, either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mary	That's really disrespectful...I know how it feels to be cheated on, but never inside of a marriage. You tell yourself it will be easy to just walk away if that ever happens, but the hurt is overwhelming. I can't tell you what to do. Is it worth it for your children to know that their parents are married even if your husband cheats on you? Are you willing to confront him about it again until he admits it was wrong and hopefully stops doing it? Or would it be better for everyone if you just left him? These are questions only you can answer. I know it is harder because you have children. I would say just keep an eye on him...don't be neurotic or anything but if his behavior continues or gets worse, you may want to seriously rethink your marriage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kristal E	Yes it counts as cheating, he's being emotionally intimate with someone other than you. If it was no big deal then he would have told you about it. Ask him how he would feel if it was you talking like that to another guy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Magickman	He is already cheating, or he is thinking hard about cheating. I have been married three times, and I can tell you, your hubby is on track to cheat with another woman. Confront him with it, and tell him no more online girlfriends or else. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kitkat	The ball is in your court, he is not the man he protrayed so what are you going to do? Is this the life you want to live? Now you will always wonder what he is up to and he will always act like the perfect husband. Your choice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JAMIE B	I would consider that cheating. I would be mad if my husband did that to me and probably leave him, you said he has been talking back and forth for a year...and you had no idea, he was hiding it good from you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bailey B	yes, he is emotionally cheating. its inappropriate to be talking about naked bodies and tempting a woman who is not his wife on facebook Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarah	He's fooling you if you think he's a good man. A good man doesn't lie to his wife, or talk to other girls online. Kick him out for awhile. He needs to get a reality check. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mrs_G	Sounds like an emotional affair, which is certainly cheating. The fact that he HID it from you proves that he knew it was wrong. I don't know what to advise about your next move. Counseling, maybe? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No