Is my wife wrong?

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Nexus6	Go to the chippy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kitty	Well, it's pretty selfish of her, I have to say... My husband and I like different things, and sometimes I end up making him a separate meal; but as hard as he works, I feel he deserves it. How did you two handle cooking before you got married? Did you not have some sort of an agreement on the issue? How did you handle it before meeting your wife? Perhaps, you just have to go back to enjoying Chinese takeout and pizza if your wife is this unwilling to compromise. There's nothing wrong with you making your own meal sometimes, or going out to eat - but it shouldn't be a matter or principle for either of you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jozoey	Atleast cook your own meat! If she can cook the rice, pasta or veggies slap a steak or a chicken leg in the oven Cook together in the kitchen not only will it help your relationship but you will get your meat and eat it too!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lily & Stu Too	Take it in turns? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JohnnyRocco	Well a cup of tea isn't that big of a deal. She could microwave a cup( using a tea bag) for you if she really wanted to.Why not try this trick? Maybe she's too exhausted from what she does all day so you offer to make both of you a cup tea that you can enjoy together.It's not that you're asking for such a big thing but women today are so pooped out tired because of working full time jobs or from staying home with kids.They're burned out and feel like they have nothing left to offer anyone by the end of the day. I'm guessing thats what your wifes problem is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dan	just leave it mate. even if you think you have a valid point, and she knows you do, she wont back down. its not worth the hassle. you wont win. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Monsieur Rick	Boiling water for tea and cooking a whole meal is not the same thing. The marriage contract doesn't say she has to cook for you, however, if she knew that is what you expected when you got married then you have a beef. If you didn't talk about it and just assumed, she would not be wrong. These kinds of things must be discussed before anyone gets married. In this regard, both of you were remiss. Maybe you want to hire someone to cook for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

doanel	Cook your Tea? Can't you make a pot of tea? Not that big a thing to divorce over. What's her being a vegatarian have to do with Tea? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nightserf	Either ask her to cook for two and eat vegetarian or cook for yourself--your wife is not wrong, and a man who cannot cook is a pitiable thing. Appreciate whatever she offers out of her love for you, give back what you can, and let the rest go. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mmeghannn	no, you are wrong. if you arrant going to eat what your wife cooks for you then make your own food, or compromise. you make your meat and she makes the vegetarian part. you can add the meat. that way she still cooks for you and you can continue to be a happy flesh eater. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nursecracker	should have discussed expectations of each other BEFORE you got married.... i am not a women's libber, but i will say that an adult individual is perfectly capable of fixing his or her own meals. i love to cook, and usually do, but sometimes, i don't feel like it. what did you do when you were single? perhaps do what you used to do, hire a cook? go out for something or cook yourself..... can't fight city hall! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

D.M.O	no she is in the wrong i know a couple and his wife doesnt eat meat but she still cooks it for her husband and he also cook for her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ChocLover	make your own tea you lazy git! Or get a takeaway!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jae Lynn	divorce. why would you marry a vegetarian if eating is a main priority? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Luke's Wife	well why cant you just eat what she cooks. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Benthebus	First rule of Marriage you are wrong Second rule If you happen to be right return to rule one Third rule You cannot win a argument by using facts alone. Fourth rule I know you heard what she said but did you understand what she meant. Marries 23 years Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amber m	Um ur wife is not wrong because a man can do woman things to and both men and women cook Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alissandrya	Make your own tea. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

i_martindale	Get a take-away Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

General C	eat vegetarian then she only has to cook one meal, compromise man! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justwondering	stop giving her money, tell her that it isn't in your marrage cert Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bugaboo	Cook your own meals. And try eating the same as her occasionally; but grill yourself a steak or pork chop to go with it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2sexy 2cute	She is only thinking of herself, she is very selfish. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KABOOM.=)	why can't you make your own tea? apparently to you, its not that hard. so why can't you do it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jenn	Does she work too? If so, cook your own food. If not, then she should have your meals ready. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Judge Judy of Y/A	Well, it depends, does she work too? If so, then make your own tea. If you are supporting her then I think it's sort of her 'job' to make your tea. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

* Princess Aimee's Mummy *	shes not wrong because being married doesnt mean she has to do everything for you but if you would like her to then ask nicely! simple Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

John B	I hate to say this ... but ... There are really two ways of looking at it ... what is there now that you didn't know BEFORE you got married? You knew all of this. So, the simple answer is: Deal with it! However, having said that, I'd say before you have children and screw up their lives, get out of this marriage. It's obvious the two of you have major communication issues, control issues, and just love issues. You don't have the basics of a relationship, you have a power struggle. And it will not get better. It will only remain the same, or get worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theflynnmom	If you don't like what your wife cooks for you, then cook your own food. That's how it works in my house. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mongo	You should have hasshed that all out before you got married. Guess you'll be cooking for yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michael F	:O Similar situation fella, however I finish work earlier than my girl and love making a meal for her for when she comes in, yep she's a veggie and everything is prepared separately etc, twice as much work clearing up etc. You didn't say if she worked or not? . . Also if I'm late from work my gf will make my dinner. . she draws the line at hadling liver tho . . yeah I think shes well out of order Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No